Older men and younger women

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  16 years ago

  I have often wondered that as well...In my opinion, a young 20 something person either M or F, has the same mental capacity to decide on their sexual partners.. apparently society deems young women unable to make that decision for themselves. And older guys are just perverts and older women are just lonely and horny..lol

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  She was 24, me 66 2 years ago when we met. Works well, sprung a baby. Advice is never say it's too late, never stop trying, never give up hope.   One gal's poison is another gal's meat. We get a laugh out of the uncool remarks, and have irritated some friends.   Only condition is you need to be fit, active and reasonably smart. If she wants a bit of flirting, I have no problem with that.   I have nothing against older women, except they tend to get into older kids and granny talk.   James

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  16 years ago

  My ex was 22 years older then me and we were together for 3 years. The reason we split had nothing to do with the age gap.The sex was fantastic, everything else was fantastic, Just didnt work out.The age never ever bothered either of us ...Opps i Tell a Lie, I wanted to clubbing one night, and that wasnt for him.. Apart from that it never bothered us:)I was 22 at the time he was 46I must admit it was bit of a shock introducing him to my dad, as dad was only 4 years older then him lol but he got over itMy two cents worth again Tiges

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  When I look around my immediate group of friends, I see all sorts of configerations of ages. A 26 female with a man 17 years older. A woman aged 32 with a male aged 27, and so on and so forth...the only partnership that worried me was a friend of a friend a man aged in his late 40s with a sixteen year old girl.   I think generally society is becoming more comfortable with different aged parings. Apparently just as women in their 30s and men in their teens are sexually compatible in terms of sex drive, so are 20 something year old women and older men.   As long as the relationship is ethical (does not constitute sex with a minor) I think it is generally all on for young and old. That said, I prefer older men, always have, just as some women my age and older want the young stud.     Whitehawk, stop thinking about how it is viewed by society and do what feels right for you. After all, the opinion of others means very little if you are happy!   lovebitten xoxoxox

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  16 years ago

  If I had my way I'd be dating girls aged from 18 but it seems girls aged under 26 see guys my age as pedophiles...hell I've even had girls call me that!! So I'm very surprised to see young girls say they want older,yet if you look at the cut off date of girls under 26 on here there are a hell of alot stating clearly no older than 30!! I've dated so far down to 22,the last girl being a total psycho.My fault for dating a girl who'd been stripping since she was 16.She had a killer body,sex was a bit scary for her as I kept hitting her cervix...but what really killed things was her maturity level & inability to change to suit people around her. I love younger women,tighter bodies,perkier boobs,better skin & more inclined to have fun with no hang ups from kids & ex husbands.I'd still date a 44yr if she had a great body but if her mind & attitude stinks she's not going to be chased by me.Same goes if you're an 18yr old bikini model..I have a few things that turn me on off a woman...stupidity,bitchiness,bad hygiene & being a prude. For me younger girls have better bodies & less issues...if I can find an older woman with a tight fit body,intelligent,great sexy cheeky personality with no kids & ex issues then I'd give her my heart in a second if she adored me!!

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  16 years ago

  Being a massive fan of milfs and cougars I think this trend is sensational most of the women I have been with are atleast 3-5 years older than me then there are the extremeties of once being with a 54yr old when i was 22 I thought it was great dont think i could have let her meet mum tho. Then yeah there is my parent dad being 11-12 yrs older than my mother its just normal age should not be heald as a barrier within reason that 40 something with a 16yr old wow all kinds of wrong sorry just my opinion but I suppose you would have farted if you wanted an arseholes opinion hey   wow what a rant did i mention anything to do with the question I hope so Dale

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  16 years ago

  lmao trishl... one day you will laugh your head off about that. Women can age gracefully but not men. He's only got a few years of good bonking left in him.. already slower and less frequent.. you said it yourself. One day soon enough when your riding an upgraded model like the raunchy cowgirl in your prime that we see you to be... you'll thank your lucky stars. :P   I don't think there's any issue with age differences until people get into the bracket where having sex can dislocate ya hip.. or you have to stop for your arthritic knee... or you are wheezing like a smoker in a half marathon after just a few minutes of play....  age is not important at all... but fitness is. Are you fit to fuck? That's all you have to ask the next guy you date. hehe.   Hugs Gaz

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  16 years ago

  I think its great she is 28 and I am 47 been together 10 years. Much better than my ex that is 45 physically and 75 mentally. Couples that defy societies "norms" tend to be more interesting, spontaneous and worldly making for better relationships all round with friends as well as lovers. Anyway thats my experience and the first woman I had sex with was friend of my mother's she was 32 and I was 15, did me the world of good :-)

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  16 years ago

  I have to speak on this one.I have 2 guys, my hubby that is 13 years older than me, and my other partner that is 13 years younger than me.I srtuggle with the older woman syndrome ( being a cougar i suppose )....and i am sure My hubby used to struggle with the older man syndrome when we first started going out.Bryan is now 58 , i am 45 and coops is 32.But it simply just works.There are insecurities that i have about myself with my other partner, as he is so much younger than me, i am always wondering what will happen when he thinks i am too old and he starts looking for a younger model..lolBut you know what , in the end , it is the quality of the time spent together and not the quantity, and i feel so young when i am with him. So watch out all you 20 year old girls, the cougars win the race for the hot young guys...lolAnd we are sure to hold on to them...as long as we can stand up right and hold out teeth in without dental glue..lolLeesa

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  16 years ago

  Trishl.. on the subject of hip flexibility I recommend yoga and stretching. As it happens... I can show you the stretches and I am only 10 minutes away from you... hehe. Of course, we can leave it informal and dispense with the lycra. :p   Or you could meet me at gym in the stretch area.. Rockdale Fitness First.. or maybe Newtown Fitness First.... of course, there is a good smattering of virile men and women at gym... its highly recommended.   Hugs Gaz

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  16 years ago

  well, yoga will definitely help u out with your hips trishl...i reckon a good 10....err, years...hehe...and your hips won't lock up when your feet are above your head...but better still...sex as much as possible is just as good as yoga...oh...and heaps more fun....cheershey gaz, i got some groovy stretches too...hehejose...

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  16 years ago

  Trish...  ..Was told by a orthopaedic specialist that pilates was the best for streatching n exercise..due to a few injuries that ive received over the years..which at times can be debilitating.to point things could have been a lot worse due to my age at the time, only that id done weights for a year prior....anyway ....i was very sceptical,about doing pilates.(.they were designed for injuries )....Thus i tried it.......now im...very flexable can get into any position..nps...hehe.and im 51..give it a babe!!Whitehawk ....I wish you and some of the other guys..stop making generalisations of us cougars we are individuals and should be viwed as such, as im not" your so called" typical cougar.The only issue i have is with bulls**t and drama of any kind.i take care of myself...work out.  and eat right...ive got my own teeth which ive taken care with..among other good qualities( not into blowing my own trumpet) by listing them all...lol.... sure ive got 2 kids at home still, plus a 27y...they're no problems and they dont cause me any grief and even thou im seperated from husband of 29 yrs..second hubby..my only 4th boyfriend...is very aware of what im doing..even knows that im bi....ive always had his blessing so to speak even whilst together....and again even we're apart....hes caused me no problems.So dont be quick to judge us (cougars all the same)..now thats another issue i have......My first boyfriend was when i was 13 he was 19.....then the next one was 20.whilst i was 15 then. My first husband was 19 and i was 21...was married for 5yrs....my last husband is 2yrs older..yet whilst i was growing up it was common that the guy was older..hey people of my parents generation married very young with the man being much older.....so i guess some things were accepted and things not...none the less....the Media and the so called moralists have played a big part..in society...

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I thought toothless blowjobs felt rather nice for a guy.   I'm 8 years older than Speed.  It's awesome.   Trixie.

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