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My wife is curious

September 11 2019

Is rhp a great place to find my girl a girl.. please help👯 - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    6 years ago

    Im hoping so 🤞

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I was curious two years ago and Red Hot Pie was perfect for me exploring. PM me and will give you some suggestions Hxxx

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    Nope. Trying that is much the same as trying to use Tinder to get a mate laid 😄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    No photos? Why?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Unicorn hunt Never ends well for hunters when they got no profile photos, no self summary, no verification, nothing. Many couples out there with far more appealing profiles. You don’t stand a chance as it is.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Ms Foxy

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    6 years ago

    Don’t smell a rat too soon Foxy. People are at different stages of their journey. If these guys are at the start of their journey they need time to figure out if this place is for them and what they actually want. Sure it’s hard not to be cynical as there are always going to be dishonest people but that makes it harder for the people who are a bit more private or shy about their secret desires!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Agree, there is zero appeal in these empty profiles. And there are many of them on here, most of them just time wasters.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'SSExplorer' Don’t smell a rat too soon Foxy. People are at different stages of their journey. If these guys are at the start of their journey they need time to figure out if this place is for them and what they actually want. Sure it’s hard not to be cynical as there are always going to be dishonest people but that makes it harder for the people who are a bit more private or shy about their secret desires! I and others wonder how many genuine newcomers to RHP are scared away by the attitudes in the forums. This couple could be genuine, this could be their first time and their baby steps. Their profile will correspondingly be amateurish and need work, they will ask some questions on here and the gatekeepers will wrench their limbs from their bodies and make them watch while they do it. Granted, there have been plenty of fakers pop into the forums and they have been exposed as such - and this could happen with OP here - but I don't know that yet and nor does anybody else.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yes beware the gate keepers, they have been quite vocal but very entertaining 😂😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    So if people on here smell a rat then why bother commenting ??.. only started profile last night as far as pics goes why would we share with everyone and anyone tbh discretion is a must for us we would rather meet and chat in person or to start maybe a phone call.. out of all people on here only one very nice person has offered to put us in the rite direction to get started soo thanks for that

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Mr I'm assuming who wrote the original post. Maybe update your profile, add some lovely smiling pics of the two of you, have profile verified, add some validations and write about the two of you. You know, you don't want to come across as a catfish or just a creepy male seeking vulnerable people with a fake profile seeking a unicorn and all that jizz. Happens to often around here and those who can't spot a fake, well they will soon learn. Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Attend events, go to clubs and meet/greets to see other people face to face. You know what to do now. :) Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Because initial attraction is important. Its not an online book club, its a site where you want to meet people. No photos and no description is a big No for me but it might appeal to others. As Miss Foxxy said, meet and greets and posted events are a good way to actually meet others. Yes...proud gatekeeper here, keeping fakes and cheaters out of my life.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    You are honest about all this and you have just wrote the profile then Your topic says your "wife is curious" Why have you filled in yourself as "divorced" Your other half " married" Maybe you are divorced and you have an imaginary wife?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Thanks guys working on profile now we will get it right soon🤔

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    It is a nice pic. Thats a start. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Thank you 💗

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    Do something about the "ask me's" People do presume the worst. So it looks like you are both chain smokers. Nice pic. Also Verify your profile to maximise your chances

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Rabbit234 Uploading profile photos are good progress towards right direction but you don’t need to show your face to whole world. Common practice is to upload faceless photos of yourselves in public album, then add face photos to one of the private albums so if anyone is interested and it’s mutual, you give them access. Lot of people avoid uploading face photos due to nature of their work or their conservative environment. And you can upload photos if explicit nature to second private album to further inflame interest for those you interact with. We have been doing it this way for a while now, once you learn to filter the window shoppers and dodgy characters, you can get quite a few dates and play dates. We had two dates in last 24 hours, one of them ended up with mind blowing sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It’s good to see some people helping the new comers with positive feed back instead of negative. As we were all at that stage at onetime (newbies) Yes it is a learning curve and you Learn from it and still do. Good and bad, but the best advise is to not be negative and help those that have asked. We all have different taste and desires we must respect that! Its about having fun and enjoyment, not making drama. Those that are miss-leading will not get far. Have a fun and enjoyable weekend