Older women

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  There are many women looking for younger men. Send a nice first message to someone you are attracted to and take it from there. If you dont get a reply, keep searching. After a few messages, invite her out for a coffee/drink/dinner? I like to meet guys first, you can see what they are really like and if you feel comfortable in each others company, then it will go naturally from there. Do state that you are shy though, it can be awkward meeting someone and making most of the conversation. Hope you find what you are searching for xx

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  AnnieWhichway

  10 years ago

  By working on your profile. There are many threads on the subject. To be able to seduce them in the fashion suggested by Koko you need to get to first base, you need to get them to want to exchange messages to set that up. Get rid of the ask me in your selected section. Try and get some interesting photos in your public gallery. They dont need to be face shots if you aren't comfortable with it. Make an investment in a membership. Most women wont message first unless you attract them with good piccys. Improve your written section telling them about yourself more without the template use. For success in here, you need to put the effort in and fix your profile. Baby steps. Worry about the seduction when you attract someone to seduce. Good luck though Annie

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' There are many women looking for younger men. Send a nice first message to someone you are attracted to and take it from there. If you dont get a reply, keep searching. After a few messages, invite her out for a coffee/drink/dinner? I like to meet guys first, you can see what they are really like and if you feel comfortable in each others company, then it will go naturally from there. Do state that you are shy though, it can be awkward meeting someone and making most of the conversation. Hope you find what you are searching for xx That's good advice koko!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  "How does a 38 year old with very little sex experience through being shy manage to seduce women over 50 I have a big thing for older women " Start by learning how to attract women.... in general......their age is for the most part merely your preference. You may not be their preference... but you can't always help that. You have commented that you are shy and inexperienced. So you might like to learn to overcome the shyness and lack of experience, and there are ways you can acknowledge what you feel are your drawbacks socially to use them to your advantage ...(for want of a better phrase). The only way to gain experience is to gain it. Some say you should fake it until you make it.Others say only genuine comfort and self comfort shines through. Either way, invest in bettering yourself, and your understanding of how communication works, and just spend time talking to people socially. Aside from that, you never know..... if you put at lease SOME effort into your profile, one of the lovely ladies of RHP might take a shine to you. DG

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Dunno I've normally been approached first. Just remember to make eye contact, smile at the right times and be polite. Practice these two basic tips on people at work. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Derp - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  ...I'll say the obvious thing, which is just to be yourself. Which is fine and appropriate so long as your not a wanker. Which begs the question...what if you don't know your a wanker? Which is usually the case with wankers...generally someone needs to inform them of that...it's in their nature, just like nice guys and girls.If you suspect you might be a wanker...then read up on it, learn about it, train yourself to be a good person...and it'll serve you better than just meeting women( or men ) too. And it's the easiest path to follow...you won't have to make shit up or think fast when she's put you on the spot about that extra toothbrush/s.And if you don't need to lie...even white ones...then confidence comes easy. And Confidence is King.Then you message those lovely ladies...

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Is that it is contradicts what you are saying now. You say you have very little experience, but that an older lady 'won't be disappointed.' I'm going to hazard a guess and say an older lady MIGHT be disappointed by an inexperienced man you over promises and under delivers! I would reword your profile to stress that you're looking for a bit of schoolin' by a sexy Mrs Robibson. Be funny, personable, flirty, honest, genuine. Show your real self, articulate what you NEED and what you BRING also. I wish you lots of luck in finding what you desire. Lovebitten xox - Posted from rhpmobile

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