RHP

RHP User

F30

My weakness for Daddies & Married men

July 19 2019

Hi, I’m very new here and I’m very inexperienced with sex. Hoping to get a much better understanding and to figure out what type of men and sex I desire. There’s sth about a man who is taken that always turn me on. I grew up in a family where my dad wasnt faithful to my mom and we understood the pain. And the most horrible thing I would ever imagine doing is becoming a home wrecker. But it’s always feel so good to have a taken man want me. I know it’s very wrong but as long as his attention and love for his family is 100% there, I’m all in with some crazy fun with daddies. Is that sth to do with my childhood? Does that sound sickening? Am I a homewrecker? Would appreciate anyone’s opinion. Thanks heaps 💕 - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    You like what you like. You are allowed to like what you like and try various relationship dynamics out. No shame in that. The issue is the deceit. It takes two to tango. So you need to be accountable and responsible for your own actions if shit goes down. You can always seek a trained professional counselling service, if you want to too and if you believe it stems from your childhood. Sometimes another ear and point of view is always a good thing. There's no shame in that either. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    There are plenty of couples out there who are fine with each other playing with others. It’s called open relationship, you can hit on a man like that in one of these relationships, it’s fine. However if you think you need help, nothing wrong with getting help. Having said that human sexuality is very diverse, as long as it’s between two consenting adults, noone can judge anyone.

  • imupinthesky2

    imupinthesky2

    6 years ago

    Welcome Pixie xMs Foxxy is a very good voice of reason and agree with her comment We ALL go thru life wondering if our thoughts and desires have hidden meaning, something from the past, maybe something for the future ...ohhh btw, welcome, I see you are new and want to extend a hand to you and invite you to take a look around, take a seat, if something catches your eye, watch, listen, read ....There is nothing wrong with your limited experience, it makes you true to your values and beliefsI believe we all long for love, that comes in many different forms, but its a basic fundamental for lifeDaddy issues - I don't think so, I think it is more a case of you look for that security, trust and respectAs mentioned, your inexperience doesn't mean you have to sleep with lots of different people, in fact you don't have to have sex with anyone, but if you do, maybe someone who opens your eyes and your horizonslife is a journey, we should enjoy the adventure and the travel with time and exploring ourselves and the worlds we live infeel free to message me, I know I would like to talk more to you :)x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Married, open relationship, fine. Married, going behind partners back, huge no. Maybe you should get some counseling as Foxxy suggested, as someone who was cheated on I would never knowingly cause another person that pain.

  • boxestotick

    boxestotick

    6 years ago

    Call me 👨‍👩‍👧🤞!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I have played a lot with attached men, the reverse of you though, young ones. It appealed to me for a few reasons. Firstly, they never blab, whatever you do stays between you, where I found single guys like to brag to their friends and co-workers which can hurt us, particularly with work. But it was more than that. Like you, I liked giving them what their partners weren't. It became a fetish I suppose, until I was hurt or left high and dry a few times after being cut off due to their guilt or fear of being found out. You will never be their number 1, you will always have to fit in around them, it's all about them, and for me, that wore thin. I deserve better than that. If it's just sexual experience you want, there are plenty of singles who are incredible sexually who can give you that. No judgement here though. I completely understand that desire

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I just hope you dont go through that devastation yourself. As Miss Curious said, I wouldnt wish that pain and turmoil on anyone else.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Your inbox exploded yet ? 💥

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You can't choose what you want but you can choose what you do about your wants.

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    6 years ago

    Is a hard one. Doea look like you are inthe right track. Well, all the best. And maybe when down in Melbourne say hi.

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    6 years ago

    It takes all types. My wife can be insanely jealous of me even talking to another attractive woman but then gets so turned on watching me naked in bed with the same woman...go figure! 😁

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    Just not talked about. Just as younger guys are attracted to older women , there's always been younger girls attracted to older guys. You like what you like so do what your heart tells you. Just be careful that no one gets hurt including yourself. We all have things we sometimes think are unusual , thats until we find out its not that unusual at all ? Enjoy...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If this is a legitimate post and not just some dude looking for messages to beat his meat to... Unreliable father >>>>>> insecure child who thinks it's their fault, they weren't good enough for father to stay on the straight and narrow for >>>>>> want to please father >>>>>> ''daddy'' fetishes/obsessions with pleasing older men when older >>>>>> fucking men who remind them of their father. (Wisdom based on short Grindr phase some years ago - soooooo many young guys want to fuck older men it's scary). That'll be $4214 dollars thank you, please pay at reception. No, we do not have payment plans.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Did anyone read OP profile before commenting? Seems to me very well versed in psychology already. No doubt qualified and admits to being a great manipulator. Very complex profile with many requirements to be met. Perhaps looking for minds to fuck.

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    6 years ago

    Ms_silk. I think you have something there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    oops should have read that first

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'imupinthesky2' Welcome Pixie xMs Foxxy is a very good voice of reason and agree with her comment We ALL go thru life wondering if our thoughts and desires have hidden meaning, something from the past, maybe something for the future ...ohhh btw, welcome, I see you are new and want to extend a hand to you and invite you to take a look around, take a seat, if something catches your eye, watch, listen, read ....There is nothing wrong with your limited experience, it makes you true to your values and beliefsI believe we all long for love, that comes in many different forms, but its a basic fundamental for lifeDaddy issues - I don't think so, I think it is more a case of you look for that security, trust and respectAs mentioned, your inexperience doesn't mean you have to sleep with lots of different people, in fact you don't have to have sex with anyone, but if you do, maybe someone who opens your eyes and your horizonslife is a journey, we should enjoy the adventure and the travel with time and exploring ourselves and the worlds we live infeel free to message me, I know I would like to talk more to you :)x