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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I believe is popular for that, i think you have to be a paid member to access it though. Reminds me of another site, which had a free for all chatroom that was open till 2130hrs i think...(long time ago).But what used to happen from about 2100 on was all the guys (cept me....of course...lol ) would be going hammer and tongs trying to hand out there msn addies, and try to lure the girls away from the room....bizzare stuff, like watching wild dogs  try to cut a ewe out of the mob. The Key i believe is treat the ladies the same as you would if you met them in a social situation in real life, Courtesy & Respect will go along way, but you might not get noticed because of some of the hooligans that get round these chatrooms and make arses of themselves to draw attention their way.Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  It doesn't have to be of your face if you're shy but us girls do like to see something of who we're chatting to :0)   Being a paid member probably increases your chances of a reply too, plus you can then message girls you like the look of when "window shopping" because to be quite honest flirts are very limiting and at least a message shows you've put some thought into the words   Hope this helps and good luck in 2010!   K

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi is a great way to start a chat..having a picture does help..from a girls persepctive..I enjoy seeing who I'm talking too..but try to show who you really are..and take in interest in them that goes beyond sex..ask a bout..how there day has been and make a comment.. dont be afraid to have a sense of humour just keep it simple.. also pick the people who you chat to wisely..and dont go for people who you feel you cant connected with..be prepared to cross your boundaries a little and speak to people you wouldnt normaly speak too..you might be supprised.. but most of all..dont judge people..keep an open mind..everyone has had different expereinces in there life which has made them into the people they are today..you might not always agree with what someone tells u but dont judge them by it either.. Good Luck

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  You need a pic or two at least. Big smile! No Zoolander style Blue Steel looks and don’t be flexing your muscles in the mirror... That will make you look like a knob. Haha. Not too much nudity in your public photos. Unlike men, most women don’t really want to see your bits straight off the cuff. If they want to see it, they’ll ask soon enough.   Then become a paying member.   Then be tactful in your messages. No swear words or stupid text message speak... again, that’s reserved for the knobs.   Make sure you incorporate a few things from their profile into your message. That'll let them know that you've actually read their profile and not just looked at their pictures.   Ask a few questions so they have something to reply to – it will make it easier for them to think of something to write. If your message is “dead” they will delete it.   Only message girls you can actually see yourself meeting up with. Don’t be “interested” if you’re really not that keen. They hate that. It leads to them being let down when you stand them up later.   Be cheeky, but don’t be a smart arse and don’t talk dirty unless they do first!! If you can make them giggle, you’re half way there.   Be very careful in the chat rooms. They’re very clicky. I’d actually suggest you don’t even bother with them as they will give you false ideas about the dynamics of the site.   Try that... That’s the way I’ve been doing it and I’ve met lots of really nice girls on here.   Good luck, mate ;)

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