Newbies37

Newbies37

M38

New couple!

May 21 2025

As a couple still fairly new to the lifestyle, we've had a few positive experiences with close friends and really enjoyed them. We're now interested in exploring further—possibly through lifestyle groups, parties, and meet-and-greets—but we’re naturally a bit cautious when it comes to meeting new people. We’d love to hear from other couples: What have your experiences been like attending lifestyle events, group gatherings, or private parties? How did you ease into meeting new people and making connections while still feeling comfortable and respected? Any tips or stories would be greatly appreciated as we take this next step in our journey.

Comments

  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    one year ago

    Get some photos up and get verified. That might help people reach out to you. Fakes don't go too well around these parts.

  • Bacchus

    Bacchus

    one year ago

    Welcome! You are in for lots of fun! One quick tip... when I had a couple profile with my ex... if a couple contacted us and their profile was "male" and not "couple", we would have not considered them to be legit, and we would have ignored them. So I'd suggest you change your profile to be a couple profile (or if that is not possible then close the male profile and create a new profile as a couple).

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    one year ago

    Agree with neo ,and change your profile to a couple if you who to not sound sketchy Mr b

  • Flexi3rd

    Flexi3rd

    one year ago

    I think what Neo is saying is that you basically get back what you put in. If you want a result give the people something to engage with. A reason to take you seriously. No point lurking in the shadows. Oh and, when you do make a couples profile, don't just put a picture of boobies. All these couples profiles that have 6 pictures of cleavage and no male pics????? I assume hubby is just gunna wait out in the lounge until everyone else is finished then.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    one year ago

    How about starting with a couples profile 🤔

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    one year ago

    Social meets are a good place to start while you’re dipping your toes and don’t want to commit. You’ll notice some regulars as well. I don’t much like the venue or club experience for plays as it’s too exposed for me. Private parties are that right combination of intimate and relaxed I think. Personal preference really. Just remember, it’s quite ok to say “no thanks” at any time and that will be respected. Most people aren’t dicks. It’s quite ok to take your time on the night as well, no pressure. Have a glass of wine and enjoy watching the free porn

  • jhonpet

    jhonpet

    11 months ago

    That’s great to hear you’ve had some positive experiences already! When it comes to exploring with escorts in the lifestyle, are you more interested in private encounters or attending events where professionals are part of the scene? Have you considered booking an escort couple experience to ease into things together? Would love to hear more about what kind of connections or settings you're most curious about as you take this next step.

  • AmyM89

    AmyM89

    9 months ago

    I attended my first LS party on the weekend with my bf. It was incredibly hot, and overwhelming (lots to see and explore), but the people that we met where amazing!