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Needs to know what women I can/cannot approach

April 11 2011

Hello women and women alone,It's hard to explain but here goes, I've never approached a girl before. The two girl friends I've had, expressed interest first, so it seemed to be the trend for me. Been in Melbourne 11 years now, from Queensland and was in a serous relationship for 3 engaged for 1. Now don't bother reading my profile and I'm working on my body, which isn't shown in my profile pic but I need to ask, what sort of women I could approach and have a chance with. Man i can carry conversation, humor, getting down on the floor, all that business and who really cares.I'm dropping the weight I put on after my fiance and I broke up but won't be getting muscles and all that, I dunno why but i find them funny, it almost looks unnatural, lets just say i find it hard to take people serious, that are talking politics or religion that have shoulder muscles that touch their ears, like some varient of the hunch back of cartoon joke bah.This is a big deal for me and i want to start making it happen the way i want, instead of going home on missed opportunities for meeting a girl that could be cool.Thanks ladies and peace.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If its at a pub or club you have to tell from eye contact. Hopefully you can read expressions and know if its a look of disgust or a look of lust. Just make eye contact and take it from there. If she wont look at you dont bother. As for online............Read The Profile and make sure you meet what she is looking for AND Make sure your profile says the same. Its no use thinking that you'd like to find someone to have a relationship with (maybe) and then she looks at the profile and it says NSA (not saying you've done that cause I havent looked). It's just annoying to get contact from guys, look at their profiles, and find they after something totally different from you. Good Luck

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    My advice.. unwanted as it is... is to go for the ditzy chicks.HugsStalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You know at lot of girls look at me and smile but I didn't know why. Pretty pumped to head out this week/weekend and approach a woman for the first time. Thank you so much ticklish, you're very cool. As for stalky, I'm pretty keen to have a decent conversation, not sure if i could bare the entire night with a woman that is about as interesting as a tacky?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' My advice.. unwanted as it is... is to go for the ditzy chicks.HugsStalky I like the brunette. mmmm.:pOP, you can approach anyone, just keep talking and making them laugh and telling her what you like about her. You'll either get laid or you won't, but at worst you'll have a fun conversation.xx sarah

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    men with just all muscles and hardly no flesh are a turn off for me ,,, you seem to have a good sence of humour tymnet, and thats what counts ,, and a happy face pic up ,,im sure you will have ladies happy to meet you !.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You sound like me after I had my heart broken for the first time. My advice is just chill and forget about worrying about it. Enjoy the YOU time and go out and do things that YOU like, no need to think about meeting people if you're doing things you love you'll bump into women doing the same, you'll have something in common to talk about already and you might just find the one lurking around the corner. But don't be too desperate to find her and she'll find you!It worked for me anyway!!Goodluck mate

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    from those women that emit that aura that says don't come within 20ft of me pal or I will tear off your balls and feed them to the cat! whilst screaming every obscenity at you i can think ofCheers Nev

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Study up on body language, that will give you a decent clue how to tell who's approachable, and when you do, how things are going.Cheers Nev

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You sound like perfect wing man material. (I know, I so should have been born a bloke).What you need to do is just get out there and chat. If she's interested (and you're interested) watch out for eye contact and subtle touches. Body language is realllllly important because generally a woman isn't going to say "I want you, come home with me" (although it should happen more often, whenever I've done it I've had 100% success and I'm definitely not the hotty at the table).Online is another ball game. I'm on a sex site. It's obvious by my presence here that a) I fuck and b) I'm up for it. Now just because (using myself as an example) I'm up for it doesn't mean I want to hear how horny you are. Have a conversation with me and find some common ground. I'm more likely to want to meet someone who doesn't send me pictures of their cock (I hate, hate, hate the cock shots) and the first thing that comes out of their mouths is "Are you horny"(insert image of Austin Powers "Do I make you horny babay?")Make me laugh and be reasonably cute (in my eyes) and you'll go far.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Tymnet, you can approach anyone. Whether or not something happens is another thing altogether though. If you make the approach expecting nothing more than a polite brush-off, you'll be pleasantly surprised if things go further. When the local pub finally opened here, I started to go every second Friday and found that it was very easy to make the initial approach if I followed a few steps - sounding a bit clinical, I know...I'd get a beer, and find a place to sit and observe what was going on around me. Often, I'd find a few ladies who piqued my interest, so I'd spend a bit more time watching them to see who they were interacting with, and how they were doing it - this would give me an indication as to whether they were in a couple (move on..), or just having a drink with friends. From there, it was simply a matter of catching their eye a couple of times, and then going up and introducing myself (that's the hard part!) I didn't always get lucky, but I always ended up having an enjoyable night with good company and conversation.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i know the feeling. every r/s i've had has pretty much been by accident. the one or 2 times i've been drunk enough to have a crack at pubs and stuff they've been from different worlds and not my type...my advice, don't worry about approaching girls, that old saying, dance like nobodys watching.... fucking works dude

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    my 5 cents worth..... you gotta be the person you want to attract - I know it sounds all new age n stuff but its true - I found by accident a great guy, and all it took was knowing what I wanted, being patient, and just let things happen in time... and here I am today!! Getting frustrated and rushing doesnt get you anywhere, except disappointed. have an attitude that no matter who crosses your path, you can add something to their life and they to yours... if it goes beyond that then thats the bonus wish you all the best !

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