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M32

Naughty thoughts of cheating

April 23 2022

Ill be the first to admit its wrong i know :( but goddamn i cant get it out of my head never acted on it, or more accurately the opportunity has never arisen and advice? tips? tricks? should i ? shouldn't i ? please help

Comments

  • Hotwivesclub

    Hotwivesclub

    4 years ago

    I think lots of couples here don't like cheating because it's the opposite of the open relationship and clear honest communication they are bringing into their lives. I've never really cheated but I have been reliably told it can become addictive. That there's a rush from getting away with it, sometimes followed by self-loathing if your 'real' relationship or partner is really a good thing/person.

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    4 years ago

    you need to ask yourself:- If you can't be open, honest and be yourself in a relationship what are you doing there.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with having those thoughts. IMO There is however something wrong if those thoughts/temptations are actioned and followed through. There are no tips or tricks to being deceitful to your partner and others, and not get away with it. The only thing that will get to you and f*ck you over is, guilt and the head fuck that goes with it. You will deliberately pick fights with your partner, in getting her believing it's her (gaslighting). You really want to go down that road all because you had temptation and actioned your thoughts?? If you know, you know. If you don't, you don't. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    All sounds like fun until, one day, you are the one being cheated on, then its not fun anymore

  • wanderlustQLD

    wanderlustQLD

    4 years ago

    Welllll, you have an RHP profile seeking partners, a discreet affair and have listed yourself as "single". Seems you have already decided 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Is it the deception that turns you on?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    *You can't choose what you want but you can choose what you do about it. *1 quick and 100% effective way to get rid of temptation is to give in! *Actions have consequences, you can choose your actions but the consequences are not yours to choose. *Act in haste, regret (or not) at leisure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    My ex never had that problem because my #1 turn on was watching her with other people. So she could act out her fantasies with other people right infront of me. It was so hot

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Yes it’s no good at all, just be up front and honest with your partner, if it’s not working let them know. My ex is still on here has been playing up for four years with a guy who is also cheating on his partner, so they join up make couple profile on here and are having a way of a time.. threes, fours, mores and they see nothing wrong with it. Obviously I do.. and just trying to get information I get in trouble with RHP who said they do not care, the platform is for people to seek something out of there relationships .. anyway I would love to name them and still might do that. But she has so many profiles on here all similar “no strings and FWB” It’s shows more about the caliber of the cheater not person cheated on..