Ordinary people don’t stand a chance

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  Quote: Ladies in there 50 or 60 do not have this problem Perhaps try with these ladies then if they are in your age group. Unless you only want younger ladies that are slim. (Email address attached)

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  yes i think you are right. 1 thing i have found is that the often ignored ugly, fat or overweight women (of all ages) often perform extrmely well and it is not uncommon to se them for a few weeks afterward and sumtimes you can even get called upon for company months afterwards. this is why i do not focus one the young stunners. they have a lot to learn from the less popular women. not just in bed. they can learn sum tips on improving their personality as well. (Email address attached) or ring (Phone Number attached)

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  Corn puff You don’t get it its not age or looks that count but the person inside You did not read my piece carefully as you would have seen that is stated “shape is not the most important thing”, a lot of serial killers are beautiful guys If its fantasy that you want uses your mind, ordinary guys can give you a host of pleasure physical as well as intellectual simulation, we don’t have to rely on our beauty and as you know beauty fades Tallaba This was not just a wing but a statement of fact As to a phot I am having problems down loading one onto the site, as they only allow 200mg, mine are much bigger and am trying to edit mine I also notice you anonymous beautiful body, no head shot Again I must state “ordinary people don’t stand a chance’’ phot or no photo Why don’t you try and take a chance and correspond with ordinary guys with not the best of bodies, you will be amazed at what pleasure it can give not only sexually but intellectually In Tantra we have 7 circles the 1st circle is the comfort zone this I think you are in photo no face, crisis without knowing the person Femzimb Again your phot is anonymous just a nice profile try the real world ordinary people (Email address attached)

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  I have tons of pics in my profile, a fairly good written profile, but not much activity as well. I’m not having a go, i reckon both arguments are correct. (Email address attached)

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  I have to agree with both sides, there are a lot of beautiful people on the site who have stunning bodies and faces and are obviously up for it (else they wouldn’t be on here) and probably get lots of hits by other people, and there are a lot with high high standards (like myself) because we have been let down in the past... Also, if you don’t give much on your profile then what are we going to judge you on? its not like we’ve met you at a party or a bar or something! we have no emotional or mental connection with you, it is purely on the net and thus physical. Secondly i think a lot of females would agree with me, that anyone who says that they are brilliant at sensual love making (shagging, making you cum, oral delights etc etc) is really only interested in one thing, and all though this is a swingers/ sex site, most girls (though there are some out there that dont care) want to be appreciated for more than a sex toy or a whimsical fling (and no i’m not suggesting roses and marriage proposals or even a relationship) just to be appreciated and respected for the gorgeous creatures they are. Finally, a lot of people don’t look at their flirts, some do, like myself, but i’d rather receive a message. I don’t go for people without pictures on their profiles, its a waste of my time because there are people wanting to meet me that do have pictures on theirs.

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  I have to say. No photo, very unlikely that I would reply. We have a headless pic because we are discrete. But it gives an idear of what we look like. Spicy, you refering to your race is just an excuse for you to blame others. I would suggest that you all go to the Elephant and Wheelbarrow this Saturday(21st may), and try to show your personality in person, you might have better luck. Oh yes. Loose the ,"I have paid money so I wanna get some action", attitude. No one thing will turn people off faster that that.

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  I must admit to seeing both sides of the argument too. I joined to try & meet people both socially & sexually (mid life crisis?). I have also had trouble submitting photos, but have e-mailed plenty of people & advised that i was happy to supply photos via hotmail. I have probably sent a dozen or so flirts & messages, without receiving a single response. In one instance, I received a nice message from a couple who sounded great & I responded, only to not get any further contact. Whether this is due to my married status or not, I couldn’t say. I dont believe that it is anything to do with looks. I just think there are a lot of people in here who are scared to take the next step (not that I would be judgemental). All in all, I think this was a mistake & have cancelled any future subscription.

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  well what can we say we have been on this site 4 18 months and have met a number of couples young and old we have found if u stick to people ur own age bracket u will find a lot more in common having said that we are are a couple who are idiotic whose normal friends are 21 and uneducatated in life or well into there 60ties and past our parents age We joined this site to find people who have been married for 15 20 years like us with no kids we dont care what u look like as long as ur super self confidant and know where ur at always remember guys to expect the unexpected u just never know whose behind that profile .but it does help to have a pic unless your female hope this helps Adam

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  Well it’s nice to see that this subject is creating a little interest I have received message from numerous people in there late 40’s to 50’s telling me that they send countless messages and flits, yet do not receive even the curtesy of a short reply. This I have experienced myself That regardless how nice a person maybe with qualities such as educated in the school of life, a good conservationist as well as a good listener, able to give sound advice a shoulder to cry on and maybe a good lover and friend my statement still stands “ordinary people don’t stand a chance” In Tantra we call it the first circle i.e. your comfort zone if we stick to our own age, good looks ect we do not take any risks I am waiting for somebody to climb over the wall and take that risk you may be very surprised So to all those ordinary people out there I salute you they don’t know what they are missing Don’t despair somebody will wake up one day Regards Artfark

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  all good points all round but i must agree this isnt the site to find your soul mate on, not by a long shot!! these people ’genrally’ are looking for physical plesure and of coarse with a ’nice’ person too. (who wants to sleep with a rude pushy type pig?). well i have a pic and im not to shy to say its the best one i’ve ever had taken!!, well i think it should be too when you pay a professional but as i have learned it comes at a price too, DOUBT! not saying im brad pitt far far from (I think i actually state this on my file?) but most people fly straight past my profile as the pic seems well, ’cut out of a mag’ as they have told me and yes after constant file checking n countless flirts they still dont even look at my file! i am dissapointed i used that pic but who wants to put up just an ok pic and unfortunatly (now) it was the only one i had on disc to be able to upload, since then ive planed to change my pic asap to a ’more believeable’ image. (2 weeks max!) its not like you would imagine all constant flirts ect...for the ’pretty’, i have days on end when my file isnt even looked at and when it is its by "men"!! so maybe were all even in end hey?

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  2more4fun

  20 years ago

  I don’t think it’s a problem if people prefer to play or socialise with those who are closer in age to themselves. Conversely, many people delight in meeting people who are completely on the opposite spectrum of age. The whole point is choice, as outlined by the dude who posted before me. Most of us are on this website to expand our opportunities in meeting people - period. We’re personally not on here to meet Mr or Ms World, but on the same token, I think we have the right to have an ideal. I am sure you made a generalisation about the ideal person in your post but I am not into beautiful well hung 24 year olds personally. The men I respond to are confident, polite guys with no major expectations from me or anything else in life. Photos do indeed help, and not because I can see if someone is hot or not. Photos give you an idea of the person behind the profile. I don’t care if it’s of a faceless person holding a flower. As for the suggestion that no one wants to put their faces up on profiles... Duh! We all have day jobs and families and reserve the right to keep them separate to our recreational pursuits ;) Anyway, you’ve had some success since you first posted. 2more4un

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  RHP User

  20 years ago

  this is my 2nd time i have signed up for membership on rhp. unfortunely for me, and you will all agree, i am somewhat different to u all. my nick is not my age but my gender, look up a search engine if u don’t know wat it is. but in saying this, i myself, don’t get along with those of my own age, not when it comes to relationships. i’m not financial secure, i’m not of the best health, nor own my home, nor have a bmw, but i am gentle, kind and honest. so for myself i prefer ladies atleast 15 yrs younger. my last g/f is now 21. the point of this all, well in general 85% of the ladies i have emailed, don’t have the politeness to say no thanks, they just ignore. as someone stated alot of ladies are old and fat, horrible word, cuddly is better, yet they also lack politeness to say no, or still expect u to be rich, and hung like the horse in the back paddock. i find it sad, when u ask on ur profile, for a nice guy, and he comes along u run.

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