NEVER A RIGHT TIME

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Basically Your Fucked she knows and no doubt he kows and when you do They will Know

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Thats pretty sad, a lifetime of torture, for all concerned. So what are saying, if the other woman wasn't in a relationship you would dump your wife?Given that your forty four i would reckon its time to put her behind you and move on (The old outta sight outta mind routine) and focus on the relationship you have, or get out, no easy decisions here.I don't envy your position at all. Hope everything works out ok for you all mate.Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  if ur wife is jealous, its probably because she loves u, and doesnt want to lose u. then again she might just be possesive, i wouldnt know. my advice, for what little its worth, is to just enjoy the feeling of knowing that someone fancies u, but dont fuck up what u already have. theres no guarantee a relationship with this woman would work out. besides, if her husband got really pissed off, u might be opening a can of worms that will leave u regretting the day u were born. its not worth it, man.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Just fuck her and get it over with. You will probably find that your expectations have far exceeded the reality anyway and she is a dud in the sack. Either way it has been interfering with your life long enough. Get over it. It is already wrecking your marriage.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  So to be the devils advocate. Just start a secret affair with her. If she has the same feelings for you then it should be easy. Why not, what could possibly go wrong???

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I was in the same boat a few years ago... (and yes I know I'm very young, and "what does she know about love") I've been with my fiance for 8 years now we're high school sweet hearts, and when I was 20 I met another man, alot older than me (in fact 12 years older) and the chemistry and the attraction we had was so hard to deny, and I truly felt that I had found my soulmate and he the same with me. I was still in my relationship with fiance at the time and and the older guy and I were just mates, but our feelings were hard to disguise. This went on for about 2 and a half years, although nothing sexual ever happened, I was still emotionally attached to him. Despite the fact that my fiance and I do not have the same chemistry the other guy and I had, I couldn't be happier with who I'm with. I'm comfortable in my relationship and I love my fiance more than anything in the world, so why ruin a good thing?? I cut all ties with the other guy and decided that even though I hadn't cheated sexually, I had emotionally and that would be enough to break my fiance's heart. So what I'm saying is... maybe there is a reason that the time for you and the other woman has never been right... time to let her go perhaps and just be happy with your wife. After all... "til death do us part" is pretty serious. Bunnii

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi guys, thanks for the advice. Just yesterday this same woman asked me to join the gym that she goes to.Yes I could lose a few kilo's. She told me how hard she sweated.All a bit of fun talk I suppose. Yes I would to screw her but sometimes I think that ma destroy the friendship.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'OZIMAN100' Hi guys, thanks for the advice. Just yesterday this same woman asked me to join the gym that she goes to.Yes I could lose a few kilo's. She told me how hard she sweated.All a bit of fun talk I suppose. Yes I would to screw her but sometimes I think that ma destroy the friendship. Look... sometimes you just have to screw someone to really get to know them. In fact, I prefer to start all my friendships that way... it just gets the bullshit out of the way. I cannot see how it will spoil your friendship... it will risk your respective relationships no doubt... but people have done worse. Maybe it's inevitable that you fuck and there's absolutely no magic there.. and you both back off and realise the love you have for your respective partners.... maybe you hit it off and fuck up your relationships and family ties and make a gawdam awful mess of it and have to move to Alaska to escape... but hey... you only live once.HugsStalky

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