Out of the scene

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  FeistyFatty

  7 years ago

  For the exact same reason as you Lion. When life gets busy and when I'm happily exploring current playmates and not interested in new ones. I don't always go complete hidden but I will change my profile wording to reflect my disinterest in contact from new members...... as my profile states now. Ill usually change it back and be more open to new connections when life gets back in balance or when I'm keen on making new friends. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  We tend to leave this profile here even when we break, but my single profile I often hide when I'm not actively looking for others as a single. Mrs A x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Yes i do that too and for a long time I had “no longer seeking.” Then stood a step back, even from the forums and friends which I missed. But I’m back! I’ll definitely have to adjust my profile wording again. We live. We learn. We grow. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Yes totally understand that. Thanks for sharing ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  theoxisback14

  7 years ago

  I’ll turn off notifications and stay off when life gets busy. Young kids seem to make that happen 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  We took a year off for the same reasons. We've also limited time out of respect to play partners. Its healthy to do that whether your single or a couple...we believe so anyway. JJx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  From time to time. It's hidden at the moment and I'm just keeping an eye on the forums. I'll open it up again at some whimsical stage. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I wholly agree with Lionsdoll1 ;-) ,, kids , juggling work ,it's trying to find that equilibrium... time out to reflect is done often by myself .... I'm fiercely independent at times ...

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  Usually if I'm feeling a bit down and limit my online time. I think we all constantly evolve and downtime is good to take a breather. I've just clocked over the 4 year mark on here and I'm still evolving

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  Seachange73

  7 years ago

  I would switch off my profile or just not receive messages or flirts. Actually with the latter, my account settings has been set not to review flirts as I find flirts useless and boring. That'll remain permanently. So I go away from a week or months for many reasons: *Busy with work as I own a few businesses that require my constant attention * When I don't like the current forum vibe, boring or vicious, I just switch off. There is life outside the forum.😉 *I'm busy with my fwbs. I'm not currently looking as I'm content with them. They make me happy! 😊 *Kids and family and friends require nurturing and they are my life, not the online sites, rhp or otherwise. I like doing things, adventures and sports and being challenged by life's offerings. Sitting long hours in front of the computer after work is not my idea of a fulfilling life. That's boring and depressing. But I come back to the forum now and again because I have made friends on here and it's one way to touch base in where they are. And the way the forums sway at times, who doesn't like watching train wrecks? 😎

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Get to point when we just get bored with the process. We've had a busy couple of years with work,building and life and just not had time. Occasionally we would get a weekend when we are available but no suitable players are. You need to click and be on the same page quickly and hope they're patient. We keep coming back because we love the social aspect and excitement. Trying to get out more and hoping to meet that special couple/group that's as enthusiastic as us with similar ideas. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Freaky_Fun

  7 years ago

  "it's one way to touch base in where they are" Or try reading your messages!! I know I'm undesirable but sheesh 😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Katkat

  7 years ago

  All the time put my profile hidden just don’t want to receive messages or flirts have better things to do. Most men here are just after sex so typical. I can honestly say the world is full of walking disease. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  ElectricDreamers

  7 years ago

  And it makes things more interesting when you dive back in. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  It all gets too much every now and then and we just can’t catch up with countless messages, flirts.... It doesn’t help that most single men just don't and wont read profiles and contact us regardless...so we opt out from whole thing. We usually come back when one of our studs gets too busy with life, and we look for another great guy to replace the casualty : ) There are some great people out there, friendly, educated, respectful and honest, but they are not the majority. So when we find these people, we close the door to others as we really don’t have that much time to commit to that many people. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  EarthQueen

  7 years ago

  You can just shut off flirts and messages which I prefer if I'm commenting on forum posts. I have a limited capacity for engaging in online dating on any platform, plus I'm busy etc. If I don't have the emotional energy and I'm not feeling it, I just turn them off. Especially after I have met someone and have gone on a date (if it goes somewhere or not) I find I need a breather after to regroup. More so if I think I like the person, and we turn out not to have any spark. Online dating is a fascinating social experiment but sometimes it can be a head fuck.

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