M36
Newbie and keen to meet up, but everyone is all quiet.
January 12 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am assuming it is your youthful naivety speaking. You cannot make the women here do anything. Just as you cannot make them do anything in real life. The art of flirting and seduction with words are your best tools on line. Attract a woman with your polite messages and be respectful. If you do, you will stand out from the crowd - in a good way. Women on this site are vastly outnumbered by men and so we can pick and choose. We will decide who we communicate with depending on whether we like what we see. Just like real life :) My suggestions are as follows:-Tune up your profile. Use your words not the stock standard profile suggestions. Tell us a little more about yourself - in your words. Read the hints and tips on this site to helpAttract a woman with your polite messages and be respectful. If you do, you will stand out from the crowd - in a good way.Don't be pushy but make sure you answer any of her messages in good timeDon't be rude or abusive if they say no Hope that helps
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Sodium pentathol works sometimes. But l usually use a combination of that and waterboarding. Cant shut them up then which is a more common problem.
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RHP User
9 years ago
You made me choke on my coffee. 😅 - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Lmao - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Like anything else in real life, you must get the right target audience to begin "the show", that is, read profiles thoroughly to know if they are into younger age men. Then be articulate of what you're after, be polite, respectful and creative in your messages to those women whose profiles caught your interest, and that you're matched with their criteria too. Cyber world and real world are the same, there needs to be a mutual interest in place in order to get things started. I don't speak for any women, but for me, I would not be interested to chat to men who are younger than me, or much older than me. Age is not just a number to me, and in my experiences! So age is one of the attractions if I was available to meet new men. Hence my point is, you need to be patient, be sure you are contacting the right women who share some of your (sexual) interests too. Do not bother to persuade women who are not into you, as they would know their answer no matter how hard you try! 😊 Not sure if you would roll your eyes when you read my comment 😜 but online world doesn't give anyone the right to be demanding, expecting, or rude when approaching a potential target! 😁 and it doesn't matter whether or not there are more men than women online! I would still not throw away my standards even if there was only one man left in this world! And I'm sure I'm not the only woman that thinks like that! 😎 Good luck Graham90, hope you get what you're anticipated eventually 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nearly spat out my tea
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Machariel
9 years ago
annie gessh....... thats what I am doing wrong
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On_Safari
9 years ago
Is any different to the real world? Curious.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ha ha....love it. ... That's what I signed up for ..... someone to talk to.... ;) There's nothing i love more on a Friday night.... So Graham we're all talking......the question is.... Are you listening ????...... BTW....how do I get them to mow my lawn ladies ?????? (No I don't mean cut my grass either ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Cos with a 96% reply rate according to RHP, I don't seem to experience anyone's quietness.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Catch more flies with honey
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Machariel
9 years ago
Story you say 97%. Mine would be more like 1%. 🤔you must be laced in catnip to attract and heroin for them to come back for more. 😀😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes i am listening and thankyou for the advice ladies. I believe i am polite and respectful. The pic i have is a good one and have others willing to show once friends. I guess i may just have to be patient and play the waiting game.
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RHP User
9 years ago
That's what happens when you send yourself messages 😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hahahahaha, dang it, I've been exposed :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Machariel
9 years ago
at the rate I am going on here,, I think if I would send my self a message here, I probably wouldn't get a reply or "thanks for the message, but not interested" lol gotta laugh about it.
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Machariel
9 years ago
Summer, the ratio is a lot higher than that.. it is probably around 20:1 , RHP doesn't let you remove your profile if your female and leave. I am finding a lot of accounts are dead accounts that haven't been active in +12 months or more... about 75% are that I can see. I pity the active females on here, they must get blasted with daily messages. :) I would be happy just to receive one every now and then lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ill add i'm probably more likely to reply if there is a question asked in the message - something to do with the non sexual interests listed in my profile is good.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Do you want to met and grab a drink? :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Im new to this site also but its not rocket science...... its no different from meeting someone for the first time or even saying hello and starting a conversation with a stranger. If you can't be respectful, confident and entice them to want to chat then you A) need to look at what your saying and how your saying it or B) look at who you are trying to talk to. Read profiles, ask questions, be respectful and play to your strengths. It doesn't have to be about sex straight off the bat...that's the end game! Summer_in_sydney had great advice !!! We should discuss that further Summer 😉 Dont get disheartened mate. All the best!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Without even going into to look at your profile alot of women will be put off as they're just as visual as men. Definitely agree with comments thus far about matching with women who fit there criteria. You will rarely receive a reply if your not genuine,cheeky,intelligent and taken notice of what she writes in her profile. Always make an effort in your messages and write something that confirms something about her. (Been polite with manners and correct grammer.) Always compliment her on something that you like (Her words or photo.) Ask a question that envokes a reply. Don't expect a reply straight away if at all. Personally and giving away a trade secret here. lol (Stop chasing them.) If there really Intrested they will seek you out.) Make sure you your profile doesn't waffle on and never talk yourself up. And if you follow Collingwood just quiet right now and become a priest cause they'll need someone upstairs to help win a flag. 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Very easy to allow auto check to stuff up what your trying to say. Meant to type Be polite instead of Been 😉 Women can be spelling Nazis - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Why would anyone think suggesting to meet for a drink (or anything else for that matter) would be a good idea without having at least a basic conversation first to see if there was enough communication to warrant meeting being a good use of time?! Odd. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Katkat
9 years ago
Summer I'm real I just I prefer to be invisible at times 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
and a lot of active ones that are fake, men I mean, not even female at all. But that's not the problem here. The op is hiding with the vision, what else are you hiding? Due respect but it's not rocket science, and you wonder why women aren't replying? I wouldn't 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
When I posted my comment, all the above on page 2 weren't showing. Summer's on page 1 was the last comment I could see, just that it now looks like I jumped in on the back of other comments, not the case, all these comments only just appeared. Stand by what I said though. op you said your 'picture' (singular😉) is a good one. Is it? I can't see it. My eyes aren't aren't great though, maybe it's just me 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
which is why I had to type a word twice, obviously didn't see the first one 😂😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
20 to 1, better chance in facebook then lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for the advice ladies and gentlemen. I might look at changing my picture and seeing how that goes. Was thinking possibly my age could be off putting to women a little older. Any thoughts? I am very mature and respect women. People who don't know my age always presume i am alot older. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Im hearing ya graham90... it definitely aint as easy as is "presumed" due to it being an adult..hot fun sex anyone..type of site... I find internet dating in general shows off the desperation of men like no other place can...bit sad for us guys...and women get a lot more offers/options and can pick from their offers and chase so to speak...but hey we just have to get back up and keep trying...ive contacted women I thought were pretty much spot on...to get that famous "sorry not interested" and its like missing out on that job you thought you were perfect for...confuses the hell out of ya but not worth thinking too deeply about...there actually isn't a secret to it because every person/woman is different but I think it can be harder because you are also competing with couples so more options/offers but its the nature of the beast...I agree with being respectful and even some of the ladies profiles that are overtly sexual actually don't want you to be.. One word of advice I'm following nowadays is not disappearing...I think there are some regular fun people on here and ive met a couple of women here and there and I think if you stick around you might find some fun come your way...and be honest...and reliable...I think the word of mouth is quite strong on here and better to be all you can be than someone you cant be....good luck mate and keep getting back up!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi guys I'm a young fella looking about this site but can't seem to get any replies would you say it's because I have face pics in private albums? Any tips will be greatly appreciated!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I personally have not had one male under 30 actually turn up to a planned meet. I'm unsure why this is. So as a result I typically won't answer anymore unless I find the profile to be very interesting. Also add a photo. Hope this helps. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm on here with my partner and we don't want to talk to men for the very reason you just highlighted!
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