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Open relationship
October 10 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unfortunately i dont believe in one , for me it is either all or nothing .xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
It takes mature and confident minds to succeed with an open relationship. Honesty and communication are the key and watch out for the green monster called jealousy. Only ever do it if you both are ok with it, never force your partner into it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For us it means being able to discuss what we want openly and getting "permission" before we proceed
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RHP User
12 years ago
Open to talk about anything. Open to others to share. Open to love. AND....... Open to change.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
...I don't think you can get angry with one another if one gives the other warts. That's one thing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
An open relationship to us has always been viewed that both partners can play with who ever they like NQA then arrive back to there partner and enjoy there relationship after they have had there fun they can of course at times play together as a couple this is where the gray area comes in its seen on females profiles that open means plays alone 98% of the time but reality is they very rearly play alone and its more so if it suites them when asked as opposed to being free to play solo you find most open relationship females have there couples profile and will automatically send you there couples link when you message them very few state on there profiles that they play alone and they are the 2 % that truely do have the open relationship most say they want single female time girls looking for girls that is and the add that hubby is there to be shared if you like or can just watch this is a couple not a open relationship there is no bluerd lines about it looking forward to seeing others opinions
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would think the couple plays seperatley. I expect him look like George Clooney and make me a little nespresso.
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Rob_Ally
12 years ago
Check out the Open or Swinging article in RHP's Community section which explains the difference between the two arrangements. Axx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not that easy I would imagine.. Lots to think about before getting to the point of go ahead and see what happens.Providing you play strictly to the rules and stay within each others guidelines AND be totally accepting without regrets. It could be a good thing. If having that itch scratched helps ' why not. ? Kalifornia69 Appreciate what you're saying, safety first. BTW, nice shape boobs.. Jay
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RHP User
12 years ago
Means you date other people outside of your main relationship. That is on your own! So that may mean having casual lovers to having boyfriend/girlfriends. I don't expect to see anything on a profile because each couple will have different rules in place. For instance, some couples prefer to meet all their partners lovers and other couples may not want to know or meet them. Everyone is different. - Although it would be nice to see, whether you after casual sex or a more intimate relationship where you might go on dates, do you want sleep overs, are you after someone to meet every week or less frequently, etc.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would definitely have George Clooney! 😍
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RHP User
12 years ago
In all honesty I have never seen an open relationship work.... No Meeka you can NOT ruin George before me. :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
What it means to me.Having the freedom to do what makes you complete and fulfilled, without limitations and without guilt.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I meant to say , i dont believe in Open Relationship they just dont work , either i am loyal to one Man or nothing at all , as for now i love playing with my Cubs , until i find" the One " and i will be all His all the way and thats me , as for open relationship , Naayyy !..thats just not my game , Too much BS, at least when you are single i am free to play without upseting anyone and thats more my game.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just have to agree with Jay... Fantastic boobs Kali
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you for the Compliments guys , yes Boobs both are happy and healthy ,ha,ha .xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can't help but agree, but I know of a couple it seems to work for . Not close friends ' but a friends of a friend who introduced me at a BBQ.. Unbeknown to me at the time, I was taken back by her flirting in front of her hubby. Only later I was told about their open relationship, was told they remain a happy couple regardless. Not first hand knowledge ' I know. But I do tend to agree with your train of thought. If I were in a relationship that's where my loyalties remain. But I'm sure there are those that are more able to accept a open relationship than others.. PS.. BTW, Did I mention you have nice shaped boobs
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Mr_Invisible
12 years ago
I have tried open setups before and they usually lead to jealousy from one side or the otherSeems to be OK when she's getting some... which was most of the time cause its easier for ladies to find loversBut when I went off on my own the green eyed monster returned to the relationshipThey never ended wellThough one day I might get lucky and find the right lady to have the right relationship withCasual seems to be working right now without any hint of relationship
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RHP User
12 years ago
They both clearly lied to you in my mind. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You're most welcome... No doubting both are happy and healthy.. Veery healthy... lol...
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madotara69
12 years ago
Marriage/relationships for convenience. Some couples come together as friends even lovers, but not necessarily intimate with love. There is a fair range of reasons why some may couple up for the convenience.If they are friends and honest with each other then it may work out fine and dandy. We are in love and best friends, we choose to share our experiences together and that has worked.Personally, if Tara wanted to go and play around with another guy alone from me, I would be devastated. I would find it difficult to see it anything other than we have serious problems. Call it an insecurity, I don't mind.MadoMado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I honestly believe open relationships can work for people in any (casual/committed/married/poly) situation. It's always felt natural to me, and ethical non-monogamy is something I will continue to practice, I won't hide from it. Saying that, I also believe that most people are monogamous and nothing is going to change that fact, no one is better or worse but just different, "conversion" of any kind is ultimately useless and just as patronizing as saying "Everyone is monogamous. Period."It takes a lot of trust, a lot of communication, and being so honest it can hurt, but once everything has fallen into place it can take people (individually and as a couple/group) to a level of sexual freedom and liberation never experienced before, and as someone who has always been seeking that I can't go back.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We do not describe ourselves as having an open relationship: because we don't. Mrs C plays with other women, and Mr C doesn't play at all (or watch) unless both girls want him to. - Posted from rhpmobile
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JohnAnn2227
12 years ago
We have an open relationship and have had so for a number of years. For us it works but dates happen less frequently than our swing nights. For us it means that if I am out on a girls night and meet someone I am attracted to I can pursue the opportunity. I only do this when I am with girlfriends who know of our lifestyle. Sometimes it can mean a cheeky snog in a dark corner but it ha,s at times, meant getting a room in a hotel and really enjoying myself. I always ring John first and send him a text showing my new friend's face and details of where we are. The same applies for John. We used to go on dates at times with others but when kids came along the time for that evaporated. Also hard to explain who mummy's new friend is and why mummy had a sleepover LOL!
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