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Nob/Pussy photos on your main profile page Sexy/Not sexy?
August 26 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Personally I find it tacky and lacking in class. (Class doesnt mean being a snob) Especially the ones whose profiles have face and bits pics. No self respect at all. And you can never be sure who is seeing your pics. I'm sure there has been people recognised around the place...and not by their face lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree that if all you have to show is a cock or pussy on your front page then your underselling yourself. What ever happened to a bit of mystery, a bit of suspense and surprise. I can understand why people don't put face shots up, but a shot that shows you in a good light is fine.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi, Sal here...Andy just told me he posted this forum... I am inclined to agree with you MsFeisty, when I am searching the profiles some womans legs spread is the last thing I want to see, some goes for mens bits and bobs, I am more likely to be turned off than turned on and wont even look at the profile. I understand saving face pics for pg or similar due to privacy and nudity can be done tastefully, it is not that hard. Sexy and sensual wins hands down every time. x Sal
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RHP User
16 years ago
Pink bits We agree with what you are saying and for that reason has no dick & balls or pussy shots in profile or PG. Our face pics are clearly shown in open profile to try and short circuit the picture swapping that follows the initial message or flirt. Mike & I think maybe the pics are shown as a sign that the person/couple are genuine active players and not time wasters. We feel a little mystery regarding what’s underneath the clothing ads to the anticipation of the play meet. Works for us and we look for others who reflect this in there profile too. This is our comfort zone. Shell & Mike
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RHP User
16 years ago
Kilee here, I am not a fan of seeing all the bits displayed up front.....I love a bit of mystery. Saying that women are not traditionally visual whereas men are. I am sure if Trev were typing he would say more of that sort of photo please :) So I guess for us we need a little bit of both but without the dressed or head shot we wouldn't be interested.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't normally have a picture of my cock as my avatar... but I had a lot of fun producing this particular one, if you don't like it... awwwwhhh I'm sorry for hurting your sensitivity.... but sex is meant to be fun... right? Besides, I don't expect that my dick pic will score me a root.... rather I would like to present a sexual expression of myself, as an exhibitionist, to be subtly obvious sometimes.... but this time, I thought to press the point in a way that the artist in me is also fully exposed. I mean, lens falir on the tip of my cock! How pretty is that! And check out the texture of those kevlar draggin' motorcylce jeans..... the way the light plays on my hand and cock, liek the two are connected at some instant in time.... hint of an erection.... and for those of us into cock worship, I say hello and beat that. Hugs for you. But I'm a professional and cannot show my face on Television but I do clean my teeth. Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I see your point, but would it stand up in court? I agree though, I think your hand and cock are connected in some way. The point is, you don't have to show your face, and showing your cock as an alternative is a cop-out. There are plenty of bits on the body that men/women love. Six packs, arses, eyes, smiles, backs. If you must show your cock be artistic and funny put it in a hotdog roll or it up your bikes exhaust and make it look like an 1850's cockney chimney sweep! Like Dick Van Dyke in Mary Poppins. The point was a question, not a judgement. The question was 'do people have a positive response to up front genital photos or a negative one?' The feedback so far seems to point to a negative reaction. So are you doing yourself any favours? I understand its your right to express yourself, keep going, fine by me. And yes Sex IS fun, we are all here for a reason, but I wouldn't want to shag someone who made such a terrible up front judgement call. I want to play around with classy, intelligent, funny people who have some self respect. Pussy/cock shots on your main profile picture make people look desperate and clueless. And no matter what sort of argument you bring back to this forum or just what sort of professional you are, be it a doctor, lawyer, police officer (god help us). All of that is worthless. All of your life achievements shot down because you choose to represent yourself with a photo of your COCK!!! My god is it just me??? In real life you would be carted away for exposing yourself. You're like the flasher in the park in a Benny Hill sketch. Let's get some nurses in here and a bald guy. It seems that some peoples 'art' is another person’s turn off. A
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RHP User
16 years ago
Guest members can't see R rated pics - be they as a main profile pic or in PG and if I'm going to be really honest, it's one of the reasons I'm happy just staying a guest for the time being - I don't want to be confronted by them when I'm not ready *giggle*. "Bits pics" do nothing for me personally and I don't have any in my PG either. I prefer to keep the mystery alive! I also keep my face pics in a seperate gallery & you've gotta be pretty special for me to share that one with you...but that is my personal choice and one I made to protect both my privacy and that of my family. I like to think that I'm not a shallow person and that aethetics mean nothing to me, but I find it really difficult to take any profiles with no pic at all seriously. I would be happy with an artistic shot of a hand, back....anything....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lolz @ SalAndy, You seem to be way too up tight. As I see it, people aren't going to decide whether to get in touch with based on my profile photograph alone ..... well rational thinking people that is... I mean the kind of people that I like. Nope. The kind of people I like are going to be instantly amused by my childish naughty little boy spank my naughty bottom tongue in cheek benny hill joke of the day profile photo with lens flair on the tip of my nob ~ because it's perverse and quirky. Next week, I'll wear a nappy or something. Yes, you asked a question and I understood it... and I answered your question in my own way .... that is, that I happen to enjoy cock shots if handled properly (lolz) ..... and btw.... wtf is wrong with Benny Hill, Jeese... you got a problem with everyone a little different to you aint ya. I better go and grab myself some white loafers and a beach shirt so I can blend in with the qlders. No, my dick firmly planted into shorts friend, I thought I made my answer to your question blatantly obvious. Nor did I attack your question aggressively or in any that I thought would provoke your denigrating public reply. "Eeww" lmfao. I hate lawyers. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would have thought that's what the pvt galleries are for... Guys love thier own cock but it would seem many women are not as into dick pics as guys would like to think.... So if you have to take pics of your cock put them in your pvt gal and if someone asks (they are more than likely a fake or another guy) they are there to show.... I personally dont like girls who do open leg shots on their profiles (yuk) which thankfully is not common on this site.... Dog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You do make me laugh!I was instantly amused by your childish naughty little boy spank your naughty bottom tongue in cheek benny hill joke of the day profile photo with lens flair on the tip of your nob ~ because it's perverse and quirky. lololSalAndy it'll be my pleasure to respond more fully to your post... later...Hugs allMrsP
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RHP User
16 years ago
lmfao... thanks for your support Mrs P. Live and let love. I just checked out my Squirt profile for messages and I remembered that lots of guys really like looking at dick pics.... that is to say, some kinds of guys like looking, and some just won't admit that they like looking at them. Also exhibitionists all like showing genital photos.... PLUS some classy, intelligent, funny people who have some self respect actually enjoy being humiliated.... and punished... PLUS PLUS... I've never seen a fanny shot I never liked to look at.... (surely most guys like looking at those, like I mean seriously... that's a gimme) ... And this is "REDHOTPIE" not "PG-PIE" ... or "JESUS-PIE" .... after all. Do dick and fanny photos make me horny? No. Do I rush off an docntact pepole just because they show a pussy or cock photo? No. But.... There's currently no commercial reason that dick and fanny shot avatars will ever be restricted from main avatar use... that is not without alienating numerous fee paying members who can simply go somewhere else where dick and fanny shots are permitted. Half a dozen people responding to a forum question are not representative of any kind of majority. I dare say the bulk can't be bothered to reply or are too busy cruising dick and fanny shots. *shrugs* Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey nothing wrong with a good debate, and I'm really not an uptight person. However I do think rational people are going to decide if they want to talk to cock and pussy pics ... and hey there is a fanny shot i I've seen it which I know I don't like... it's got shaving cream on the pubic area, a cucumber up the arse ... there is another instrument but I can't work it out what it is, perhaps a shoe horn!! . I don't know if I want to shave, eat it or throw up on it. Okay so you're just saying you like that you're flashing your willy and you like being childish and at 47 getting your dick out is naughty and wrong and you know it an you love it and people are abit kinky here and don't care because you think I'm uptight. I get the whole humiliation thingo and the self awareness aspect... which I RESPECT. I guess then I need to clarify my point of view. Honestly reading your posts has led me to a understanding of where you are coming from and hey, to each their own. I recognise your willy for what it is, the reasons you show it and your satisfaction with the reactions it gets. I guess it's similiar to saying 'CU#^" infront of a stranger to see what their reaction is. If they don't blink and keep going you know they're fun and you want to keep playing. If they are outraged and make a fuss then why bother wasting anymore time with them. Hey I'm all for that pervse and quirky a great topping for any sexy liaison.I remember one foursome Sal and I had, the man announced in a breathy aroused voice, whilst looking deep in her eyes. "'You look so erotic right now!" god we laughed. (in the car, on the way home) I think then in consideration to your evidence, It DOES stand up in court. well done :) The next question is then, does anyone out there legitimately think that showing your privates first off is going to get you a 'root'? Gazza you seem clear that this is not the reason you do put it out there. But are there others that show it thinking its going to cause such an explosion in the pant region they will get a root there and then? Gazza you do seem to be a lonely loaded gun pointing in the wilderness, lets get all the other cock photos to stand up and unite!! Andy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy.. YAY... we've reached some common ground. I'm sure there are cock pics on here that will land those particular guys a root right away. Mine is not one of those pics. I'm talking about the particularly handsome kind of cocks that are attached to particularly handsome young bodies. Now, I can only guess that certain women find those pictures instantly appealing... but I can almost completely guarantee that those guys with those photos attract numerous other guys. (ref to Squirt.org... Manhunt.net, gaydar.. etc ..etc... ) As our helmet headed Spartan friend from WA would have said..... "post dick pics if you are gay". A guy who seriously said (lmfao) "You look so erotic right now!" ??? haha. .. I would have laughed in his face and then I'd lick his armpits... but then I have a thing for armpits... well worth the effort. Now the point of my reply... that snapper shot with the cucumber.... you wouldn't happen to have the user name by chance? I mean, I'm curious to work out whether it is in fact a shoe horn.. so I suppose I just wanna ask her a few questions .... ahem... for academic reasons. :p Hugs Gaz
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playfulminx
16 years ago
While I am enjoying my Platinum member muchly, I have to admit that I did enjoy being 'shielded' from dick pics. I don't mind seeing some but if I am serious about meeting a particular person, I'd rather unravel the mystery myself ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey there Re: RHP Etiquette... One of the things I have learned about our RHPeers is that we are all very different. To give an excellent example of what I'm talking about, I looked for the following thread yesterday. I found it but didn't post it cos it was to do with cams not pics lol (no wonder it took me so long to find lol @ me). But today I thought you might like a look at it after all considering it does deal with the topic of what we would like to see. "what do the ladies on here prefer most on cam when viewing guys?? guys getting themselves off which seems to be 8 outta 10? or the very odd one of a body shot? or the cheeky smiles?" http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Forum/cams-23511 We're not too fussed about what people choose to show in their public gallery as long as we can both enjoy checking out pics that show some effort has been made to look good, in some cases a lot lolz and it made sense to us that there would likely be R rated pics on an 'Adult Only' site when we signed up. We wouldn't choose to get to know anyone better based on body bits alone (as we say in our profile) but by the same token would not discount anyone because they do show body bits. We do have an objection to profiles that rely on pics that don't show any PEOPLE let alone body bits. Then there's the sideways pics, pics with scribble, dick cheese, dirty clothing or disgusting backgrounds and more. All show a lack of care to us which is not at all appealing! Cheers MrsP n MrP
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Totally agree!!!! If we get a message from someone who only has "bits" pics or no photos at all on their profile...we will not respond! If you aren't willing to show your face to prospective playmates ..well..you are a time waster & are notreally serious about meeting people.
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RHP User
16 years ago
couldn't agree more SalAndy!speaking personally here (although mrs cpl also feels the same), i actually get turned off by bits pics if that's all the couple has to show. we recently got flirted by a couple who didn't have any pics on rhp and when asked for one or two face pics via email we were bombarded with about 15 genital shots and still no idead what the people LOOKED like! there's no way in hell i'd be sending photos like that to total net randoms considering the amount of amateur pic sites that are out there!i quite like the anticipation of not knowing what a prospective playmate looks like in the buff, it makes that first hookup all the more exciting in my experience. a bit like being a kid on xmas day and not knowing what's underneath all that wrapping paper!maybe that's why i have a thing for muslim women in buqas and hijabs! mrsexy
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RHP User
16 years ago
has led me to putting some body shots on our profile and moving the others to pg. I double checked what i wrote in our profile and it is not against my beliefs as I have cited tasteful nudity as ok :P Clearly I have way too much time on my hands, but it is all in fun. x Sal
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whatever you say... HugsMrsP
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RHP User
16 years ago
Awwhhh! You've taken tehm off again! Clearly Ive been too busy this morning.. and missed my chance. Bugger. :p Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bugga!Gaz you sooo missed out... they were seriously hot pics!!! heheheHugsMrsP
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RHP User
16 years ago
I put my cock pic up in the hope it would be sucked. Gazzzzzzzzzzz...the voyer??? Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
Personally I think their better in the PG, I'de like to see what a person looks like. Most people do it in hope to get something, and usually means their face picture wouldnt get the same attention... Gonna find out what you look like anyway, so why hide it?! Plus being a guest I cant see them anyway :-P
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