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New Man-flu virus?
October 09 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
They just chicken out. If they are intimidated by you, then it is their loss and they aren't as confident as they were sprouting. I scare people off too so it isn't just you.
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Hottie1
11 years ago
They are all talk, when it comes to the play they chicken out. It's another example of how some people are, and not just this site, it's people everywhere. I have cancelled two playdates, one because babysitting changed and I gave our friend 3 days notice. The other was on the day (after hubby got some horrible health news) but made another date quickly, and did meet up! I felt awful doing that to someone.Goodluck, it's either feast famine at times but we have met some amazing people :)Mary and Andy xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
It isn't just you, Annie. It has happened to me too. Their reasons may be legitimate but some people just don't have the guts to show. Then there are ones who show that you wished they hadn't (eg. Blow and go-type). Just say, next! All the best, OP. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
around this time of Year I have the flu now the third time since I was on Holiday in May.....:) maybe I should stay home. And each time a bit worth, I am home now and it hid me badly. So it could be right.....:)
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NawtyNNice777
11 years ago
had it happen to me recently... NN xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Bloody hell! And they reckon "Man Flu" is a life threatening sympathy exaggeration...The Annie Flu sounds even worse! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
You get an excuse. Im over the younger guys, they ask to meet relentlessly, you say yes, and never hear from them again. Cyberconfidence turns to cold feet. Not ALL, I may add, have met a couple of gorgeous younger men, but Im more into the over 40s bracket now....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Youre not intimidating at all. Youre a lovely guy xx
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
AKA...Also known as "The Disappearing Act" Sounds like symptoms Houdini and David Copperfield had in common and were proud of. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
BTW - It's not you - It's a regular occurrence on here and sometimes can happen too in real life. I would say, It's happened to most people on here and a common occurrence. It must be very frustrating when this happens. To get over this virus I recommend 1x dose per day of laughter, smiles and hugs from friends. Foxy xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Annie, may I ask how long you chat with these men before arranging to meet? I find that the longer I write back and forth with someone, the less likely it gets that a meet will actually happen as the expectations just build up.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Had a male and female friend both dropped by the stomach bug in the last few days. Doctor's said it was going around quite a lot. But if they don't get back to you at all to make plans for when they feel better [24 hour bugs don't usually last longer than 24 hours] then you know they were full of it and all talk. I don't think the "man flu" problem is half as bad as the couples that pull out on the day because "something's come up with the kids". If you don't hear back from them, you know they used their kids as an excuse. If you hear back from them to make other plans, then maybe there was a genuine issue with the kids. I have had 6 cancellations on the day from couples due to "something's come up with the kids" ! I've also been stood up by 4 single women who I then never heard back from again. I am walking talking proof that it happens on both sides. I've even had one girl lie bout having chemo treatment rather than just say she wasn't interested in meeting. So if you ladies think a guy faking the flu is bad, wait until you get a woman lying about having cancer as an excuse. And to anyone asking how do I know she was lying, I later found out beyond all doubt, that's all I will say.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As quitefrankly just said, I'd they don't express sponge form of seriousness to make another date then most likely they just wanted out. But to the point, I think most it make up excuses because we don't want to feel like we've upset the other person, but whilst its annoying to get last minute cancellation or no shows, I've always tried to be casual in my whole approach to the point that if I got stood up it doesn't really bother me. It s party and parcel of this game and people will always get second thoughts about something in their life at some stage. So I for one wouldn't care at all if someone told me 5 mins before we were meant to meet that they'd had second thoughts, it may have nothing to do with you, and even if it does, as long as you're true to yourself then don't worry about it. I realise easier said than done sometimes though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Please excuse the typo's, using my phone...
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RHP User
11 years ago
whether it is just to meet,or for more,only happen when inclination meets opportunity....xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Call it 'boy flu' or 'yellow flu'. 😋
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RHP User
11 years ago
How many guys out there are pic collectors and story wankers. Would rather toss over a few pics then choke when it comes to meeting with a living breathing sensual woman to offer them pleasure. Never mind. Onward and upwards, right? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's much more entertaining to be a fun lover
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hardly in a position to critique photos, but anyway, Annie is something you aren't, a very genuine and nice guy who takes everyone for who they are. I'm sure there's a good side in there somewhere, let it shine and get rid of that nasty streak.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Another profile created for sole purpose of making a nasty comment. Someone you turned down, Annie? Either that, or the little keyboard warrior is jealous.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'funman9999' for fuck's sake man. man up. there is one common thing about the interactions and it is YOU. Gotta ask yourself what messages you been sending this guys and maybe you just turned them off with your freekiness. Man, not all men like to be hooked up with some OLD UGLY freeky dude. so much drama coming from a man. ya just want to get attention man. Your pics are just not classy man. Cheap freek clown makeup! Seen so many great tv on here. Take hints from the other sexy TVs on here mate. Ya might learn a thing or two and maybe ya might get lucky. I might even hit on you but maybe not cos am not that desperate. Bwahahaha. How rude! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Happens a lot , I get heaps of coldfeeters .Or peeps , all types , just wanting pte access . I have deleted those pictures now and am rather intolerant towards yeah not now maybe next seekers , its now or never ,I have limited time .
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RHP User
11 years ago
weekers not seekers lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sickness in family and I had to cancel on someone today. Feeling like a cow- and a bit resentful- that I'm stuck. Still, sometimes it's real... Sorry it's a recurring thing for you op. Annoying!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I doubt it,perhaps a fungi....Annie can change her makeup,her hair,her clothes but you poor darling, are stuck with you.xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Annie didn't point fingers at anyone specifically. You did. Defensive much? Sounds like you weren't good enough for him, and I can sure as hell see why. Now skidaddle, will you?
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MissBishere
11 years ago
what is with the personal attacks in the forums lately? its tacky people. 👎
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sad, Funman, to be that jaded and you're not even thirty.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Definitely not fun...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' Sickness in family and I had to cancel on someone today. Feeling like a cow- and a bit resentful- that I'm stuck. I've been there and felt both guilty and frustrated. Was tempted to send my date a pic of my thermometer to prove I wasn't making up my fever.
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RHP User
11 years ago
At the troll post - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Calling off a day because of illness is fine. Not calling afterwards to arrange another time is rude. I would never send 'proof' of my excuse.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was kidding about the pic! But yes, I agree with the rest you said.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Water off a ducks back darling. A sure sign you couldn't measure up or even think of going the distance with this bitch. Xxxx Annie
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Appreciate your posts and realise it's not just me. It's all part of the lifestyle. But of course, pull up the knickers and soldier on Xx. Annie
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Thanks Koko, you are a real sweetie as always. Kisses and hugs. Annie
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well guys and girls i am here for fun but not having much luck so far so any females in Brisbane that are keen to have some good healthy clean fun I would like to hear from you don,t be shy and I will turn up.
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