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New and would love feedback /advice please

August 10 2013

Just wanted to say hi firstly ! The forums so far have been a great help and interesting read.as a couple I had no idea getting sex on a sex site was quite so complex?! Not complaining just curious and wanting some advice if anyone would be interested to give some or some feedback ?dos or donts etc? Sorry in advance if these posts have been on here a zillion times! Very new and paid membership but waiting for full access still so clearly need more pics etc and a name change! But pls feel free to offer any feedback on the profile whether it's interesting ? Boring? Too long? be it good or bad All feedback greatly appreciated :) thx for reading so far- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi and welcome Virginclit1.... RHP gives you the opportunity to find like minded people to explore the sexy side of your personality. Just as in the real world' you will find you are attracted to some and not others. The frustrating part is trying to gauge the most compatible to the incompatible. As in the real world, it can become hit and miss. I can't complain with my experiences, but I insist on meeting for a coffee or drink to begin with so we can both get a feel for each other. ( pardon the pun ). I think that's the only way unless your prepared to go to a swingers club for more instant results.. Just my observation ... Good luck , I'm sure you won't have any lack of attention...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Your profile is honest and clear, without the negativity I see in a lot of couples' profiles. (Of the NO SINGLE MEN YOU WILL BE BLOCKED variety). You could use some punctuation though, I find your profile a little hard to read. Paragraphs are great. Now, finding a bi-woman who is interested in playing with couples will be tough, as they are a rare breed. That's why they are called Unicorns. Patience is key. And yes, that username...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thanks for yr input good to know from both of you .And yes I'm sure you are right re punctuation as I am on the iPhone and sometimes forget I'm not sending a text! And yes I hear we are after the elusive woman !! But also would like to try the swingers clubs just to try also ..And yes i guess i dont see the point in being negative just honest ..thanks again for responding - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I do normally write in paragraphs, RHP just hates me today.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Something about this doesn't smell right.punctution skills perhaps ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ok....I'm not really the demographic that you're looking for....however, here's what I get from your profile:- We're a young looking, horny couple that wants to enjoy one, or several women in some raunchy sex. But what I don't see, is what makes you any different to the other couples seeking a bi single woman??? Consider yourselves like a butcher(I know, I know, crappy example) ask yourself after reading your profile back to yourself, why you want to buy your meat from you??? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ok feedback taken on board ! Hardly on a computer (only at work) not really appropriate place to use this ! So iPhone it is and yes punctuation I take that on board and shall rework it :) sirlurkalot ,.being vegetarian I found yr comment pretty funny ;) guess we need to look at why someone would buy our "meat" so to speak !! And yes the username !!!after god knows how many attempts (sexpo was on that weekend n app site was having issues?!) we had all but given up on joining and reentering details and what do u know it bloody accepted that one haha typical ....to be continued - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I suggest your spend time reading some profiles to get an idea because yours still needs lots of work. Why would a single female pick you? All you talk about is what you want. FAIL! A woman wants to know what you can do for her. I would loose all the comments about watching porn as well. You are newbies as well, that would be a turn off for me. Too much can go wrong. I suggest you go to some clubs as per your other thread so that you can say you have a bit of experience. A woman is also going to ask you what are your rules, have you considered the jealousy aspect, etc etc. Be prepared.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thanks for your input.we have actually read a lot of the forums and shall take some time and do this (change profile etc) Like anything takes time I guess to get it right and know what yr meant to be doing straight away on here! Otherwise it's single men and couples and no unicorn action ever going to happen here ! Thanks ;)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sorry but I also need help and it's easier for me to txt so if I can have your number I would like to have some help from you:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Nick43412876'Sorry but I also need help and it's easier for me to txt so if I can have your number I would like to have some help from you:) But call me instead, I'm not good at texting. (02) 9386 5656. (Sex addiction helpline.)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That didn't work, thanks RHP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    One thing.... from your original topic.... ....ditch the "getting sex" mentality.... It suggests you hunt, scheme and manipulate, for your benefit only.... .... when its far better to "share" it..... Just my view. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Concise, simple, genuine and some decent photos. You two should not have a problem.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    "Happy sexual couple, Happy in our relationship, Happy to discuss further with a Unicorn inspired by adjectives of contentment.."Both as willing as each other with boundaries in place" This 50/50 agreement is in place to protect who?.Don't worry the cache of single females (between relationships) seeking couples do come N.S.A by default I imagine.Otherwise she's not a Unicorn but your replacement.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In answer to your question boundaries to protect who? Boundaries meaning sexually ! But cheers for yr thoughts .in all honesty we were new very new at the time of original post and now know no one really gives a shit what yr profile says if they like what they see they will contact simple as that :) As for punctuation blah blah blah not so concerned if someone wants to judge that go right ahead and have fun with that :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I can't see when this thread started as I'm also mostly on my phone ;P Being honest is the key, don't try to be someone you are not. You will attract the ppl who's not for you. Good luck playful, hope you have found what you are looking for. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I like to know a bit more about each member of the couple. Be individuals, as well as a team. What do you offer the unicorn you seek? Why should she choose you over the other 500 couples chasing her? Try and think about it from her perspective a little more. Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile