Bubbaj

Bubbaj

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November 14 2009

Just thought Id share my disgust at such a reply back. Ok so the guy was nice enough to say that he would be around in town for the next week or so and was wondering if i was interested in joining him for some fun since he has a hotel room, oh and a car. (yipeee doodah) to in which case i replied after looking at his profile, "im sorry you dont match what Im looking for". For him to reply, "you cant handle aussie cock and your boat is leaving"....Now is that supposed to be a racist remark in the fact that Yes im asian and he was rejected that he has to stoop that low to tell me to go back to where i came? Sorry just had to rant and rave bout this one. If i wanted to be a prick I could just say, "well guess where ur ancestors came from too?"How to deal with people with some sort of racist backlash when you tell them your not interested.....

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  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    16 years ago

    Sorry to hear that :( If you feel inclined, do report the guy to RHP as racial slurs shouldn't be tolerated!It's so sad that there's a small percentage of people in our country that think the White Australia Policy is still in effect :( Still, you kinda have to feel sorry for him if all he's got going for him is being a white Aussie. Sounds like a poorly educated redneck who hasn't had some for a very loooooong time.Pity the fool... then move on ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    you were right his profile does not match what your looking for,but if it read ; SILLY,STUPID,LITTLE MAN WANTED, MUST BE ABLE TO SLING RACIST CRAP AND BE EXCITED ABOUT BORROWING YOUR MUMS CAR. He would of been perfect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    The best thing is just ignore them..and wipe it from your mind then block and delete as some dont like what they see as personal rejection and might take it to heart and feel hurt and then take it out on you. hoping to get an reaction...to hurt you back with the racist remarks for some it wouldnt matter how tactful and polite will still do so.The journey on here can have its up and downs its part and parcel cyber world......sweety.Cabramatta is where i spend my first 12yrs...lol...wish you all best on your journey.remember karma happensxoxox heymumma

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    dont respond at all, block, delete.... lol how do u respond to racial insults when the same applies to him, unless he was aboriginal...wouldnt matter what u said if u respond cause it doesnt even make sense what he is throwin at u. sum u guys r just plain stupid sumtimes :p dont b pissed off about it bubbaj, dont even think about it.... now lets go check out sum hot single men wit 6paks ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    awwwh babaj! He was obviously really pissed off having hired a car only to discover he's going to be hanging around his motel room nude and lonely... especially given the fact that he has such a high opinion of himself. Some people really don't like rejection do they! lol. What a loser. :p hugs Gaz

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Don't let those narrow minded Racist dick heads get to you....He obviously had you pictured as a easy fuck....you told him you wern't interested......so he gets all shitty, and thinks he will hurt you with some childish racial comments......cyber abuse, and threats...the lowest form of being gutless......just ignore them.....Idiots....!   xo Tam

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey Bubbaj...   I am with agree with Minx.......Feel pity for him...Ya know like a lil bug that is half dead and ya have to flush it down the toilet to put it out of it's missery...lololol.   kisses to all races   sweetpetite41

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Funny, I am half off chops and far from in the mood for any meaninful dialouge but I felt a few words neccessary.  Ive ssen a lot of comments from couple/women etc etc regarding the lack of manners/decency in RHP and as a decent single guy all I can day is that I find the whole site a shame,  solicitors, fakers blah blah blah, and as I have paid good money I am actually offended by it all .....................

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Bubbaj,   Some people just can't handle rejection (hell look at Whitehawk's comments in other threads for a perfect example).  They - and I am talking about men and women here - think that because you are on this site, you HAVE to want to meet and fuck, this is a sex site after all!!!  What they don't understand is that a lot are members of this site for other reasons and actually have personal preferences on whom they want to meet.    Bubbaj, just remember this thought.  You politely rejected a dickhead.  It proves that not only do you have class (for replying and being polite) but your dickhead radar is fully functional.  I say well done lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    referred to in another forum...take no notice...leave him in the gutter where he belongs...one woman said to me that when she sends a reject slip, she follows it up by blocking himso that she is not open to any potential abuse...sending you big hugs...cheersJose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Truth be told he probably wasn't in a hotel room but a trailer park. I am sorry you were subjected to his tirade, I like to think most people are good at heart, we live in hope.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Report him to management. I have done it and they got more than my wooden spoon. Block em as well of course and tell all your RHP mates who he is. Not all guys are idiots no matter their age. Mars

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've heard a few stories like that and I'm relieved that nothing like that has happened to us ....yet....   Its a pity that those people who behave so poorly are not named (RHP ID is enough) so another person/couple does not need to subject themselves to that sort of behaviour.   Then again, there's enough nice (and sexy) people to go around for the rest of us

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    1. Report it to RHP 2. Name and shame in Chicks Secret Section 3. Find a way of getting a hand of his hair (ask other chicks to help you), get a voodoo doll , get a lighter and burn his balls followed by sticking blunt/rusty needles in his cock and ass.  :-)

  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    16 years ago

    Im loving the free hugs! Thanks to all!! I just wanted to rant and rave lol. The guy is blocked and to be reported and unfortunately for him, he does fit exactly into the category of an aussie redneck with the beer belly and puts himself as attractive and athletic....go figure!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Haha aww bubbaj you heartbreaker you or should i say blue ball maker lol He's just pissy that he got rejected, probably gets rejected alot in here and in real life   Whack him on block and pretend he don't exist babes  He won't get far in life if he's that nasty and narrowminded   Men live by their dicks, if their dicks get rejected they get all macho Strange lil creatures some of them are haha   Kaito xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hello people! This is my story from only a few days ago. The other bits are explained throughout.In addition to sending me flirts in blocks of about 6 at a time (not exactly flattering, the same flirt over and over and over again - like someone whacking you over the head) - not you could or would really want to reply to - it becomes way beyond a joke when it goes on for months), a bloke to whom I'd never replied (hint hint) sent me a message headed "sexy guy for you" in which he told me his name, residence, and asked if I wanted some company. When I said no, and basically told him to leave me alone, in relation to his annoying flirts, his reply was: "Fuck we arnt you just a stcuk up slut ! The only reason i send you flirts is because you look like a slut not worth anything more than a FUCK. Got it ! ?"When I tried to respond, I realised he had blocked me... Does this sound normal to anyone? It's embarrassing to talk about, but I had to get it off my chest - feel weird for some reason... Better out than in I suppose?!? Not sure there's really a funny side to this?!? Hope he doesn't read this!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    He is an arsehole

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Toosweet... he sounds like a man who thinks very highly of himself but fails to live up to his own self opiniated reputation. :p You should have blocked him after the fourth flirt... You see, if you send any more than 3 flirts in a row unanswered... that's cyberstalking..... :P   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sorry you had to experience that sort of crap. It is unacceptable and I am glad you did not tolerate it. I get alot of "no thanks" from women, probably because I am bi or too old   A polite no thank you is fine....much better than no answer. He is no man in my book an certainly no loss.     Hugs, Geoff xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sorry you had to experience that sort of crap. It is unacceptable and I am glad you did not tolerate it. I get alot of "no thanks" from women, probably because I am bi or too old   A polite no thank you is fine....much better than no answer. He is no man in my book and certainly no loss.     Hugs, Geoff xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It's easy for us to say "ignore him he's a pr!ck" but it's not as easy for tootweet to do that as she's had to put up with his crap.  I've sent flirts and emails to ladies too, most often with no response. I get over it and move on.  The reality of it is that I'd guess that the ratio of male to female on this site is grossly weigh in favour of the ladies having their pick of the males :-) End result is that many of us guys will go disappointed. Combine that with the crass way I've seen males email the ladies on this site, and it's any wonder that many girls don't even bother reading or responding to email they get sent.   Having said that - personally I believe if some one has sent me an email with more than one or two words in it, then I should at least send them a polite response.  The ladies that have said "Thanks but your not my type" always get a polite response from me in return.   Sorry you've had a problem with this guy.  There are plenty more of us out here that are more gentlemanly than him :-)   Wayne x PS my number is ......... ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    OK...I just got a meesage back from a jerk....Told him he was one too...   He lives in QLD...and that he would be in Margret River for a cpl days (weeknight)..And wanted to meet me...   NOW...My profile does say I am joyfully raising my son AND that I am divorced....So guess that makes me a fulltime single mother...Derrrr...to him!!!!   I am sooooo sick of attached or married men wanting to cheat on their wives/ girlfriends...And then message me and think I will drop my child and work and our sports to go play!! I also have on my profile that I am now just happy socializing with my friends..on occassions!!!  And then when I tell them...Ohhh..yerr..right I will drop my child to meet you!..LOl..I can't help being sarcastic with these jerks that can't read!!!   Then he messages me back telling me to get  a life  ARSEHOLE......ppfftttttttttttttttttttttttt   Annoyed again   sweetpetite41...sighhhhhhhhhhh   Sorry I need a vent.....   Hugs to all you good people out there xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    16 years ago

    Sweetp,if only we all lived for our selfish selves and drop everything for some sex...who knows if it would b good or bad but we should just drop everything and do as they say!wouldnt that be the ideal world? a world witout responsibilities, children, work, friends and just go at the drop of a hat for some random sex that isnt guaranteed to be the best you have ever had?!Just a thought.....:D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    All you can do really is have a bit of a laugh and pity the poor souls. To be so inept to respond to a woman in this way must mean their lives are full of emptiness. Maybe these guys actually thought they signed up to RNP where women who love losers go to find a mate? That'd be Red Neck Pie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hhahahaa Trish....sfa......I have never and will never arrange to meet someone and not show up...This would only bring me to their pathetic level..     Puppy ..I do pity them.. They cheat and lack the balls to discuss their needs with their wives and partners...It will all come crashing down on them 1 day..   Bubbaj...lol hun...I love my ideal world world of kids and sports and friends. As all decent people do...Random encounters that turn out to be something that rocks your world is rare...   Tonight I was complimented by my Teacher at Taekwondo ...We had to spar with 4 diff opponents tonight.. I did with 2 women and 2 very tall men...lol..I had to make jokes and tell them I like pain..hehehe..( lil do they know)..LOL.. I had that look in my eye tonight..And with blocks , kicks and punches I amazed myself!!  And after class ..some black belts approached me and said I was really good and lethal...I was so taken and  humbled by their praises to me..And they were very surprised that I have only been doing this for a month now..   So I do have a beautiful life...What the best part was ..my son came into the kitchen after returning home and hugged me and said he was so proud of me..   What a perfect moment in my happy life.   Kisses n hugs   sweetpetite41 xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxo   hope my teacher thinks I am ready to get my first belt when we have grading in 3 weeks time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Ain't it great when one of your kids says something like that to ya.  Makes ya go all warm and fuzzy on the inside. Keep up the martial arts training - it helps in soo many ways.  I regret dropping mine over 20 years back -much harder to take it back up again these days with a hectic work life and such.  My son started back 2-3 years ago and I went with him. There was an 18yr old girl who was mid level rank and also a gymnastics freak... what she could bend to was amazing... our sensei taught us to use all our skills and be creative, so she did... knocked out a high level black belt during sparring without realising it with a kick she made up... score one for her :-) Said girl is now an instructor and incredibly fast and flexible... my 10 yr old son wants to "be like her..."   Note to self... never approach sweets in a dark alley... I'll get my butt kicked... hmmm could be fun... scrub that.. ;-)   Wayne x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    LOL...Trish...Sounds like you need more chocolate icing fun WHILE  wrapped up in a belt....   Those wonderful lil moments with those we love.....Our beautiful shared lives.   Hun...You taking a pics of you in that sexy Santa costume?   ya a crack up!!!  .......Far out brussel sprout????   roflamo...   hugs  sweetpetite41 .......ppstttt....btw.Just looking at brussel sprouts at the supermarket makes me wanna puke... Damn them and choko's  .....agghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....eeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww..   had to let ya know that one...lol..xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thank you so much for all your responses.I do feel a lot better now, getting it out of my system, and being certain it wasn't the done thing... In situations like those you often feel that you've done something wrong in the first place, which has triggered the other person off - saying "no" when the person has been bothering you for months on end is far from doing anything wrong!Thanks again,TooTweet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Ohhhhhhh...i want a costume like yours Trish!!!   YUMMO!..lol   niceguy...I don't walk down dark alleys...   hugs   sweetpetite41xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hotel room=$200, Car=$80 rejected by Bubbaj=Priceless.....lol Wondering why some guys cant take rejection? I had few wankers and asshole sent me nausty messages after I said "no, you are not what I am looking for" Deleted, blocked and report or the wost I do is share his profile with other girlfriends so they will block him. I always being polite and nice, after all,I am just a girl...lol   Message me his proile if you can:)   Cheers,   Gis

  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    16 years ago

    im sorry to say, but after getting 10 flirts and 1 message i finally decided to reply to a group of men...i still wasnt sure whether or not i would like to meet these "men" for a group encounter seeing as though the only fotos that i could see was of women getting spunked on! Regretfully, their reply to my msg of "really that many flirts needed? wheres the face pics and possibly validations from actual women who have met you and can u are real?" to get a reply:"There are photos on the profile, but I suppose if you were not such a pathetic time waster we would not have keep flirting you. Maybe if you got off your fat lazy ass and responded in the first place you would not get the flirts. I find it amazing that you even put up a post complaining how people dont reply....you are a true hypocrite! Never mid we got better things to do than waste on a tin pot mail order bride!"Mail order bride.....god i must b cheap postage since ive been born n bred here. I have not once put in a post about ppl not replying for I am a culprit myself when the ppl asking are definitely outside of wat i want! I really shouldnt b trying to defend myself but I am more peeved at this response. To me, they seemed a bit obsessive...yes OBSESSIVE... Ok im out of ranting n raving, give me some hard loving and may this all male crew disappear from my sight!