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OrGasms...the nature of

August 14 2009

I have been really amazed at the variation of orgasmic responses in people after becoming involved in the swinging scene...it led me to ponder the question of intensity and do we, same sex and opposite, experience the same degree of kapowee when we orgasm. Even as an individual, I know my orgasmic response is not always the same...sometimes explosively powerful and other times...a gentle ebb. This response also led me to wonder how those women who experience multiples feel them. I identify more closely to a man, in that, if it is powerful...that's me..done and dusted...and ready to fall deeply into post orgasmic bliss. The times I have had more gentle climaxes...these are the times that, with continued stimulation I can orgasm a number of times, I don't consider myself multi-orgasmic however as I am of the belief that these types of orgasm happen in rapid succession of each other, mine are more spaced out. There is a lot of hype out there...and it is hard to actually gather a true indication of the nature of orgasm, nobody ever cares to admit that their reality is anything less than stellar but I would be interested in hearing your viewpoints and personal experience...both men and women. Tell me, if you are willing to share...say..the factors that maybe influenced your orgasmic experience - like what were you doing in the lead up, was there a lot or a little foreplay, what kind of day had you had, was it make-up or break-up sex, if your experience was bad, did you have worries or concerns that had been dogging you...if it was an amazing orgasm, what things do you thing couched the way for such a response. This is not for research purposes other than my own personal interest in the human condition so please be assured, whatever is discussed here, remains within the confines of the RHP community. I hope we can all learn something from an open and vigorous discussion.

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16 years ago

Interesting question. I have only ever had one kind of orgasm, and only ever from direct stimulation to my clitoris. I have never had an orgasm from just intercourse alone. My orgasms can be a bit like yours... some mindblowing, others, wel...l less than mindblowing. I don't know what makes the difference, maybe who I'm with, or if I'm on my own, how tired I am, or maybe even the time of the month (mine are often more intense around THAT time of the month) lol. Often if I go for more than one in a day, then the 2nd one won't be as intense, HOWEVER... probably the best orgasm I've had was when I was with a guy and we went for round 2. I'm not multi-orgasmic, and I very much envy those who are! My cousin tells me she has 3 different kinds of orgasms... clitoral, whole body, and anal. I guess mine would be whole body. A good one starts with the spasms deep in my vagina (and I mean my vagina in the true anatomical sense), and then generalises through my whole body. I'm not sure about this g-spot thing... no-one's ever found mine. Anyway, I'll be interested to read the responses you get. Cheers, Saucy

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16 years ago

Hi alynandrew........I think the answers to your questions are in the questions themselves. That is, that there are all kinds of orgasms. The ones that barely elicit a sigh of pleasure and are "little" ones. As a man, sometimes the orgasm is painful, as in when I am trying too hard (not often, mind you), sometimes they are FAQ, sometimes they are excellent and sometimes, I become really, really religious and gasp and flop about like a quivering stranded fish and take five minutes to get my hreath back. Once, I'll swear I actually levitated when a girlfriend performed oral sex absolutely brilliantly and for the one and only time in my life when she sensed I was nearly there, she slipped a digit into my anus. I am sure I lifted 18 inches off the bed and was left a gasping religious wreck.Orgasms are NEVER bad but sometimes the journey is much more fun than the end.Hope you have lots of fun on many, many journeys.I am away for three months OS going round the world, starting tomorrow and hope to catch up with some of you sexy people when we return.Cheers to allRic and Ms Ric

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16 years ago

The male of twofornicators writing:My life can be roughly divided into four parts:(1) Prior to having an orgasm... that part of my life when all the boring stuff happens... work, sleep etc. It also includes foreplay and sex leading up to orgasm. During all this time, my focus is on organising things so that I can reach my next orgasm with as short a delay as possible. During this time I too busy to write about orgasms, but rather my focus is on achieving them.(2) During an orgasm. During this time I am too uncoordinated to write about orgasms.(3) Immediately after an orgasm. During this time I am sleeping, and cannot write anything.(4) After I wake up after sleeping after an orgasm. This is now the same part of my life as (1)You will see why I cannot contribute in a meaningful way to this thread. I'm too busy, too uncoordinated or too asleep.

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16 years ago

Great post. Me.Mars usually a one hit wonder falling asleep in that post orgasmic bliss. Sometimes multiple and sometimes in waves. Now Venus is another story and I am not allowed to speak of her...however she is not here and maybe I can give you a peak into what its like to be with a multi orgasmic squirter. 1/ need lots of towels and sheets 2/need soundproofing if you are concerned with what people outside the room think.

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16 years ago

I find if I`m with a girl who pushes my buttons that once is never enough. I`ll need more straight away but the orgasms are rarely as good as the 1st. Anticipation, not abstinence is the key i feel. A day of teasing each other, txting and so forth always produces a HUGE response and load from me where as just abstaining for a couple of days makes little difference. Eating healthy and exercising to raise testosterone levels keeps my libido very high. Have any guys out there experienced multiple orgasms themselves? I have twice. Once while dreaming and once with a partner. No idea how or why... Never heard of it before and curious if others have experienced it. They were MIND BLOWING! Didnt understand what was happenning but holy shit.... WOW. Just wish i could replicate the experience

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16 years ago

Or is that a Peak!!! I'm from Venus.....mmmmmmmm xxx

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16 years ago

if thats a sneak peak from venus hook me up cause call me a freak but they were sure some sweet cheaks now tell me how can i get my hands on those babys . smoking hot babe thats for sure

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16 years ago

Well....I must say my orgasms are so varied that I could never hope to describe them all!!But I will try with a few and how I get there.When masturbating...it usually starts with reading erotica...or sexy text messaging...something to get my brain going.Funnily enough...my thoughts skip about while Im wanking...and sometimes when I think back..I think...WTF??I usually just use fingers on my clit...occasionally dipping in and re-moistening my fingers or rubbing my Gspot.I also like to grind my ass into the bed...and thrust my hips up....it almost feels like fucking!I find that I know when Im gonna cum...coz my pulse starts banging in my head...seems I unconsciously hold my breath!!If I fuck up my breathing....I can miss it. If I think of the wrong thing...I can miss it. If I lose my rhythm..I can miss it.Missing my cum then requires either starting from the beginning....or saying fuck it...and rolling over and going to sleep!When with a partner...I really have to think hard....concentrating on what he's doing...and telling him when he's hit the spot and should keep doing what he's doing! I find it quite hard to cum with a partner....but its well worth the effort!Mmm...I love rubbing my clit while he puts his fingers in my pussy and just wiggles them around...and then biting my neck right as Im about to cum.....OMG.....makes it SOOOOOOO intense!! Yum.I used to be able to cum from just fucking....but can't since Ive had my son unless I rub my clit as well.To me...the sound of a kettle boiling always reminds me of a nice, gentle but powerful cum.Ladies...listen to one and see if you agree.You hear the power....slowly building...heating....getting hotter....hotter.....then it reaches its peak....stays for a few seconds.....then.....boiled....peak reached. You can even hear the occasional bubble after the peak has been reached...Bet you dont see the kettle in quite the same way again!!As an aside...Ive recently met some great guys that really get me cumming hard.I dont know what it is....whether its them and their persistance....or me and the fact that Im totally comfortable with them....but whatever it is....Im grateful!! I think they are quite happy with how things turned out too!I dont multiple....I dont gush....Im happy to get one good cum!Just my opinion...BJxxx(hehehe...this is kinda all over the place! sorry if its hard to understand!! lmao..brain got taken over by thoughts of sex!)

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16 years ago

Holy shit...didnt realise I waffled on for that long!!!lmao...sorry folks!BJxxx

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16 years ago

Miss BJ... you're a woman after my own heart! I understand EVERYTHING you say... especially when in comes to concentrating hard (I need to lend a helping hand), and having him dip his fingers in while I manoeuvre my important bits! While you enjoy the biting, I LOVE the nibbling and licking of my ears... SSSOOOO fucking erotic. Does it for me. It's all about the ears...! Not to deviate from the original question though... I had two wonderful orgasms last night when my fave FB paid me a visit! The O's were very, very energising, but the cuddles after were just as special. Saucy xxx

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