No shows

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You get better at weeding out the flakes as you go along, but even then it happens.I've found it's good to confirm plans on the day, a couple of hours before your going to meet, usually if they are going to be a no show, you won't hear from them at this point. Make your own plans to have a little fun together and know they've missed out on a fantastic opportunity.Be wary of photo hunters, they'll grab em and run, which is silly because there is a whole wide web of porn out there for the taking. Don't let it put you off though, there are lot's of genuine people on RHP and lot's of fun to be had.Good Luck and Welcome

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Had a no show. I will admit to getting either slack or busy and not getting around to organizing a meet then not continuing contact. I always feel bad about that.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  So understand the frustration. As others will say just try weed out the bs. If u need a guy......;-) Best of luck- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  If single males like myself weren't treated like second rate citizens from the start then couples may have a better success rate. I've been finding that many couples don't want to risk sending reply messages to me because of all the unreliable knobs that don't follow through....THANKS KNOBS for wrecking an easy going, fun and exciting rendezvous/ meet & greet for the rest of us. If guys don't rock up as discussed or arranged they should be given a big public/ RHP - NO SHOW VALIDATION or something to warn others of their crap profiles, don't you reckon? Well anyway, I'd appreciate more genuine responses from couples too. Sexy, adventurous, playful couples message me and I promise to keep my word, their discretion with a view to making new friends that I can see again & again from time to time.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hey sharingmylife. I've never had a no show, but if I were to travel, I'd want to cam first to see if there was genuine mutual interest and attraction. It may instill a bit more confidence in those who are hesitant for a multitude of reasons. I understand from other people's stories that there are plenty of BS artists out there, but I don't want to get too cynical. I imagine establishing a rapport that leads naturally into a face to face meeting is the best way to go. With couples, its super important for me to see that there cohesion between the two of them. If one is keen and the other has reservations, I'm not going to rely on the heat of the moment to convince the second half that its going to be worthwhile to get their kit off. How is your approach to screening? Do you take time to get to know the others first, or are an open book and suggest meeting straight away?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Sorry to say this, but blaming other people for someone just not that into you is just a little pathetic...don't you reckon?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I've probably met about 20 plus folks in the past. I never had a no show. Actually, I did sort of have a no show. My boyfriend and I had got online to look for a 3rd guy to join us at that moment and he agreed a few years ago In about 20 minutes he rang to say he changed his mind so we made other plans. 20 minutes later he said he was at the motel and just wanted to see me. I guess to see what he missed. When I went outside he started to plead to join us??????? I said, sorry mate, you said you weren't coming so I have arranged something else. lol He's possibly still ruing the day now that he missed out on a hot threesome lol

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I haven't had no shows when arranged. I have had mind changers prior to that and people who obviously have no intention of going further than a cam session or dirty chat.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  But there was one woman who actually was chatting to me and gave me her address and said come on over. Seemed quite genuine, but I had a flicker of doubt in my mind. Turned up, no answer, didn't have her number so just messaged saying where are you? Waited a few minutes and then left, figured maybe had wrong address. Got a message later to say sorry i must have written the number down wrong and when you didn't show I found someone else! So thinking this is totally suss, I forget about it and move on, it happens. Then few weeks later, she says I'm bored come get me lol and gives the corrected address. I'm figuring I've got the time isn't far away, I bet she isn't there. I was right. This time instead of being pissed, I think it is a game and again a week later try again, different address again lol and not the right person. But she did make a mistake. Always the same unit number and only so many units on that street! So I message her and she goes are you always this gullible? I said I know you are pulling my leg and I've been having fun just turning up! But after that message try the remainder of the units on the street and on second last one I say are you so and so from RHP? Hear a gasp and I say, thanks but not interested. Profile was gone by next day. Never had any intention of meeting or further contact, but who knows how many other guys she played and makes me smile when I remember it! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  So I was chatting to a guy, emailing and whatnot. He was keen and I thought, "you know he doesn’t tick all the boxes but the conversation has been good and he seems to be on the same page". So we organised a meet. I arranged a babysitter, made sure I had $ to pay for myself, shaved my legs, wore nice clothes. We met and had a chat, he needed food so we relocated to find some. Then we decided to see a movie. We paid for our own tickets and snacks and sat down in time for previews. Not even 30 minutes in he said he needed to go to the bathroom and make a phone call. And he never came back. I've had people cut off contact as soon as you seriously mention meeting IRL. I've had others arrange a meet and then stop talking to you the day before. I've even had people tell me they were on their way who then never turned up. But this is the first time I've had somebody just walk out. In the end I just feel crappy about all of it and am left with zero desire to meet anybody else.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'InarasaurusRex' And he never came back. Oh. My. God. I am stunned that someone could be that rude! But don't let it put you off meeting people Inara.... just be more vigilant with your vetting process!! Good luck!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I was laughing at first... But I'm sorry to hear that you met this douche... At least you got to enjoy the movie 👍 I have yet to be stood up... This is not a challenge folks 😎😎 I have had people vanish after they initiated contact... Meh, their loss... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

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  Paradisepair

  12 years ago

  But last minute changes of plans seem to happen from time to time...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I have had a few no shows. I had one guy show and when I politely said I was not interested he thought it was alright to hit me. I have not had the courage to meet singles in public since. I met a few nice guys at a friends gathering instead and pretty much only venture out as a couple. - Posted from rhpmobile

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