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Older Couples and Anal Sex

November 16 2012

We have tried anal sex a few times over 3 months in 30 years of marrage. Never ever with anyone else. Then we had a close family member have their bowells removed and had to use a bag, diagnosed with terminal cancer they did not want life extended due to the bag, just pain relief. One of us shortly after had bowell surgery and both of have a 3 yearly colonospy and have pollips removed nearly every time....Constipation is a problem so diet, prune juice and laxitives keeps things moving. So for us ...why do anything that might make a delecate situation worse....we didnt ask the surgeons or GP advise it just does not rank up there. We hear on the forums here, someone says "anal sex is wonderfull" and the responce is so predicable ...two pages of "oh yes it is wonderfull" "just take it slow" the presumption "dont knock untill you try" and best of all "if you dont you arent open minded" But in reality, For the couples a little older that have been together for a while 10 years plus, once they have tried it, is viginal intercourse practiced predominantly?

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13 years ago

Basically because Im interested in the response Kisses Focus

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RHP User

13 years ago

Yeah well we all tried it back in the wild seventies and I didnt think too much of it then either. I find that I just can not understand what women see in it at all. I get absolutely no pleasureable feelings. Oh dont get me wrong, it does not bother me and I am happy for the man to do this..so long as he has satisfied me first...I am just not gonna get my glow on at all. The thing is with sex...there are so many and varied options that do not include penetration at all. The younger ones just havent woken up to that yet. I also find that on this particular forum...everyone will rave on about something, claim that they love it and a few months later claim an entirely different story. IMO this is true for anal sex, penetrative orgasms for women, squirting and mulitple orgasms...to name a few. Only beleive half of what you see and less of what you read.

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RHP User

13 years ago

its a rare thing for us to go there, but thats a good thing....as we have more than enough 'tricks' in our bag, and never think of anal while we play...... and its something we will never never include in our repertoire when playing with others..... nup...no way......i'm happy to be selfish about this one.....as is my 'lovely'... lol

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13 years ago

Piles And old people fart a lot so if I did it the poor guy might get blow up to the roof I have never had anal and though my girlfriends of late have had their cherry busted with this from rHP lovers I am not going go there. Yep chicken shit that I am I do not want to sit on one of those cushions with rings on it the day after the event besides I am such a bloody clean freak it would ruin the moment. There are lots of health issues that come up when you get older, and the reality of sex Its not like in the porn, that so many people feed of these days. Most men on RHP want to cum, over your tits, on your face, on your back, in your hand , on your hair , over your lips, And next it will be up the curtains and over the furniture Porn sex has done that, they want the money shot and condoms make it harder for guys to cum also to cum inside( with condom on) is also intimate and a lot of men do not know how to do intimate any more. We are desensitised to good old fashioned intimate sex I rather like good old fashioned vanilla intimate sex, call me old fashioned

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