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  HotNightsGC

  8 years ago

  We certainly get way less single men flirting now. Not that flirts bother us, but if you don’t include it in your profile, you get so many sleezy one-liner messages. So many single guys think it’s ok to show very little respect for couples in their manner of approach. Don’t blame couples for putting a ‘no single guys’ disclaimer in their profiles. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  1. Ours is not, nor has ever been, written in massive writing. We have tried to phrase it in a polite manner, that we are not currently looking for single guys. Despite this, many simply message us regardless. Either they have not bothered to read though our profile wording, or they have. If the latter then they are , in our opinion , simply taking a chance regardless and are disrespecting our wishes. Not the sort of people we want to meet. 2. Being bombarded with unsolicited messages containing dick photos, is for us, an instant turn off and speaks volumes about the character & intellect of the person sending the dick photos. It reminds us of the “flasher in the park “ mentality - clearly if they send dick photos against ones wishes, then they are disrespectful idiots. We make clear mention of not being interested in receiving dick photos. It’s an instant block if we receive any. You don’t walk up to someone at the bar and wave your dick at them and therefore why should you do it on here ? 3. What annoys us the most ? Disrespectful, crass messages, whether they contain dick picks or not, as in both instances the sender has ignored our polite & very clear requests. They get added to our block list. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  blondes6365

  8 years ago

  This is Mrs Blondes for your post if a male can only post dick photos goes to prove your over confidence in what you can do its not about the size its about the lead up but thats just my opinion

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  We put a polite message in that we weren't looking for single guys and the number of messages we received from them dropped to almost nothing so well done single guys ;) When viewing a couple's profile the first thing I'll look for is weather they're looking for single guys and if they're not I usually wont read the rest of the profile and just move onto the next.The only exception I'll make to that rule is if I notice a couple has viewed my profile several times I which case I might send a polite "hey I've noticed you've giving my profile a few views" and then I'll introduce myself

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  for No.1 - couples or bi/gay women or unicorns, who are not seeking single men, put in big letters at the top 'LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP'. They do a Uey and head straight back out 👍 2. Dick pics, it's not the quantity that bothers me but rather how they go about it. Sending them uninvited is most often the prerunner to asking for mine. The majority of 1st or 2nd messages I don't reply to for that very reason (if they ask, if I want to give them I'll offer, otherwise nada) would blow your mind, along with same old same old little tricks they try, interstaters claiming they live here and so on 3. Picture hunters and 'let's fuck tonight with no hope of a second meet but I won't care because I've got my dick wet with a random woman, couldn't give a crap who she is, but I won't tell you that. Your bullshit radar will start to go off about 2nd or 3rd message though' lol 😇

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  As to why these same couples, seemingly check out single men’s profiles?? I’ve had a fuck load of people in the last 2-3 days, about 123-130 views this month kinda traffic, and a good percentile of those looking at my profile, aren’t even seeking men... I would dearly love to know the logic behind that when my pic, clearly show 1 man...the subtext on the forum shows “man” not “couple”... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I hate that term but unfortunately that's how it is "such as life...". Different people have different approaches and from what I've read searching, some women / couples get overloaded with options and emails. If you receive 50 plus winks/flirts/messages everyday, have you got time to read them all? And if over half of them are "come get a load of this luv" then it's not really that interesting even clicking the message. So I can perfectly understand why people would put "No Men" in their profile. It's kinda like "no junk mail" on your letter box I guess in some form - we like the once a year Christmas Victoria's Secret catalogue in our mailbox, but to have to put up with the 500 other Jim's services and Reject Shop brochures in between that aren't worth it (sorry to those that like Jim's and Reject Shop ;)). In an attempt to be "the nice guy" if I see a couple that says "no men" I just stop right there and move on. In fact even when I search couples that are seeking men, and ticking the"looking for me" option - I see on their profile as having 'Man' in their looking for but still state in their description that they're looking for couples and women I move on. I just don't want to add to the number of men giving the impression of 'pestering'. It's simply respecting someone's wishes. It does blur the lines a little that some couples who actually don't mind the odd guy here and there still have "no men" in their profile, but my guess is you'll never know who they are unless they ask you - so once again, not worth initializing the conversation by my risk analysis, but as long as that is happening, men being men (not saying it's right), some will still try their luck. In addition to that, a long time ago I was in the chatroom and a couple was checking me out a fair bit so I sent them a message via the profile and copped a massive load of abuse for it, so because of that I'm very hesitant of even chatting to couples in the chatroom that aren't looking for guys. But at the end of the day that was my misunderstanding. - AntiChrist - couples may not be looking for men per se, but it doesn't mean they don't like to go window shopping occasionally. Just like occasionally I like looking at nice couples profiles that I might have noticed via the amateur pics comp that aren't looking for men just to have a read about them and check out their photos. I can understand though that it is very difficult as a solo guy to get anywhere here with couples. Since going premium again Christmas day, I've messaged quite a number of couples (looking for men by their profile) and received only a single reply (that wasn't a yes), to the point I've just stopped messaging now I'm back at work. So I sense a bit of frustration going both ways, on this whole couple vs male thing, but it is what it is. I think if as men we took rejection a bit better and all just had a bit of patience and manners, the stigma wouldn't be as bad as it is and there'd be less couples with the "NO MEN" thing. As guy you've got to understand that the male half of a couple is somewhat the female's protector, he's looking out for her, he's not going to just let any male creature with a hard on come touching the woman that is precious to him. You've got to realise that it's a privilege as a guy to be invited into a couple's intimate space. But really I'm just guessing from what I've observed (I don't profess to know the answers...), and I doubt men as a whole (generalising here) will ever change signficantly, so I would say this whole thing will just be for the rest of time. Pondering some more, I think it's actually potentially easier to find and partner up with a solo female that is also wanting to be with couples, and then go hunting. Now there's an idea... :)

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'notmyrealname' Pondering some more, I think it's actually potentially easier to find and partner up with a solo female that is also wanting to be with couples, and then go hunting. Now there's an idea... :) Perhaps, but the way I see it, I would rather them be interested in me, as the individual as I am, as opposed to such hypothetical girl on my arm making all the difference. Thus I would hesitate to get involved with some couples even if I was half of a couple myself one day. But no, it is not easier to find and partner up, than have success with couples, in my experience (still looking). My advice, don't limit yourself to just the one site, and, like you are doing already, ONLY contact couples who have expressed a possible interest in who you are now.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Plausible I accept.... I still find it weird.... lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'the_antichrist' As to why these same couples, seemingly check out single men’s profiles?? I’ve had a fuck load of people in the last 2-3 days, about 123-130 views this month kinda traffic, and a good percentile of those looking at my profile, aren’t even seeking men... I would dearly love to know the logic behind that when my pic, clearly show 1 man...the subtext on the forum shows “man” not “couple”... Apparently if people are perusing profiles on a mobile device they show up on your profile as having looked at yours even if they were just swiping past. That was a thing years ago, don't know if it still is. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Again a very plausible explanation... Except they’re not local...so I’d assume that I’d come up on that part if they’re in different states ...like WA, QLD, and ACT ... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  A sexy chick profile the other day with this on the title line 'ABSOLUTELY NO COUPLES!!!!!!' 😂😂👍

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  If I thought a profile was particularly arrogant and insulting I’d hit them with a few flirts. Just coz.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Abi and I have a couples profile on another site and we do say we are open to guys with conditions. We get fuck all messages and if we do and they are totally off point we just say no thanks. I always feel couples who write in block caps "NO SINGLE GUYS" are subconsciously showing something...the psychology of it suggests insecurity on the male part about their place in the relationship. That isn't meant to be inflammatory but my opinion based on years of reading and personal experience when I have felt that way in relationships. - Posted from rhpmobile

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