M56 F50
Orgasm Training
November 25 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
But then I went and just took my orals, and passed. I think its just chemistry to tell the truth, and also yes education. One man can do orgasm 101, and have no result. Different guy does the same thing and your speaking in tongues. I do have to say that after being on RHP I had a lot of firsts, from guys here. But I had made up my mind that I was never going to fake it again, and that the sex was all about Moi and that seems to work. I was talking to my flat mate about that today, yes a woman of rhp and she says how come you can come so quick Cause I just made up my mind and now its switch the switch in my brain. I am like a guy, it is hard for me now Not to cum, if I am with the right guy. I am every selfish lovers wet dream. They have me at hello...fucking embarrassing when I am in the frozen vege section and the attendant says can I help you? I have to say, ohh ummyou ohh god yess, umm to late
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RHP User
11 years ago
My first seemed quite accidental. Was riding cowgirl on the front seat of an HR Holden. It's just about the only way I climax, though not in cars these days lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My Master has spent a lot of time training my body & mind to cum on command. He uses a specific word. No, I won't tell you what it is. The training took about 6-7 weeks.....SO much fun!! When we fuck (it's not ALL kink ALL the time) I ask his permission, or He will command me.... I can't cum without it now. I have cum in crowded shopping centres (quietly, subtly - no one would know). Movies, parties, nightclubs, in the car..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't believe its a learned response..... but a "trained" one, as you eluded to in your topic heading. Most people learn about climax via masturbation, and therefore know how to touch themselves for that best effect, and goal of release. Most guys are blow n go... i.e., ejaculate, then, get on with some other aspect of your day. So... its hardly surprising that their body responds by shutting down post-ejaculation.This is an example of a trained response. But the good thing about bad habits or behaviours which are trained, can be.... un trained.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Relax and let the feelings rise in your body. I used to hold my breath and force out the orgasm. Funny that I didn't do this before, but I've combined my previous meditation practices to be more in touch with my body and it's feelings. The difference is amazing - sometimes I nearly feel like I'm going to pass out its so strong. And for ladies, I've found slowing it all right down, with deliberate sensuous touch let's you feel the sensations rising in your bodies. As you relax into them, your body naturally starts to grow in sensation until you feel the orgasm come on. I used to use my mind a lot to stimulate myself to orgasm, but now that I'm letting the mind relax and allowing it to feel with my body, the orgasms have gotten amazingly better :) So yes, you can train yourself to better orgasms ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
need to get to Perth.........soon.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with the mind switch, and the hypnotic suggestion and training is rather interesting as well. Looking at training though in a very basic sense like a muscle, technique and building up that muscle can improve performance. So could not the same be said for female orgasmic response, training for clit, g, and pc muscles. Stimulation will engage blood flow which should help build orgasmic response. This may help multiple orgasm to occur, make it easier to cum, hopefully a happy woman and as always a pleasured man. If anything it would be good fun training 😉
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its called training. Wow guess it the same as practice makes perfect. I never thought us guys were capable of multiply orgasms. I am not talking in a night, I mean in a row with about 30 to 60 seconds between orgasms. The best I have done is 3 in a row and I need a partner that will cooperate. But it is just the best... mmmmmm I put a lot of energy into the orgasm, a bit of a shock for some. My aim is to make it last as long as possible. The trick I think to the male multiple orgasm is blocking that final squirt, but tensing the muscles around the groin you can block that squirt, hold it till you feel the glands relax, then you are right back at the point you were 30 seconds before you started the first. You need constant stimulation and on my own I have found it impossible to concentrate on everything that is going to be able to provide that stimulation, so a partner is a must, but I am sure there are some that are more coordinated than me that should be able to achieve it on there own. Fitness is important, the muscles that do the work down there need to be practiced and fit. One exercise that helps guys prolong the orgasm is the pelvic floor muscle. A few good reps a few times a day will keep them in shape. Imaging tensing the muscles as if you are pulling the area between the balls and the anus into your body. Start slowly pull in, hold, then relax. The aim is not all strength but stamina, you want to be increasing how long you hold it over time, the strength will come naturally so don't put that much effort into how hard you pull in. You will know you are doing it correctly as it will slightly lift your pelvis. These muscles will allow you to block ejaculation, prolonging the orgasm. The fitter and stronger you are the longer you can hold. If you get very good at it you should be able to peek to a sort off non ejaculation orgasm, relax then go again. You hear a lot of information about how to improve the female orgasm, but us guys don't seem to need help, that's bogus. Men can do a lot to improve the duration and intensity of their orgasm. You only get so many in a life time so why waste them, reach for the sky I say.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We teach ourselves from a young age what works best for us! It's normally the pressures of others that stop us using what we had teach ourselves
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RHP User
11 years ago
Find em Fuck em Forget em - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Great tips there on technique, guys can have lots of orgasms too. I've trained myself to be able to have a small orgasm on the way up and to ride it like a wave when ejaculating. So one long powerful orgasm (where I might physically collapse) and then if I find a place of internal stillness a couple of aftershocks will rise up over 5-15 minutes. Spiritual/tantric practices have also helped me improve "everyday" orgasm intensity, something I want to explore further as orgasming for hours is pretty awesome! Mr HnH
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RHP User
11 years ago
How many guys like to watch a woman masturbating while he is fucking her? Ladies if your having a problem, then that's always a good way to help things along. I could never masturbate in front of a guy ,till I came on RHP, now its so easy that I often do not hear the front door slam as he runs out the door.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That can do all of that and then some, those whom have been lucky enough to be with me, have experianced it and seen living proof that all these orgasms are not just heresay or 'theory,' every man & woman are perfectly capable of achieving it!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
The cultures I was referring to One African tribe where ladies are taught to ejaculate before they can marry, generally by an aunty or relative. A Fijian island where mature age ladies or in our culture a my milf or Mrs Robinson, takes a young man and trains him to pleasure a woman so that she climaxes 2-3 times. These cultures are obviously much more open about sexuality and see this as the step before being an adult, rather than learning by trial and error. Which is better? Should we as a culture be more open about sex and relationships?. I believe we still have Victorian attitudes to sex. Just mention the word, cock, pussy, vibrator, orgasm, squirting in polite conversation and watch the shock and koas created. Then the being deemed perverted(maybe I am). Great to see guys doing there kegels and expanding there sexuality.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had my first orgasm when i was 9. Yes believe it! What fantasy you have in your head will make you more arouse and come in no time! So watch more porn hahaha
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RHP User
11 years ago
FunCouple... more maturity is certainly something we should adopt. Too much untaught and then all this expectations of sex being wonderful puts a lot of pressure on young people. I guess these days with the Internet this information is freely available. However my concern is role models used by kids (Lady Gaga for example) are creating quite selfish and self centered attitudes. Along with porn being more freely available than discussions of intimacy, respect and love making, I'm concerned what is actually being taught to new young sexual beings.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi LilNot sure if this is a random question but with your masters permission. Would it be ok to ask more about this training as both my partner and i are very intersted.If your happy to send us a message with some advise or some good reference points that would be amazing.It would be such an amazing gift to be able to give and recieve and such a beautiful but yet powerful journey together.Thank you for taking the time to read this message and hope to hear from you. Kind regards Ant n Sam
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RHP User
11 years ago
Orgasm on command (or as I call it Aural climax... some refer to it as the Mindgasm or 'think-off')... is very real. With a degree of connection and a strong lead...... it can be achieved by more people than realise it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think the best info though comes from the forums on Fetlife. It comes from trust, first and foremost, and a willingness to hand yourself, mind and body over. It's so easy to cock-block yourself! When He begun training I wasn't at all aware of his intentions.... He started by making me cum the normal way, and using our word. Then he begun by edging me to *almost* an orgasm and tipping me over the edge with THE word. They say it takes a full 21 days to learn a habit..... Now it's so natural and beautiful. I will say, sometimes they are not as intense as say a clitoral O, but they still make me shudder, my knees weak and my puss very wet. Some people have actually witnessed the event, doubters!!! But my pussy can't lie, the evidence is beautiful cum dripping down my legs....
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RHP User
11 years ago
The blow and go as you called it, is not a trained reaponse at all. It's because guys bodies release a hormone called prolactin after cuming. This what makes guys tired and sleepy after sex and once the hormone levels drop in 10-30 minutes we are ready to go again or do whatever else. Cheers, W. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes... I know all about human hormones.... I have a biology degree. Human hormones also tell us when to stop running when we are tired.... yet, athletes routinely train themselves to work beyond the limitations of the chemicals produced by their body. So do people who meditate. This.... is no different. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Blow .... Go .... And never go back!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The blow an go sentiment is quite sad, there is the concept that I maintain is that she cums first, maybe the gen x in me still opens doors for ladies as well but to cum first as a man is truly poor form. I wish I was trained or given relavent info when I was young, for example the sex book from American Pie. When I was young a book like"The g spot and other discoveries about human sexuality" was far from located in your local book shop, and although very informative g spot stimulation is not descriptive enough to be effective 😞😞😞. I still believe alot of women and men are missing out on there orgasmic potential. Training,tantric or otherwise should help expand this. Hopefully happiness will result. I have read that some don't like to squirt but is that more because its a new, or different orgasm to what they are used to?
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