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Opinions on younger guys? Why? Why not?
February 12 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
It doesn’t matter what we think, if you’re too young for the people you want that’s all that really matters. Lucky for you you’ll age, so it won’t be a problem forever 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi to start of with you smoke and a lot of people including myself won't meet smokers. For me you are way too young the same age as my son so I would see you as a child( not meaning that in a nasty way) just how it is. Most women not all will not meet guys their kids ages. Good luck
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Preferences.... simples. I won't fuck anyone that's "reasonably" young enough to be my child. Have been with as young as 18 in recent years and it just wasn't for me. Alot of Under 30s just dont seem to have the level of maturity or the physical appearance I respond to...... HUGE fan of a rockin Dad Bod and full beard ..... Oh my gush😍😍
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RHP User
7 years ago
We can hypothesise, we can survey, we can discuss and workshop all of the endless list of reasons behind people’s decisions and motivations for saying ‘no’ to understand the reasons... But it boils down to this People like what they like, If you’re not ‘it’, trying to change their mind is like writing with a broken pencil....... pointless and a waste of time 😎
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FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
You will be surprised how many couples/women are not into young guys. Stiffler's mum fantasy is possibly just a Hollywood movie myth. Here's why: - little sex experience - lack of imagination - no money to pay for a hotel room - little life experience to connect to other people on a mental and emotional level Smoking is a definite turn off too.
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Reading between the lines , id say the couples you spoke with probally felt too uncomfortable to continue. When a couple have children , and most do , the hardest thing to do is ignore the age factor particularly when thier age is close to that of thier own kids. While its true ' some couples dont mind, others do and its just the way it is . Dont take it to heart. Concentrate on the couples who dont mind the age gap, they do exist. Btw , Purplehaze4u was right on the smoking count , most ppl just dont like it and see it as a deal breaker..
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sweetas_j
7 years ago
Ditto what FredandGinger said. Mainly lack of experience and inability to connect. Hubby and I tend not to go under 30. Having said that, all guys are different. Can’t generalise all the young guys as hopeless lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
For us it’s a lack of being able to engage and hold interesting conversation that doesn’t revolve around bragging about the size of their asses and their prowess supported with the obligatory and numerous asset pics. It’s potentially lack of being a giving lover, most younger males tend to be thinking only about their own end game and not the sexual satisfaction of those they are involved with. Additionally to pair with that typically comes a lack of being able to participate in long drawn out play sessions as again the game seems to be all about them scoring in the end zone and the quicker the better. This is only summising and isn’t a reflection of all single males but maybe a reflection of what you are up against. As also said by others - people want what they want and if you don’t match it then you don’t match it regardles of being single male, single female, couple or group. It’s about everyone being compatible on more than just a physical scale - there’s so many other aspects.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It is just wrong. It isn't really the money or experience. They could be a problem regardless of age and most 20 somethings have a disposable income. Imagining them in the same class as your child or even being your child is the biggest turn off. We prefer over 30 but will go to late 20s for the right person in the couple.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I'm either 1. just that into you or 2. not that into you. Depending on 1. Social Behaviour and behaviour towards me 2. Maturity 3. Emotional intelligence and intelligence 4. Core values and common interests Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
No time management skills or have to no idea how to organise a root in a brothel. Red Flag. But then again, a few years ago, I had had a lover in his early 20's. He was great and very respectful. He was even happy to show public display of affection in public with me (as in hold hands, hand on my back etc). Our ages never came into it when we were together. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Agree. I met a guy who was 30...first meet, he asked me out and we went into the city for drinks. He was suited up and held my hand as we waked around town. Very intelligent, interesting conversation and well mannered. I saw him up until I met my ex but we still catch up for a friendly drink. It depends on the maturity of the guy. Some older guys who have messaged me have made it plain that they are only after a root and boot. Thats fine, but its not what I prefer.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Are a funny thing. From peoples experience, stereo typing is a reality. At the top age range, mid 50s up, getting it hard is the big thing. At the lower range up to late 20s, early thirtysomething, going the distance and stringing together a few words is the big thing. Not saying that's you but peoples time is valuable so they will steer toward the safe range,30 to 50. Yes I'm stereotyping but that's human nature and it's in the back of my mind when l get hit up by guys in their 20s. Yes l know a 30 year age gap is huge when pillow talking so I'm no longer going there, male or female.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thank you all for your comments and discussion, exactly the sort of discourse I was actually looking for. It's been both interesting and enlightening to see everyone's opinions and ideas on the matter. I definitely understand all the points made, such as couples with kids and mental stimulation ect. I guess ultimately it's just a wait and see sort of scenario, I'm sure there are going to be a few people out there whom are interested in a younger guy like myself. Ultimately it's in human nature to generalise and that's perfectly reasonable. But thank you all for the comments and discussion. Also need to change my profile I did quit about 2months ago 😆
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RHP User
7 years ago
But i have used the like button.........Lots of times
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RHP User
7 years ago
Also forgot to add this to my main point, but if there are any constructive criticisms about my profile I would love to hear them
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RHP User
7 years ago
Siinatra you are your best reflection of your profile - not what others do or don’t like or do or don’t recommend - know who you are and what you seek and create your profile to reflect this. You can only be you not anyone else’s version of you
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RHP User
7 years ago
I find most young guys, not all, don't have the maturity level we are looking for. And being told they love being with a mature age woman really pissed me off.
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RHP User
7 years ago
From reading your posts here and your profile you seem like an intelligent thoughtful young . Age is only one indicator of who we are. Good luck with your journey here Hugs Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
We are going to generalise and point out the obvious of RHP - For every 10 different communications you have on here, you will be lucky to convert one in to a meeting. If you manage to generate 10 meetings, you will be lucky if you convert any of them in to a night of wild sex and passion. You are swinging in Australia - we are good tellers of tales, and that is about it. We actually prefer younger playmates (couples and singles). We find they don't come with the baggage, ego, hangups, or demands, that people in the lifestyle in Australia our age have. The only reason the communication between yourself and us ended at the flirt stage is because you are in Queensland and we are in Perth. We probably would have tried to meet up with you by now otherwise. Stick with it and be patient. You are young, well spoken and cute. Fun will find you eventually. Or move overseas. It really is a whole lot easier to have sex in most places outside of here :D
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