Need advice about premature ejacuaion

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I had lover that would look at me and cum.noo im not a supa model.he had extreme PE.and erectile disfunction.i met him at 28 he is in his 30s now he had these issues entire life.never went to doc.i convinced him to take viagra 2hich completely turned it around.though he still came faster than the average bear he was able to fuk for a while to at least enjoy some intercourse though back sadle and head was a no no as it still made him cum instantly.u can get numbing cream to deaden the sensativity.u need to think about say building a car or putting bike together while fuking focus on something non sexual even say what yr doing .while doing it so yr mind doesnt focus on yr penis and the emtions..ive had a few lovers with 5his issue.my strategy worked for all 3.though see yr doc just to make sure - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Can you explain what it's like. If you cum quick, are you able to reload and go again a while after? Forgive my ignorance but if your partner is up for more, and you're able, I personally love that, but guessing it's not as simple as that?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  You need to practice getting to the edge of your orgasm and holding your cum in. Keep doing this every time you masturbate and this will strengthen your control. I'm not sure the science behind it but you do get better with practice. I'd have longer masturbation sessions too to practice this. If I'm in a seriously hot situation and I'm struggling I take my mind elsewhere. Something basic that I know well that's not sexual, like my morning walk to work. Imagine walking it and which turn you are walking down etc. that should take your mind off downstairs and give you a bit more time! ;-) hope that helps - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I had a problem with premature ejaculation many years ago with my first long-term relationship (which was pretty much also my first sex). I really couldn't go for very long at all, from memory less than a minute, and like yourself OP it became quite the issue for me. It is only looking back now that I realize I was just very nervous about sex. That particular partner was very good at making me feel rather unsexy. She had been dumped by a bloke not long before we got together, she adored this bloke and (so she kept telling me) the sex with him was fantastic. I was constantly reassured that I would never compare to this bloke. She would even ask me to do things that he had done to her, in the same way, then tell me that I hadn't done it as well as he had. It was a highly toxic relationship. I was also rake-thin at that time of my life, far skinnier than anyone else I knew. After that relationship ended it was many years until my next sexual encounter. I had actually started going to gym (I think that is important) and had developed a bit of a lean, athletic physique. An old work colleague of mine and I got together one night, and she made the whole session fun from the word go. I felt relaxed, things seemed to flow naturally. I performed quite admirably that night, was able to go for quite some time. She enjoyed herself also. The whole thing made me feel attractive and sexual, it really was quite the turnaround. My sex life, both in frequency and quality, continued to levels I had never before experienced. It's a cycle that feeds itself - the sexier you feel the more you project it, the more of a response you get, which makes you feel desired etc. I still have the odd time when I get overly excited and want to come very quickly. I find the best way to deal with this is to stop, go back to foreplay, let yourself settle a bit, then go again. I have no idea if this relates to your personal situation, but I hope it helps.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  If this is a life long affliction it is likely hereditary. Go and see a specialist. It has to do with your body's serotonin production. Speak to a doctor about a prescription drug called dapoxatine. Initially developed as an anti depressant it is very effective at treating PE. Good on you for coming forward. Could not have been easy. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  If you are close to popping the cork...squeeze your chest nipple its causes nerve discomfort for a few seconds and you wont blow...I seen it done by a few porn stars lol...

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  And if you can't get a GP that you can talk to

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  pomidave

  8 years ago

  Like most men I had the same problem, there are many things you can do like see your doctor or read a book for ideas and there a lot of pills on the market that may help. I went from a one minute wonder to someone who can last all night I now have the control to orgasm and to cum . As someone else send wanking is a very good way of learning control, take your self to the point just before you lose control and stop and repeat as many times as you can, do this as many times a day that you can, also get self a cock pump and use it as hard and as long as you can but start with 15 seconds twice a day and increase 5 seconds a day . This will help with in 2 week , there are more things I could tell you but not on here happy to chat on the phone if that would help - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  For the advice - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I used to have that problem, and I just think about something I really don't like. Sometimes I have to think about ugly hairy man to make the ejaculation go away, because the partner is so hot... I'm not sure what else you could do. I wish I would have a partner who quickly gives me the first orgasm, have a little break or have a shower and get to the fun business. - Posted from rhpmobile

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