M47
One for the ladies rough or gentle
February 08 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
Everyone is different, so you can't expect an answer to "do most women like.....". For me, I like both. Depending on the mood I'm in, the situation, the person I'm with,....... Also, my definition of "rough" would be different to others definition. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I like it rough, but not as you describe necessarily, just intense, not into spanking, it's always artificial to me, never seems real or natural, more like a routine they follow, but whatever others like, it just doesn't do it for me, same as hair pulling, that can seem the same, but it always depends on the guy, no two guys will ever be the same, no encounter will ever be the same. I have enjoyed being held up against a wall by the back of the throat, my first and my best who has just popped up again mmm but might not be okay with that on a first encounter, just depends. But for me, it's not about the action of the 'roughness' more the intensity of the person and the two of us together, from there it evolves and happens naturally
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Depending on the mood & circumstances, sometimes hard & fast, but always with respect & trust. Rough is not a word that conjures up good feelings. Hair pulling, spanking & choking is not acceptable and best suited to degrading, borderline abusive type porn. The problem is that do many men watch porn movies that depict rough sex, in which the women are being pushed around, spanked/slapped , having their hair pulled and being choked, and often these men think that it's acceptable and that all / most women enjoy this. Perhaps some women enjoy being "dominated " and or "degraded" by a trustful partner during sex. It's not something that we enjoy. We prefer gentle, sensual, and respectful. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Do = so - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm almost always a rough and hard girl. I can't get off on slow and easy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are holdens better than fords?? If so, why is it that Ford are still selling new cars?? Yes it's rhetorical....there's clearly a market that there's a demand for both...
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RHP User
9 years ago
You must know by know that women have all sorts of preferences. There is no 'rule.' I know myself I love gentle tender sex, but rough dominant sex coming from an experienced, considerate fellow is the absolute best, and would be my preference. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Forget the ''road map'' approach and rely on spontaneity. The kitten you slept with last night might just be a tiger in the morning....or not. Now then here's one for you OP...... define ''rough'' then ''gentle''.
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RHP User
9 years ago
And in one session it can be both. Just like changing positions, types of kissing etc. Communicate, listen and read body language. Things should flow not come from a schedule.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' Communicate, listen and read body language. Things should flow not come from a schedule. ...in a committed and permanent relationship which I respect, doubtless I would sweep you off your feet and head back home to Belize and never look back. What is so difficult about staying in that amazing mental space with a lover or even a friend? I just don't get it as you should be in harmony together. I can easily teach you how to speak Spanish and the locals would adore you. Best...... CM
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_in_Sydney' ¿Porque no los dos? \_(ツ)_/¯ Sólo somos humanos y en ocasiones tenemos solo la capacidad de centrarnos en nosotros mismos. Si fuera posible sólo veríamos el mundo a través de los ojos de los demás que nos rodean y seríamos felices dentro de nosotros mismos.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...I'm only bi-lingual so please go easy on me? Luv ya........ CM
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RHP User
9 years ago
...to Aussie speak however I would still like to hear from the OP as to a definition? Gentle is a mindset as is rough... if I wake up in the morning with a very special woman beside me I can get pretty rough on the shells making Eggs Benedict and heading back to bed with a pairing espresso and a massive smile. Best........ CM
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RHP User
9 years ago
There seems to be this big assumption that "some men" get their ideas from porn and then want to "afflict" their new ideas on unsuspecting women. Well guess what ? Women watch porn to ! And women get naughty ideas from porn, just like men do and fuck me some even want to act them out ! Who'd a thought ? So just ease up on the nasturtium casting ok.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
I can never see the pleasure in being treated rough during sex! When I had my long hair and my ex partners pulled my hair during sex, I got upset instantly and that killed the cat! The same with spanking me, hard or soft, it also killed my mood for me at once! Why? Because to me, these acts are disrespectful and selfish if both parties have not communicated about what they like and dislike beforehand. And while some men might not mean to be disrespectful or selfish when they pull hair, spank and do other rough acts, they don't consider whether or not such actions would cause pain to the ladies either! Hence, it is still a selfish act in the end! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
"My question is do most women like gentle, slow and sensual sex or rough with spanking hair pulling and rough?" Yes, please. I'll choose d) all of the above. What I enjoy spans a spectrum and I can thoroughly enjoy differing types of sex and intimacy. I can be as vanilla as anyone, and enjoy it - but I'd rather not stick to one style, and so I can enjoy experimenting, playing, exploring and feeling the edges of various sexual experiences. It can depend on my current needs and desires, as much as the lover I'm exploring with. But, I'd give as good as I get - so I spank, and hair-pull, etc., as much as I'd receive it. And I'll say it has nothing to do with the porn I watch. I'm not generally a porn consumer, only thing I look at these days is the occasional glance at my old tumblr page, and that is all very sensual and is rather vanilla - basically just bouncing boobs and pussy eating :) ladieswholush dot...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Then they fell in love. The end
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RHP User
9 years ago
I prefer to use the dynamics of both. Slow passionate eyes fixed, then slowly get harder. Till your both sweaty and wanting more.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ford is better then holden haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's a bit too general. I like both. Sometimes being pampered, massaged, licked, kissed softly all over is just what I need. Other times hard, fast and animalistic is very much appreciated. Having my lover manoeuvre me to a position he wants while using firm hands is hot. And again my definition of rough will be different to other's (for example DC). I love a bit of arse slapping and hair pulling (not so much on the choking) when the situation is right. It has never been negative for me in the way DC describe. It saddens me if these have been their experiences and that they shy away from trying different things. But to say others that enjoy it are being degraded I do not agree with. I feel it adds other sensations to an already awesome experience.
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RHP User
9 years ago
👍😉 spot on but hang on, haven't finished reading all comments yet, onto page 2 in a sec 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
It depends on the situation. It depends on the person. It depends on the mood. It depends on the chemistry. It depends on the situation. It depends on the location. It depends on who's watching... or not. It depends on the time. It depends... Both are incredibly exciting if they happen at the right time and with the right person/people. SIS: Seguro que contigo los dos serían increíbles. Seguiré soñando. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry, don't want you to feel you're coming under fire here but I strongly disagree with your comment. I want it, I get off on it, the guy isn't hornier than I am, or sicker than I am, are you kidding? 😉 I can tend to scare some lol but they know what I'm like, I always let guys know in early communications, if being degraded and dominated etc is not what you like, fine, but a blanket statement that it's wrong? No, it's bloody amazing and I highly recommend it. You should relax and let yourself go, or at the very least, stop judging the sexual preferences of others. And I judge, I know that, but I tend to judge what people don't do, as opposed to what they do do aha 😉 but if you had any clue how intense and amazing it is, it's how I orgasm, otherwise I lose interest, I'm a sub and I like passion and heat/fire, it's intense, but it's not wrong. My mind is a big part of my submission, long before they even turn up at the door. Quick disclaimer, some of the young guys I meet, we just arrange to meet, with the intention to have sex, get down and dirty, not necessarily Dom/sub, and that's great too, I love all sex, love being naked with, well you get the picture, but cringe when I read something like that 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Rough!Absolutely without question
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Bazingal' It's a bit too general. I like both. Sometimes being pampered, massaged, licked, kissed softly all over is just what I need. Other times hard, fast and animalistic is very much appreciated. Having my lover manoeuvre me to a position he wants while using firm hands is hot. And again my definition of rough will be different to other's (for example DC). I love a bit of arse slapping and hair pulling (not so much on the choking) when the situation is right. It has never been negative for me in the way DC describe. It saddens me if these have been their experiences and that they shy away from trying different things. But to say others that enjoy it are being degraded I do not agree with. I feel it adds other sensations to an already awesome experience. Thank goodness everyone is different and likes different things - sometimes all at the same time! Personally I'm not into anything that leaves a bruise or a mark. I have asthma and the thought of something around my neck that restricts my breathing is very scary for me. I don't even like polo neck jumpers ;) However, if that is what floats your boat who am I to judge. Having said that though, I enjoy a little 'softish' rough play as well as slow sensual sex. It depends on my mood, his mood and the situation. My hair being gently tugged (hair 'pulling' until it hurts is not my thing) and firm masculine hands on me can be very erotic. I'm anything but a submissive personality but sometimes the feeling of being held and guided by a strong man is a real turn on - as long as the trust is there. Other times being kissed on the back of the neck....mmmmm then having my skin and hair gently caressed ...oh boy... Variety is the spice of life - sometimes bland, sometimes hot ....
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Mrs D commenting here . As we normally always post using an iPhone, generally on the go, it often happens that the incorrect meaning comes across or that we don't fully explain ourselves . That's the danger of the written word alas. Someone will always take the wrong meaning and one has to be so careful what one writes. Australia can be so politically correct and there is always someone who will take offence. Rough is not a word that conjures up good feelings for my husband and I. When we think of a woman receiving "rough sex", it conjures up images of those porn movies depicting her being manhandled, pushed around, hair pulled & slapped and generally abused. That is not something that we enjoy watching as it feels like abuse to us, and also seems disrespectful & degrading towards women in general. This is our perception and understanding of the issue, based on our limited experience. We are entitled to feel this way, just as others are entitled to have their views & preferences. I / We have been married for quite a long time. I was a virgin when we met. Our lovemaking has been tender, respectful (towards one another ) loving, gentle etc. There have been times when we have been "hungry" and have ravaged one another as it were. Jumped one another's bones. One could say that the sex was then very heated , passionate , hard pounding, almost frenzied and rough. But there was never any hair pulling, biting, scratching , slapping / smacking or spitting. We are in love and we have a long term loving relationship built on trust and so neither of us feels the need to dominate one another. We don't do role play type games during sex. Hair pulling, spanking & choking is not acceptable for us, in our lovemaking and it's something we have seen in what we believe is degrading, borderline abusive type porn. Just our opinion after watching such porn, which actually turned us off and not on. We are not saying that such porn is bad and that others must not watch it. We are just saying that we don't enjoy it. Just as we don't enjoy seeing women being manhandled, pushed around and abused (even if it's just make believe as depicted in the porn movies) We watched a Dom/Sub show at a private swingers party. The Dom slapped his sub around, pulling her hair, making her bend to his will, poking her with things. In all honesty, it did nothing for us. Yes it was consensual we assume, and perhaps he (and possibly she) was enjoying it. We however did not. It did nothing for us. It did not arouse us but instead brought back images of the porn we described above. It was a turn off for us and we felt sorry for her. Maybe we just don't get it ? Some people love smoking, others hate it. We all have different tastes. We are not saying rough, hair pulling, choking etc is bad & unacceptable for everyone. It's just not acceptable to us, in our lovemaking and our loving marriage. We don't enjoy it and we find it disrespectful towards one another. We are also not dictating what others may / may not do amongst themselves. If they enjoy it rough then let them do as they please to one another, but just don't try to force it on us, should we have a MFMF 4 some for example. We honestly believe that quite a few people pick up certain habits from what they have seen in porn, and then try to mimic this when they have sex. There have been lots of studies done on this, and even discussions within these forums, which tend to agree with this. We often wonder whether the actresses in porn are enjoying being anally fisted, whether they are in pain or not. The problem arises when these porn movies make certain people (not everyone) believe that it's actually enjoyable (for everyone) to be fisted. After all, if one has seen it in the movies it must be real ehhh? Lol So to answer your question OP, I, as a woman do not enjoy rough sex, nor hair pulling, choking, spanking or slapping. Whilst I may not have experienced it personally (it's just not our scene ) I have watched others engage in it. It is not a turn on for me, or my husband. None of the couples we have played with have been into anything like that. Although there was one that started spanking. But we made it clear that we did not enjoy it and so thankfully they stopped. We prefer gentle, sensual, and loving. We do however acknowledge that some people like it rough, and we accept their choice/ preference . Each to his / her own. - Posted from rhpmobile - Posted from rhpmobile
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johnisfun3
9 years ago
I am not into rough sex to the point of leaving a mark or hair pulling. I have only go as far as gentle smack on the bum. So I was curious to hear what women prefer. Thanks to everyone for your coments. I guess human nature is soo complex and we are all different which makes life so intetesting. Moreover our needs change with time, our mood and if I could say energy levels at the time so does the intensity of lovemaking changes. It seems its best to sense the mood and take it from there. You certainly do not want to kill the moment by making the wrong move. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes thanks, and that's fine that you don't like it. But you have to understand there are a lot of people who love it, not just go along with it, but get off on it. If porn is the influence, bravo, makes no difference, if two or more people are turned on in the company of each other, bring it on. If you don't like it, I respect that. You make your preferences and boundaries clear, which is important for anyone playing in this scene. We're all here for our own enjoyment and that of those we play with, so long as we're on the same page when that takes place, then all good
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RHP User
9 years ago
There are varying degrees of "rough" sex, and what might be rough for one, will be straight to another. It's important to look at what you yourself desire, and then go from there. In saying that, just because you enjoy light spanking/hair pulling, doesn't mean you are Dominant or submissive. There's far more to calling yourself either than "rough" sex.
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RHP User
9 years ago
My wife and I love doing it rough, particularly spanking, hair pulling, biting etc. My wife deliberately resists in the beginning in order to provoke me to get rough. That's when I tear of her clothes and pin her down ;)
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johnisfun3
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yes thanks, and that's fine that you don't like it. But you have to understand there are a lot of people who love it, not just go along with it, but get off on it. If porn is the influence, bravo, makes no difference, if two or more people are Please don't get me wrong since I started the thread I felt it was only fair I share my views. I only said I was into lighter approach than hard and something that can hurt. I would not mind throwing on the bed or picking and turning the girl around. But you are right making the boundaries clear is important. I believe in trying things at least once before making my decision.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...rough sex! But here's the thing - I love light Dom-Sub play but I don't submit to the Dom unless I feel he is superior in many ways and hence, worthy of my trust and submission. Only then can I immerse myself in role play and rough sex. IRL, I'm pretty independant and confident (most times) so for me to relinquish my "personal power", the man's got to be an alpha male in my eyes. This encompasses the physical - taller (I swoon if the man is at least 1.8m!), broad shouldered, and bigger in stature, to personality traits like more confident than I am, smarter than I am, strong leadership qualities, etc. In other words, the man needs to have the fortitude to tame this shrew and only then will I yield and the rough sex gets me massively wet and astronomically orgasmic! I like to put up a bit of a struggle, despite knowing that pussy will be conquered anyway and resistance is futile. But the struggle adds to the fun and gets the adrenaline flowing. I love getting pinned down because it's a show of the man's strength and I get to see flexed muscles... MmmmMmmm! =-D Needless to say, a discussion about boundaries and a safe word is very important. It's very much a mind game and display of the good ol' male dominance for me. As for soft and sensual, I can only immerse myself in that in the context of a true love relationship. It's highly intimate and it creates a bond and I don't wish to trudge into that territory unless I love the man and vice versa and we are in some form of serious relationship. Otherwise, I feel a growing discomfort in my stomach. It's like being intimate but the context is inappropriate and the person is a misfit. I prefer to be clear-cut and not ambiguous and in my mind, soft and sensual is boyfriend's or couples' territory. I don't want mind fuckery so I need to protect myself by keeping soft and sensual sex exclusive to the man I love.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have to disagree - I did not pick up my penchant for rough sex from porn. In fact, porn was banned in the country that I'm originally from and I didn't get to watch any porn until much later in life. I had an adolescence that was largely unexposed to porn. Within that context, I discovered, when the raging hormones started creating havoc, that I gravitate towards rough sex. I equate that with masculine men who are able to have mastery over their minds and bodies - to be rough and dominant and yet be in supreme mental control so they never become sadistic nor masochistic and definitely not abusive. It's like almost tipping into the dark side but never really putting anyone at risk nor harm. Everyone and anyone can do soft and sensual. But to do rough sex right is much trickier and requires a lot of mental discipline. A good Dom makes his Sub feel safe and does not leave her emotionally wrecked whilst doing things that on the surface, can easily crush a person's fundamental self-esteem. A good Dom has good EQ and communication skills and I love knowing that there is gentleness amidst the apparent roughness. A good Sub keeps her self-esteem and confidence intact whilst relinquishing control to her Dom. It's a huge exercise in trust and the interesting dichotomy of keeping one's dignity intact whilst acts that might not look too respectful is being carried out. Understandably, it is too much for most minds to take and Subs who aren't of strong mettle can end up in a hopeless mess emotionally and psychologically. It's a game that only strong minds and strong characters should indulge in to prevent any direct harm and/or collateral damages. Both the Dom and Sub have to come out of the experiences intact and unblemished mentally, emotionally and psychologically. And all that whilst enjoying the adrenaline rush and orgasmic heights of rough sex! Needless to say, only strong minds and personalities should indulge in this because suffice to say that in people of weaker mettle, too many things can go wrong and it can end up too confronting for certain individuals. It ain't just a sexual act - it is very much a mental-emotional-psychological challenge and opens up a whole new dimension to the sexual act. Any man and every man can drive a car. But how many can be a pilot who is safe and yet bring you into the heights of ecstacy? ;) ITM2, we need to have a thread on the Dom-Sub dynamic! ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I get it, I do....but, my question to you is, could you fall totally in love with someone who is not your 1.8m alpha male, I wonder ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can and I have. None of my ex's were that tall. Well... I mentioned that not because their lack of ideal height made them ex's, but to highlight that these were men I had serious, long relationships with and none of them met the height criteria so therefore it's not cast in stone. Saying that I love diamonds (I don't) doesn't mean that I wouldn't be attracted to cubic zirconias. Often, it's the intelligence, charm, saavy and personality that seals the deal. My often long lists of ideals are just a manifestation of my daydreams and fantasies. It isn't the first time you've brought stuff like that up with me and the motive is not lost on me. I only have this to say - I often separate real life with my online persona and it doesn't translate into WYSIWYG.
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RHP User
9 years ago
There is no motive, other than I thought the dichotomy interesting. I get the hint, I won't comment on anything further from you. But I will give you a tip, being a strong, independent and resilient woman and in your face rudeness are not the same thing. Best of. 50z
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RHP User
9 years ago
Contrast... rough .V. gentle... Kiss and caress have their place... as does a good spank, pussy slap or nipple bite... for any person... sure some prefer multiples of the aforementioned... oh and I did not even mention the hair pull... chewing on an earlobe or any of 1000 other niceties.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...get off my back. You see apparent rudeness when I didn't see any. I have felt you have been sarcastic in response to my posts on more than two occasions. Since there's obvious friction there, I truly welcome not hearing anymore caustic remarks from you. Live and let live.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...a spectacular and visually stunning French movie, Le Belle et Le Bete (Beauty and the Beast). Belle just said to the Beast defiantly, "You think a beast like you can please a woman like me?!" Woohoo! Prelude to rough sex! =-D Ok... I've got a completely filthy mind! =-P
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sometimes ya feel like an apple, other times ya may feel like a orange. For me sometimes apples are great but other times I want a bit more spice and love an orange, think my partner has a lot to do with what I'm feeling too. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Where did that comment come from to peony? That was just flat out rude and unfounded 👎 Peony, you nailed it, and yes we must discuss this Dom/sub thing further. A topic of great interest to me 😉
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On_Safari
9 years ago
Domme. The bruises were well worth that memory. An old lover once pinwheeled me and other things, I swear had he not untied me I would've trashed the 2nd bed in his house breaking free to have at him and his body after such sweet intense teasing torture (faraway look) but I'm sure there are new adventures just around the corner. Open yourself OP, you don't know what you really like until you've tried it 👍🏽 Indy
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RHP User
9 years ago
I understand what you mean in relation to not categorizing yourself or how you like encounters to at out, and you don't have to. Although some of us have a strong preference for rough most of the time, can't speak for everyone, but I personally would love love love a nice slow, oiled, erotic massage, and to give as well. I would also like to find guys who like long sessions, or lots of sessions overnight or all day. A few hours fits in easier around work commitments, life can be busy also, but let me just say, I love all sex with the right partners. When it's good, when it works, there's no formula, so long as the guy is into me and interested in my pleasure as well as his own, I'm a happy girl, and always hope it will lead to meeting them again. But it doesn't have to be rough all the time. I saw one guy for a few years, he's still floating but I think I might have lost him now. He was incredible, and I don't remember any of our encounters being anything beyond oral. He would pleasure me slowly and deliberately, delicious, I would also make him a happy man, our sessions were never rushed, but amazing. And not rough, so an example of how different and equally good it can be with a different dynamic/different partner 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm also sorry for not responding sooner. I forgot to check this topic 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
Both, with doggy, bum being slapped and hair pulled back, very nice, but also like slow & hard depends on guy & size :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Gentle and slow l like to enjoy my sex - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If someone "spanked" me or "pulled my hair", I would consider myself assaulted and I'd probably tell the police about it. If a dude even expressed a willingness to do that to me... I'd show him the door. As an adult women who enjoys dignity, respect and equality, acts of violence re-framed as "sex" don't turn me on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Porsche3five6' If someone "spanked" me or "pulled my hair", I would consider myself assaulted and I'd probably tell the police about it. If a dude even expressed a willingness to do that to me... I'd show him the door. As an adult women who enjoys dignity, respect and equality, acts of violence re-framed as "sex" don't turn me on. - Posted from rhpmobile Equating enjoying rough sex with having no dignity, respect and/or equality is ridiculous. Enjoying the physical sensations of being restrained by the hair or being held down or slapped/spanked wherever has nothing to do with respect. I love a good hair pull or being held down in the right moment - not a fan of spanking or slapping though, as the physical sensation does nothing for me. Violence is defined as "behaviour involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something.' The acts that I like are still considered rough but aren't with intent to hurt or damage. And if someone does enjoy a bit of pain, why does that automatically mean that they have no dignity, respect and equality? Miss Little xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sometimes the brain wants it, other times it wants care. I've known subs who can take higher than their previous threshold then become so sensitive the next time their 4 is a 10.
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RHP User
9 years ago
"dignity, respect and equality" are critical... even if you are delivering a good spanking etc. BUT it is a case of HORSES FOR COURSES... some enjoy it and some do not... communicate... respect and attempt to deliver what is required... no more... no less.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for commenting, great to see a new face. Given your level of fitness I doubt you'd need the police.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Which is why in my younger years (early 20's) I dished out more than my fair share of spankings! Not once was it ever considered violent or abusive as it was completely safe, and consensual. I much prefer to be on the receiving end nowadays, and the dignity and respect I have for my own mind and body has grown immensely. I don't allow just anyone to spank me, they need to have earned that right.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I like to gentle to start, with lots of looking, sniffing, licking an dirty talk. As it picks up pace I like the intensity of the foreplay turning him on until he slowly loses control and I suffer “the wrath of his cock because my asshole has sent him delirious” LOL In that regard I like spanking as a ‘corrective measure” (you didn’t suck, nibble, do it hard enough, you didn’t beg sincerely, your not saying loud enough what a dirty little cock whore you are, you failed to say Sir etc etc). I love being choked when kissed and whispered in my ear saying how being such a flirt and tease I must pay the price of my slut behavior, and, I love my hair being pulled (to violently shift me into a new position (over side of bed, back around to missionary etc). I also like all the those things to be used not only as a “corrective” signal in the midst of passion and also as a sign of his mounting lust, but also a gentle spank afterwards as a sign of “well done” like you slap a horse on the rump, or pulled up by the hair to be kissed on the cheeks (either end LOL)
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me, it all depends on what mood I'm in at the time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Goodvintage
9 years ago
Or what mood your partner gets you in...?
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johnisfun3
9 years ago
Quoting 'Porsche3five6' If someone "spanked" me or "pulled my hair", I would consider myself assaulted and I'd probably tell the police about it. As an adult women who enjoys dignity, respect and equality, acts of violence re-framed as "sex" don't turn me on. When I started the thread I knew my question was general and it will be hard for people to choose as we have seen it could be "horses for courses" or "apples and oranges". Good to hear a different perspective and that you are clear in what you want. You have all the right to choose what you want and how you want to be treated. Although feel sorry for the men who missed out on the intimate time with a sexual goddess like yourself and were thrown out as they would be too focused on their own desires and failed to understand what you want.
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RHP User
9 years ago
A sexy sultry combination of both preferebly. - Posted from rhpmobile
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johnisfun3
9 years ago
Quoting 'kissmedaddy' A sexy sultry combination of both preferebly. - Posted from rhpmobile Well put "kissmedaddy" its an art and there is no one size fits all approach. If communication is good trying a few different things can make sex so much exciting. Thanks everyone for contributing.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can do soft and it's nice but if i'm honest i like it hard and a bit rough the best ;) i don't like anything fake and theatrical though. It needs to be real. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I LOVE AIT ROUGH!! Hair pulling, spanking, being restrained to the bed by wrists and ankles.... Mmmmmm yum yum yum 😈😈😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I like doing both, but it's all about the situation and girl. Honestly most girls get turned on if you switch from slow, gentle and tender to fast, wild, passionate and rough, and back :) However you can't always ravish one like an animal nor can you always just cuddle and go slow and gentle. Look at her, listen to her, that's key I guess. Sometimes you can throw one on the bed, lift the skirt, press her down and fuck her like an animal, sometimes kiss her, let her feel your body and take your time slowly undressing her, sometimes restrain her completely, sometimes let her take the rains. I've had both and everything in between, all can be fun. One note thought, if one is rough: start gentle and adjust! Especially biting nipples, spanking or pulling hair is a real sensual topic. Talking helps :b And pulling hair: close to the scalp, otherwise the play session might stop immediately. If I am not certain if someone likes what I do, I ask, ifI am certain it wasn't to ones liking I ask, make up for it with a thousand kisses and start again slowly, tender and gentle, showing her what a treasure she is to me
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RHP User
9 years ago
Most of us women are emotionally driven creatures. It depends on mood and who we're beneath the sheets with. We all have fav positions for both rough sex and gentle sex, but really, it depends (for me at least) on the moment and person we're with. For example, sex with a FWB may vary and involve heaps of different types of sex depending on what we both know about each other. Sex with a FB is usually less complicated and straight into what we know is hot and satisfying, based on past hookups. And sex with a partner is more relaxed, can involve lots of slow sex, and is more emotionally connective with the other person. Great topic OP. MM. - Posted from rhpmobile
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