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No strings attached.... What does that mean anyway?
February 08 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
I always get emotionally involved when it comes to sex. I get tangled up in all my strings like an epileptic spider. The ladies seem to be able to detach all emotion from their vaginas and just go for it - dump you by the wayside like a piece of meat and move on to the next poor guy. I always try to leave some sort of bite mark on their neck, to warn the next unsuspecting guy... but it's failed as a universal warning sign, possibly because this is the first time I've mentioned it. Not sure... there could be another reason. PS - Stalky - You are right as always... although I've never had a completely anonymous sex club encounter because mum would never sign the admission slip, and now I think I'm too old. Anything more than sex is the beginning of strings. But some strings are OK because I think it'd be odd to have sex with someone I hadn't got to know a little first. Probably because I'm a dud root and need my sense of humour to make up for it. PPS - Just kidding... I don't have a sense of humour and am a wonderful lover.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I fail everytime! I like to be an ongoing friend...But men are such sluts..:) They run if you show you want to be a buddy...What's with that? I always feel the emotions..How can I not..I have been intimte with him. ahhh..well...... huggies sweetpetite41<<xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I totally agree Stalky ! You are absolutely right. The NSA relationship rarely happens on RHP. I read that line all the time but with the communication beforehand it changes all expectations etc. I've done NSA but I think I've moved on and am now looking for something a little more "ongoing". The NSA does my mind in !! I HATE it when the guy says all these wonderful things to me but he clearly just wants a casual fuck. I've started to tell guys who have NSA on their profile that I'm looking for something more meaningful... the guys usually say "great... I"d like that too !" I"ve NEVER had a guy say "oh...ok... then best we not meet !" They cant be honest with themself or me! Yes...guys will say whatever it takes to get in a woman's pants ! (For some reason I don't need to say a thing and I can still get in a man's pants !!!) I think random fucks in clubs etc are the only true NSA. xxx Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
I cant keep up with you blokes....one minute you're inglorious basterds.. next your all hysterical crying out for validation! So....what do you want for Valentines Day? The blooms or the pricks??... Manned up myname
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RHP User
16 years ago
lolz.. Well Ms Saturn, I would like to take you to task on a couple of minor differences.... guys do not always say whatever is necessary to get into a woman's plants. :p As for the the "ok.. best we not meet" (for sex) thing... guys are probably extraordinarily clumsy in the ol' execution department for that one.. but the "no shows" we all read about.... that could be them... or married guys... or both. Oh.. and your last all encompassing comment about guys that will say whaever it takes.... Well... that's just uncalled for! ... So now you are saying all guys are easy? That I'm some kind of a slut or something.. :P? How rude! I'm not wearing any pants. Come around and take a look if you dont believe me... please. Hugs Stalky<<< feining pout.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm trying to appear all sensitive... Shit. hehe. Cant get away with anythign around here anymore! Fuck the roses. I'll take the chocolates.. there are chocolates aren't there? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
it's the bloody rubber bands and the rope which hurt...cheers...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have LOTS of chocolate... me and chocolate and in a long term (til death do us part ) relationship. Stalky, I will get to my knees and bow... you are right... of course !!!! he he... you are male after all ! You can share my chocolate anytime... the problem is you may have to lick it off my body ! xxx Miss S
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RHP User
16 years ago
It means that if one day that, you say that, you care If you say you love me madly, I'll no longer, be thereI'm not a puppet on a string I'm not a puppet on a..... string
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RHP User
16 years ago
Being an adult allows us to make a choice..Should i shouldn't i ? We are on a meeting site for adults..Are we getting too serious here? Lets dip ourselves in chocolate and chill xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Shut up? How very daaaaaaaare you!! Only way you could achieve that lil miracle is...can you guess??...yep...sit on my face and tell me you love me! Actually, no, that won't work! Straddle my face and feed me!! Yes....by George I think I've got it!! Yayyy! Doin a lil jig.. Just be sure to man up b4 you come over cos I can't abide sooki la la's
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes Mistress.. Oh god yes... hehe Errr.. ooops.. Help me Jean? Jeano?... Why is he nowhere to be seen frst sign of trouble? Jean, if you are reading this... I think I busted Rule Number 1 wide open.. wide wide open... vis vis... never make the mistress cranky.. 'cause you're gunna be sorrrrey" hehe. Of course Lippy, Miss! I'm trying to be good. Jean distracted me. It's his fault. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I beg to differ with some of you. Why can't RHP hook ups be NSA?? I am married and i want to meet men in similar situations for sexual encounters. I dont want to be dated. I don't want emotional involvement. I don't want to be sent texts a million times a day. I am not going to run off with anyone. I just want adult fun. Even if you meet the same person time and time again, then that is all it is. NSA adult fun
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RHP User
16 years ago
If I only have sex with someone once or even twice, and especially if he's not that great at sex, I don't have expectations of anything ongoing. But yer right Stalky, the longer it takes to set something up, the more you feel you know something about the person and that you like them as a human being. I finally succumbed and had sex with someone I had been flirting with for two years and after two months ended it because I knew I was getting far too attached and wanted more from the relationship than a semi-regular fuck. That's why I say on my profile that I am looking for something meaningful. Casual is somewhat dispiriting to me. Not so wild
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss_S?? Oh yum. grrrrr. Chocolate coated lady's armpits. .. mmmmm.. exquisite delicasy... I think I'm having a Homer Simpson daydream moment. Miss_S I've had an epihone.. What that? Yes another one. Sorry .. last time I promise... well ererrrr... I think I'd like Jeano to help with the painting :p and such... now hear me out.. you see Jeano and I have been hanging out together apparently in my basement ... so I figure we, that's Jeano and me, should paint you with yor chocolate by dipping our dicks and using them as spatulas. Yeah.. well hot chocolate? Ok.. errr... (Jean pack the cammomile lotion). Oh and Miss_S .. I thought we could give you a bit of a cock flogging while were at it... wacking.. yes.. basically we hit you with our.. well.. its easier to do than to explain... you'll see .. and it's good for the curculation you know.. and well.. Huh? Yes of course... Well it was just an idea Miss.. WHat? You're the ideas man? shut up now? Ok. Hugs Sticky Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Be loud and proud in your quest.....just as the others with differing opinions are... whatever your goal....go kick the living ptooody outta it!! LOL@ Trish's magnetic approach Stalky...grr...baby....grrr
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry to pause the banter folks....you know I love to get my teeth into something I can chew Stalky ;p....and NSA is one of my favourite topics.... I understand NSA to mean random sex events. Two horny people, who meet and fuck - with no plans to meet again. I can only talk from a single gals perspective...those that are currently in relationships have strings (not always necessarily the ones they want, but strings all the same) I reckon that people evolve in what they want...and thats how it should be. Everytime you meet or chat to a new person, you learn a little more about yourself. So when you are new to "free range sex"...infatuated by the endorphin high...NSA is delicious. It's a smorgasboard of sensations..."I'M SOOO HUNGRY FOR SEX" kinda thing...and there is no need for it to be anything more. Its when the endorphin high starts to wane....and the infatuation wears off...that the lure of NSA also wears off. People are looking for "more" to sustain that feeling and thats when NSA evolves to looking for a fwb, fb, bf, gf...etc In my opinion, the people who can best negotiate the Terms of Reference for NSA sex are those that are currently in a relationships...because they actually have strings which determine the boundaries. And thems my thoughts.... :-) Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it means no other commitment. You know like you aren't married or defacto and you aren't a dating item. It doesn't have to be a one off. Just when you feel like it
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RHP User
16 years ago
I turn my back for 5 minutes and this whole thing turns into some sort of chocolate turkey spatula affair. Lucky I wasn't here and could be the scapegoat for it all *lmao*. Thank Christ (not that he wants to be involved, he's got enough shit on his plate with Easter not far away) a certain bright star came in and put everyone back in their seats - even if Miss S looks a mess, and has Stalky sniffing around in her armpits - it's fair to say that's as clean as it's going to get - here at least!
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RHP User
16 years ago
As a single guy, it is easier for me to have the NSA sex..But i do get emotionally involved in some level if i see someone a few times..But i have been on the other end of a partner who only wants the sex..it is kind of confusing..am i having a blonde moment ??
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't think it is bad to want to know more about someone before going No strings, ie texting, chatting, meeting for coffee. I find a lot of women on here a) don't post photos, or face pics (but all expect them in return) b) don't write much in their profile or reveal themselves a tiny piece at a time c) expect a bit of a courting ritual to make sure you are worthy!?!?! It seems I only ever truly discover what someone is like after meeting for that "coffee" or "drink" and boy am I glad that I didn't just jump head first into their bed or wherever half of the time. Coz often they are so not what they have claimed to be. It does feel that this texting, chatting, and meeting for coffee is a type of courting, which is crazy, really people need to be more honest about who they are in the first place. I think Photos are the best for this. Although I'm never happy with mine and am sure other people feel the same way (about mine - lol) I guess what I'm saying is people have standards even for their 'No Strings', which is really not a surprise. Since looks really play the major part in choosing who we have sex with, and yes probably the ultimate no strings would be a sex club... Or even just meeting in person at a normal club (do people do that anymore! jokes)... Sure learning more can mean the danger of learning too much, and liking what you learn... But I'm willing to take that risk ;) Overall tho... I'm not anyone's puppet and don't want anyone pulling my strings... well not at the moment anyway. Geez that was a bit long and repetitive and I sure don't know why I even posted this! First time for everything...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bravo Onebright!! Free range sex did it for me....LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
You aren't wrong at all desserts.. but the problem with fuck buddies is that an emotional attachment does develop even if not intended. Eventually one or other of you will want more than the other is willing or able to give and someone gets hurt. My point is that one time only basically anonymous encounters avoids these issues even though some of them can be extraordinarily memorable and leave the parties involved lamenting the loss of more. There is no great potential for emotional hurt by reason that the emotional investment is so small. But ongoing "no strings" relationships are bound for one destiny. Unless you are completely made of ice with the heart of an egocentric narccisist, you cannot help but develop stringy things. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm totally with you on this one Stalky... especialy the chocolate idea with JG...I like my chocolate melted in the microwave so it's nice a warm... like warm wax. I like it dribbled over my breasts so the warmth makes me shudder in anticipation of yours and JG's tongues to follow. As for the cock whipping ??? Mmmm... guess I'll try anything dipped in chocolate ! Seriously... actually I AM serious about anything chocolate ! I think it's very very difficult to have NSA fun. Random hook ups are ok if I'm really desperate but I'd much much much rather an ongoing "thing" which doesn't leave me feeling used a booty call or as a psuedo porn star to cam with ! I need the connection for ongoing incredible sex. With the connection the sex just keeps getting better. I can have random, great sex but if the connection doesn't happen then the sex goes down hill. The more I feel I'm being used, the less I enjoy sex and the less I give. If you want the 110% Saturn experience you need to connect with me ! But....on a lighter note... I can do NSA chocolate fun anytime, anyday...so Stalky go grab JG and come on over ! xxx Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
but i did meet the same person for 3 years and of course i had feelings but only as a good friend. I felt for him when his dog died, i was happy for him when his daughter got married and when grandkids arrived etc, but I never wanted anything more than that. We had the occasional lunch or coffee out, but it was what it was and i am not a cold hearted person, truly!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Okay i am a single guy, but a part of me stays with someone that i see even if it is only the once..You have the memory..and i am not talk about the love juice here.. But now i bring it up umm nice !! When have you ever met someone for the first time and thought this is the one for me forever ? There is romance in all of us and yes the single players in the forum would like to have a permanent playmate/friend/partner..If we notice the responses from the couples on the forums they are happy..Us single kids are happy but there is something missing..
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RHP User
16 years ago
The Mayo is a gift..I hope it was the warm part of my heart ..i will cum and collect it soon x
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Letsgetcrazy09
16 years ago
Well there are certainly plenty of discussion points from this post. NSA - No strings attached, no special demands or limits that you have to accept. Mmm HAVE TO. Easier said than done? NSA - used for seeking casual sex only and not a long term relationship. Think these definitions ring true. One small problem - US. We are all human, capable of a full gambit of emotions. Bugger them. They get in the way of everything don't they, well for most of us anyway. Have seen and heard many cruel things just in the chat room, many people hurt, egos, hearts. The mind games some people will inflict on others. We could all try and stay safe, wrap ourselves in cotton wool, close the door and be out of harms way. That really isn't living though is it. Stay safe, take care, it really is a jungle out there! BUT FOR FFS HAVE FUN!!!! Cheers Lets
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RHP User
16 years ago
Panty Liners.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting Stalky: "It's no wonder people are perched by their phones and message banks going over every possible interpretation of every word of every 10 second text. For these reasons, a meeting developed through this system is not "no strings" and could never be." Do men really do that, analysis messages that is? I thought only chicks did that.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Stalky!.Where' your Stunt-Bum these days?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just looked at the date 2010
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