NSA SEX survey for the gals.......

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I'm not a Gal (Trev here), and since no one else wants to respond to your forum topic, I'll get it started,   but... what do you mean by "No Strings Attached Sex just for the fun of it when asked"   Not trying to have a go at you Mr Perthman, just not to sure exactly what you are asking.   Given this is predominantly sex site, I would have thought that most of the sex that occurs as a result of this site would end up being (or at least start as) no strings attached.   Trev <<< over to you

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  good responce trev-- any comments appreciated

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  But I though this is where I would meet the  Bi man of my dreams....LOL   silly kisses   sweetpetite41

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  yes... NSA is great...and I'm a true believer... but for a girl... it still has to be about a HUGE initial attraction... it just isn't as spontaneous as it is for some guys.... and I quote littlepanda here.... "API" (short for "all girls are the same in the dark and pink and...???... or some such guy stuff :P)... well, it's NOT LIKE THAT FOR GIRLS!!!   There has to be something to really really really set us off initially.... so yes to NSA and having fun.... but not "when asked".... it's always going to be OUR CHOICE.... girls really have a lot of advantages :P lol

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Agree with Sophie to a point. We are not robots so not always when asked, but maybe perthman worded his post a little incorrectly. Everyone is different and in general females think differently than guys..........   and thankfully for that too.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Trish....you're a tease!  I wanna know WHO!!! *giggle*   I think for the most part, girls and guys have a different 'view' on what NSA actually means.  This is how I see it (bearing in mind that I'm married with a young family to consider LOL)....   Online: I am highly HIGHLY unlikely to meet and have a random one night stand with someone who's profile tickles my fancy with little chit chat othen than to arrange a meet.   Out in the real world:  Well, I'm sure most of us are guilty of picking up some random person while 'out on the town', going somewhere and getting kinky before slipping back into the night (or away while they're still asleep in the morning *giggle*).  But all that is long gone for me...   Basically that's what NSA means to me...purely physical, emotionless, often frantic sex.   To me, 'stings' don't have to mean love, a 'future together' or even exclusiveness, they can simply mean a friendship or mutual understanding.  That's when FB or FWB comes into play.  Online, I need to be able to build up a friendship/mutual understanding/trust before I would consider meeting someone - I need to feel 'safe' to take that next step because, lets face it, people can project themselves as what ever and who ever they like online.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Yah... I did that on and off when I wasn't in a long term relationship from about the age of 17, and did so solidly for the last three years as a member of RHP and then met the (bi-ish :-p) man of my dreams in here too.... and as a swinging couple expect to have more nsa sex with Speed and whoever comes our way.   T.

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