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December 08 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I feel for you summer. Let me know if you want some help opening the baileys :-P I have had the same thing happen trying to meet girls from here. I feel so stupid too when I arrange to meet somewhere and I turn up on time and then wait and wait and wait...I'm sure someone has a great laugh at my expense.
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RHP User
16 years ago
there would be only one reason why i wouldn't show up for a drink with you...and that's because i would be in a coffin...!!!!cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Can't say I have ever had that problem.. mainly because women suddenly stop all contact before we get to the "we should meet up" stage...*sigh*It certainly doesn't sound like a pleasant experience though! :(
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jeese.. They've got no manners or sense of pride at all! How rude! You on the other hand are all class... a lady should never drink alone! Warm Hugs GAzza
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can understand you wanting to bitch!!! I don't get what is so hard about letting someone know you can't make it for whatever reason, even if it last minute notice. It's still better than waiting for someone who's not going to show and then you can move on! Perhaps something that might help with the moving on lol is to let your prospective date know at some point that if they're late you'll only wait a certain amount of time before contacting someone else to cum over and open that bottle of Baileys... Hugs 4 ya!... Mrs P :-*
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RHP User
16 years ago
I totally forgot what time it was and being in a different timezone mixed up the days too :-( I'll make sure to send over some nice guy for you ;-) Seriously - that's so wrong and I'm sorry he stood you up. I've had it happen to me too before (stood up by a gal not a guy) and it makes you feel like shit for a bit. Chin up though, with a profile like yours it won't be long till more nice guys come looking for you. Wayne x PS - I'll look you up next time I'm in Perth and buy you that drink he missed out on :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is a real pain for sure and happens to all of us I'm afraid. So many are all talk and no action, or they get cold feet. Next time it happens, call another guy and ask him over and if number one turns up then you could have a 3some, or you could hide the one already there in the closet or the bathroom or the spare bedroom, give him a few porn mags to read, run back out to the other one and pretend all is well, give him a quick blow job, send him off and go back to the other one and sort him out somehow and then just hope for the best!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I truely feel for you summer....xxxxxxxxx I had contact with a bi guy here in Bunbury..he been trying to get a meet with me pretty much since I first joined here just over a yr ago....Now...I finally say ..yes.I will meet...he doesn't call to finalize...then a few days later he is on Yahoo asking who I am..WTF!!! few months pass...he begs for another chance..I had a bi friend who happened to have some rare free time..And arranged for the 2 boys to come my house.. ok so boys here on my sofa..we having a drink..the guy who let me down before..starts touching his pockets says he left his phone in the car...few mins later without a word...he gets up...naturally we think he has gone to get his phone.. minutes pass..we like..whats he doin? then an sms....sorry I couldn't go through with it.. We were dumb founded to say the least!!! Then a not so long ago he asks for another chance again!!!...ummmm.....derrr..NOOOOO!!! sighhhhhss.. sweetpetite41.<<<< when my MMFbi? lol....I give up... Do the right thing......remember Karma
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andyrabbit
16 years ago
Hi Summer next time it happens remember youve got my mobile no. ill cum over. And help you with the baileys or champagne or whatever you have on offer... Andy
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RHP User
16 years ago
A while back i got to know this chick in Canberra, late 20's (not from Rhp), and believe it or not, her and her besty would set guys up just for laughs, she would contact guys and arrange to meet them typically at a mall food court (she would never give out pictures so she couldn't be recognized, but insist on a pic so they could recognize the poor smuck when he turned up, then they would wait round having their coffee morning just see how long the guy would wait around before giving up wasn't long after she told me that i decided that i didn't want to know her. Begs the question how many other women like to indulge in this sport! Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
**BIG HUG FOR SUMMER** dont worry babe, that guy just missed a great opportunity and obviously didn't have the courage or the balls to man up if he decided he didn't wanna go through with it!!!! dont sweat it hun, i am sure u must be over whelmed with hot men wanting a piece of you so just forget it and move on sweety, but yes I have know a girl who used to love asking men to meet her and then sneak along and sit around a corner and see how long the poor guys waited, its just mean... i mean u feel like an idiot while you are waiting and then when you do finally decide to go home you feel like something must have been wrong with you.. talk about hurting someones feelings. To all those who enjoy playing games with others feelings dont do it!!!! I hope karma gets you good!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like WTF.....ROFLMAO.....mannn that takes the cake!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for sharing your story... it is terribly sad to think anyone would think something like that is at all funny!... Hugs... Mrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
i had a simliar situation with an old work mate, she say she keen to meet but always made excuses for not coming, not worth the hassle if they do that, a txt or phone call is cheap. it would have to be a dam good excuse if they dont turn up or dont call. move on and find someone worth spending time with.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Why the hell would he stand you up? He must of had rocks in his head.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yep, there are some really poor excuses for humanity out there, from both sexes, soul destroying for those who get caught! Cheers Nev Wishing Brent Eccles and Bob Spencer were back in the Angels Lineup!
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RHP User
16 years ago
ok....personal experience here....this is coming from my hey days when i was in uni and net chat applications like icq and mirc were 'the' pick up placei had been chatting with a girl who was great to talk with and she had sent me 'a' picture of how she looked which really piqued my interest....after 3 months of chatting we decided to meet at george st cinemas in Syd cbd and considering how we had not seen each other in RL apart from exchanged photos, decided to wear something distinguishing so we knew who to look forshe was to wear a yellow top which would really stand out, and i promised to do the same....come that day, as I stood waiting for my supposed date in yellow, the only one to turn up was a fat chick in a yellow tank top with her belly sticking out for the world to see.....now call me shallow, but what interested me to actually come out that day was an exchanged photo and her word telling me she was hot with curves to die for....she knew it was me as she called my name but i totally ignored her and walked off looking like a git in a yellow shirtnow i'm not the type to ignore any woman, as i treat all women with the highest respect like mum taught me, but if you lie to me just to get me interested....then prepare to waitlooks aren't rated, as i've a mug that looks like i've been chasing buses, but i will never talk myself up and neither should someone you chat online with just to get your tail waggin'by the way, this doesn't mean its the same case for you summer....just my buck fifty on the table
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not defending him summer, but di he have your mobile contact or did you arrange the meet through here? Anyway spewing! I was free last night too!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i wont let you down
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RHP User
16 years ago
well thats wrong i had that happen to me the thing is do u give them another chance?tell me would u like to meet
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RHP User
16 years ago
By the sounds of things, he's the one who missed out. There are plenty of other guys on here who wouldn't stand you up if given the chance. I for one, would definately stick to the plan. On that note, i'm on holidays at the moment and have plenty of time to catch up. Send me a message sometime Summer x
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