RHP

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Not much luck, any honest answers why?

September 04 2015

Hey guy's! I have had a little interest but not much of a legitimate response on here, I do very well on the opposite side of this site but nothing on here. Was just curious if anyone had an obvious answer of why or if may be I'm just not suited to the site. Cheers guys 😃 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Well I see it isn't because you are a guest as you have a paid membership and that is good. It is a fairly common question here from guys. There is no real answer but I guess it is a case of persevering and accepting things. I suppose for me I would say I am not totally suited to this site myself but I occasionally get a response. You have to remember there are many more males than females here as well. Writing here will at least get some viewing of your profile and I am sure the helpful women here will suss your profile and give you some advice. If you search the forum there are some profile making suggestions you may want to look at. Apart from that bloke wishing you all the best.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Daniel.... you say... "I do very well on the opposite side of this site but nothing on here."... ...... which makes me wonder why you seem.... from this topic.... to have such a reliance on this site delivering what you claim is on-tap away from it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hi there Daniel, other than putting a crick in my neck trying to look at your photo's I can't see anything major wrong with your profile. Maybe fix your pic's and put a few more up that are a little clearer. At least your not a grey ghost, that's always a plus in my book :P Like Tisonly1 said, there are a lot more guys than girls here so yes patience is probably needed. I wish you luck :)

  • nattyocean

    nattyocean

    10 years ago

    on safe sex.... 😁😁😁 is off putting for me anyhow - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'nattyocean' on safe sex.... 😁😁😁 is off putting for me anyhow - Posted from rhpmobile ^^^ Myself also. As well as the aforementioned sideways pic. But the most offputting for myself is the bold wedding ring in your pic and the status of 'single'. Makes me wonder what else you may not tell the whole truth on? All the best with your search.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If you truly believe in "if required" then stand by it... It's another vetting tool. Don't get into sexy talk... Until after you've had sex. Hp xo Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Most women like to see a nice smile and your not smiling in any pic. The shoulder pic makes you look like the type that flexs his muscles in the mirror at the gym. I would also consider changing the very experienced sentence, could be off putting for a lot of women. Just a few things to consider, good luck 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'nibblemebi' Quoting 'nattyocean' on safe sex.... 😁😁😁 is off putting for me anyhow - Posted from rhpmobile ^^^ Myself also. As well as the aforementioned sideways pic. But the most offputting for myself is the bold wedding ring in your pic and the status of 'single'. Makes me wonder what else you may not tell the whole truth on? All the best with your search. Yes if that's a wedding ring really bad form If it's not it really looks like one......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The pic with the ring is in reverse because it's his reflection. So the ring is on his right hand and his watch is on his left hand. Just sayin.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For myself I find the picture with the flexed muscles very off putting. I prefer a shirt off natural stance and a smile :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Are those baby toys on the edge of the bath?

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Can't a man play with his toys in the bath? Up periscope........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm having no luck myself and I do wonder why, but are all here cos of our sexual openness and I know I'm here to broaden my own and try new things I haven't. I'm getting very little interest. But truthfully I'm still here and at times and it's upsetting when I'm not a player or talk bs But as long as I am respect and friendly I'll keep my head held high. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There have been sooo many threads and posts about this problem,you are not alone....single men are here in overwhelming numbers...you have out stand out from the crowd xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm afraid you lost me at the cock shots. I prefer to be asked first before I get a dick in my face and from the fora I know I'm not alone. Maybe put a nice smiling face pic up and show the X-rated ones upon request only? My 2cts, good luck.

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    10 years ago

    Honestly it might seem petty but I close profiles without reading a thing if the pic is sideways.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Would you approach a girl at a bar with your cock out? Dicks dont stand out in the crowd here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thanks for the tip I'll give that a try. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't drink so I don't go them - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't know why you're not getting much interest, you look and sound like a really nice guy. I can't speak for everyone of course, but I'm instantly drawn to quirky. If you can make me laugh and/or tell me something about yourself that's a bit out of the ordinary, that's a really great start. Tell people you don't like pina coladas or getting caught in the rain. Tell them you're John Travolta's twin, except you look nothing like him and you can't dance. Tell them you love doing jigsaw puzzles that have one piece missing. There are so many single guys out there wanting to get lucky, but they're either too shy, too lazy or too keyboard phobic to bother writing something that shines. You won't please everyone no matter what you write, but at least be pleased that you've represented yourself in a way that makes you smile. Guaranteed it'll make someone else out there smile too xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Another OP asking a question and not taking a single suggestion to heart. Hope the advertisement got you what you wanted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    How's it going bro. Well I can say it is hard at first and for people Ur ages it's even harder as there is not much on the site around Ur ages but I have met a good few of girls on here but they are in there 40 and have to say they are more fun then the younger girls. The best way I can say to ya is keep sending messages to girls that u like there profile and for Ur first message talk about Ur self and ask them thing what is on there profile. I'm Irish so I tell them that and a bit more about my self hope that helps also u should go to the meet and greet nights to get to know people from the site that's how I started off knowing some girls and meeting them few nights later hope this helps bro keep in contact and let us know how u get on - Posted from rhpmobile