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My hubby wants me to do a gangbang - advice wanted on what he's thinking please
June 01 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
You've been swingers for 10 + yrs, yet you only show a singles profile.The profile is four fifths of fuck all. Hubby has been at you for months........But now you're happy to do it. Where do you think you are going wrong? Can you smell that?............I know right ..........
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
It’s a recipe for disaster - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's something I'd like to know more about, I know my hubby still harbours a desire for a gang bang and it does make me wonder what it is that so excites men in this way. I hope you get the answers you've asked for! Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Surely the best part of a gangbang blokes is that they don't have to run off and tell all their mates about the hot babe they had sex with....they were all there as well. Badung tshhhhh
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RHP User
8 years ago
What's that I smell? Why, I do believe it's bovine faecal matter!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Please ignore the detractors and try not to be put off asking questions here and/or using the rhp site in general. However there's been more than a few forums in the past regarding this topic. A few are here: https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Gangbangs-do-guys-enjoy-them-or-is-it-only-girls-29018 https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Gangbang-51841 https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Gangbusters-53082 There are many many events held, often several each weekend, that are aimed at multiple men per woman/couple. It's certainly not an unusual fantasy for the men or the women, or they wouldn't be in attendance. A man being turned on seeing his wife with others (be it many or a few, or just hearing about it) is an underlying turn on for many encounters, and certainly in what they call the hotwife scenario. There are many men (and women) here that can't think of anything worse than being in a gangbang. However for those that like them, including myself (luckily as they are essentially the only parties available for single/solo men), the greatest attraction is seeing the woman who is confident, liberated from inhibitions (and as it turns out from possible social criticism), who cannot get enough, who wishes to be pleased by many, and is also interested in returning such pleasure to men in the form of orgasms. Some do not care if the man/men orgasms or not in a play scenario, so it is a delight that you obviously enjoy that and even focus on it. Anecdotally, men are more visual creatures than women (thus the related industries). Women often can create and need an emotive fantasy in their mind and/or have it created by another, yet during masturbation even, a man does not always achieve it to the same extent. Yes something as simple as a partner masturbating in front of us and then premature ejaculation is a serious risk :) So I would say our interest in gangbangs, or any other group sex that swingers are involved in, is a highly visual turn on, and made more so if it is with a partner we love/care about. Many swingers will tell you that the swinging activity only adds to the sexual arousal and excitment when you are back making love in private (the sex afterwards may be hotter than the swinging play). If you have had group oral play as mentioned, which is of a lower health risk, by proceeding with intercourse with that many you will have to ensure that everyone is using protection at all times, and thus perhaps having more than just your partner who is trusted to keep an eye on things for you. Of course it also allows for cunnilingus and to watch it. You wish to understand why some people really like certain things? Sometimes that is not always truly explainable, it is more innate. Like I can't explain my attraction for certain race types over others (I must be racist), or no attraction for men. If you all enjoy it and are safe, you dont need anyone's validation here and just have fun :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I hope I helped answer your genuine question as well :P
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HotNightsGC
8 years ago
The question is do you want to do it? Women who participate in gangbangs usually do it because it’s their fantasy. Unless you really want to do it and it’s your fantasy I would say a huge NO! It should be 100% your decision. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
To go get gang banged. Then if he still loves it, you do it
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RHP User
8 years ago
The op has already said she's "happy to do it" if they've been swinging for 10+ years it's only natural that they might wanna push the boundaries
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Because it reads like she is hesitant. Like hubby is the one driving it. Perhaps it's just the way it comes across
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Because it reads like she is hesitant. Like hubby is the one driving it. Perhaps it's just the way it comes across Her questions isn't "should I do it?" she's already answered that when she said "I'm happy to do it" so I don't know why you see that as hesitation. her question is "why do guys find it hot" and to try and answer that I'm not entirely sure, Ive never strayed into that territory when I was swinging with a partner but I do watch a lot of gangbang porn. Ive always been a bit hesitant to even do a mfm, it wasn't till I started being the regular 3rd for a really lovely couple and seeing how much the guy enjoyed seeing his wife being pleased that I warmed up to the idea of sharing and I guess a gangbang is just an upgrade from that.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Looking at your profile , we wonder if you are for real or not? And we ask ourselves if “hubby” is the one who registered your profile without your knowledge , using a photo of you or a photo of someone else ? How about you verify your profile . It’s a quick and easy process. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
I have firm grasp at the Australian language so there seems to some hesitation behind the words...,, "He's been at me for months to do it. I'm happy to do it - I'm really just trying to figure out the reason behind why it's such a big turn on for guys to see their wives f**ked by like 10 or 15 strangers." If someone was totally into it, why would someone need to be at you for months?And why would you need to know why guys think it's so hot. If l was into something that was my fantasy, l wouldn't care why others may find it hot. I'd just get it done. Maybe the OP might enlighten us?
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
A good observation. We agree with you . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As she has already done blow bangs and bukkake, the issue is taking it to the next level and having intercourse as part of a gangbang. So technically she has done oral gangbangs (by another name) already. Kind of like moving from soft swap to full swap for 2 couples. Having said that the answer as to why the other person enjoys watching it is probably pretty similar regarding oral or intercourse, they are both a turn on to watch, but obviously much limited in interaction for oral only. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
And consequently couples that are engaging in soft swap may take many months if ever to move on to full swap. And there is no indication on how often they swing at all, some couples may only host an event once or twice a year, so talking and encouragement about the next level of event will by default last many months. Even if both have an ideal fantasy it's not just accomplished at the click of a finger. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It’s unfortunate some here have decided they are the experts on the dynamics of your relationship. Some have given thoughtful empathetic responses to your question- take heart from those! I wish you all the best whilst you navigate these untested waters Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
your profile smells like a single guysone pic and ask me ask me aske me and no descriptionhonestly grow up little man im not buying it
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch' And consequently couples that are engaging in soft swap may take many months if ever to move on to full swap. And there is no indication on how often they swing at all, some couples may only host an event once or twice a year, so talking and encouragement about the next level of event will by default last many months. Even if both have an ideal fantasy it's not just accomplished at the click of a finger. - Posted from rhpmobile Countrytouch i am often asked if i will swing when i meet a couple and guess what?i need a connection and an atraction withsomeone and so i am ambivelant if i will full swap with a coupleYou sound like its a given and you are sooo disapointed if it doesnt happen?We met a couple for drinks and dinner and even invited them back to iour spa room but i didnt feel comfortable with the guy so nothing happended My partner is in tune with me and yes she was hot but and he was lovelvy and even though we had invested over 400 dollars into the night i was happy to say thank you and thats all all.We dont meet single guys as the experience is far from fantstic yet with a couple or single girl can be so amazingnot being harsh just realistic
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RHP User
8 years ago
Where did I state I think anything is a given? What I meant is that there are couples that are only on the soft swap level, by choice or that is simply how far they are comfortable with so far. And so it can take a long time for them to move from soft swapping to full swapping, in general. And so it could be read that this is only because the man wants to and the woman is reluctant. Otherwise I actually agree with everything you said (except the accusation of a fake profile). The member is brand new and might simply have joined because they thought, rightly or wrongly, that the forums would be a good place to ask a question. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
In any case I've been to parties where I knew there's not going to be intercourse per se and that's fine. None of the other guys had a problem either because we knew what it was or wasn't about from the description and invite messaging. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Glad you had fun at those parties
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is probably easiest wrapped up by saying it’s just like a real life porno .... I’m a tad voyeuristic and I love feeding off the energy in the experience that she is having.... Which can only really be felt if there’s a personal interest in her.... But I’m a weird one....lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
You didn't. And anyone that knows you knew you would never 😏
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’m no sex expert. I can only imagine gang bangs have been around for nearly ever. Has a younger man, it’s a sex act. I would have never been interested in. Yet, has I get older. I’m finding myself more interested. For a couple of reasons. Obvious one. It’s sex, I’m not getting If it’s what she wants. To be apart of her, fantasy To have sex, with another mans girl (in this case) I suppose the amount of porn, we now get to see. Makes a man, wonder (me). If he could Hope, that makes sense Wang
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your lack of sex may be due to your name a terrible profile pic. Such a huge turn off
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well, this certainly isnt my cup of tea and i wouldnt be sharing with my mates however, if my husband wanted to fuck a group of men I say go for it.. however, I will stay home lol hehehe did you notice my oh never mind
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks guys. WangDang, I remember you and your face pic from your earlier incarnation as GloryBe on the Link the Song thread. How much difference do you think your profile pics and name change have made? Any? I personally love your name and the pics but I have a twisted sense of humour and a desire to embrace enjoyment... Peachy
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trypilot
7 years ago
Are you wanting to do this to please yourself? Are you wanting to do this to please your partner? Is it something that both of you fantasize about and want to turn into reality? This however is not answering your question. From my perspective, and please take it only as that, I find it extremely hot that a woman enjoyes her sexuality, and I as a man would get no greater plesure than seeing a women in extacy, by her choice, and only by her choice. My 5cents ......Trypilot - Posted from rhpmobile
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