Open relationships

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  Is another word for an armed bomb. You just don't know when it's going to explode. But it always does. Those that don't agree, their bomb is still ticking. Don't get me wrong, l like them but l just don't get to invedted/comfortable.

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  Invested......derrr

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I agree. Ive heard a few stories of jealous hubbies at parties, one grabbing a younger guys car keys and phone and lobbing them into the pool. Not that dramatic but a poor show of behaviour. Id play with my partner( and did, which was very enjoyable) but never without. To me, and its just my opinion, its inviting trouble eventually. There are a lot of men on RHP in seemingly open relationships, although they also want discreet meets.......But OP, its your life, and as long as your happy with your decision then whatever happens is on you.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  7 years ago

  However, the ones I know have all their issues in the relationship repaired and sorted first. Sometimes couples hit the bottom of the barrell as last resort, hoping it will improve their relationship or make the other person fall in love. As Annie stated, ticking time bombs. It is not fair or ethical to bring others in your relationship if your own shit in your relationship is not sorted out. It just makes an awkard and embarressing situation for all parties involved. Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  7 years ago

  IMO A single male profile will not cut the cake. Do include her in everything! It is creepy to organise "accidental bump into us while we are out" or "go by yourself" organised meets, because you want to have the open relationship or want to be intimate with others because it is lacking in your own. It is not up to you to decide for her. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I agree with CucknShells. I have never been in one but i have misbehaved with a few ladies who are in one and what i have noticed is that they communicate with each other and its something that they both really want. I have met a couple of couples who are open and who dont communicate, one person wants it more or are using it as a way to fix a relationship and it just doesnt work and its awkward as hell and i run away from them.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  It seems to my thinking, that many people are missing a very obvious aspect to this Spice is one thing, but this is based on the premiss of lack of satisfactory frequency To the author.... you state that you "aren’t intimate as much as we would like" Now in most relationships, the opportunity for sex within that relationship is significantly higher than the frequency of coordinating sex with any additional, outside party would ever be. So I dont see how having occasional sex with outside parties can address what you have outlined as the core feature of the unsatisfactory frequency of your relationship sex.

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