RHP

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M55 F54

Own partners , same room sex .

July 13 2012

Hi all , just wondering how many couples have experienced the above ? And very courious to know how it went . Would this be the closest/best thing to "having an experience" if you`re new to the lifestyle or working your way to be with other people as a couplel ?   How much of a turn on would it be to be so close to the action , yet respecting boundaries ?   If anyone has done this as couples , please let us know . Thanks J&K

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Best fun ever made a night of it drinking and playing adult truth & dare games Lots of kissing, touching playing between us all. Same partner sex on the same couch, table, floor, etc. If you are unsure but want to explore and have a great time try It.! Remember it’s ok to have fun. And easier if you are all familiar with what the boundaries are. If you try and enjoy great! If not well at least you know it’s not for you. You can stop at any time, we love it and our friends seemed to as well for a while!

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    13 years ago

    But it only lasted 10 minutes,

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    13 years ago

    we started out that way too. lasted a few plays and then well our lust took over

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We used to do this all the time. There was a group of about six couples...all mid to late teens...all really close friends. It was just something that happened...frequently. We never thought anything of it at the time. No one ever swapped partners because back then that would have been cheating and that was not on. Mostly spent our youth naked in the country side....all of us, drinking and partying and just hanging together having fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That's what we do at the end of a swap & play session !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We are new to all this, but its how we will probably start. Whether it stays like that as suggested above we will just have to wait and see!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well what you have stated is what we are all about,but with a lot of sensual girl to girl play involved along the way.It can be so seductive and sensual ,especially when boundaries are respected.At times can be so hard to find couples that are only into same room sex,there must be only a handful of us that are into same room sex and do not swap partners for sex .R..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We would like to know too....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Handmaiden' We used to do this all the time. There was a group of about six couples...all mid to late teens...all really close friends. It was just something that happened...frequently. We never thought anything of it at the time. No one ever swapped partners because back then that would have been cheating and that was not on. Mostly spent our youth naked in the country side....all of us, drinking and partying and just hanging together having fun. Wish I had your upbringing!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We have a couple that we have been with on this basis a numberof times now - a fantastic experience for all. We took it slow, first just meeting for a get to know you dinner at a restuarant, then a more intimate dinner at home with lots of sexy talk and then a night with strip poker to break the ice followed by lots of same couple fun using a sexy board game to instruct what each couple was going to do next. It was very thrilling being there with your partner watching the other couple perform and vice versa.   We recently moved and our house has an outdoor spa which now makes for a very relaxed environmment - we had a wonderful evening recently with about 90 minutes of very sexy naked fun in the spa and then into the house for an ongoing session - the energy, the passionate atmosphere is very electric. Bottom line is we love it.....   For us, its the friendship as well as the "benefits" part. We have stayed very much as same room same couple and that is our comfort zone for the moment - but if the other couple is in a similar comfort zone, then it works beautifully for all. The key is that all are on the same page - no one has a secret agenda to push boundaries unless all are in agreement.   If anyone else is looking for similar friends with benefits, always happy to hear from you....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks for the advice and feedback , sounds like you people have been enjoying yourselves .   Hopefully we`ll find a nice couple to party with this Friday 20th at Marble Bar( below the Hilton) :)

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    13 years ago

    Same room play can be a lot of fun and a great way to ease into things. We have had times when that's all we feel up for and like the idea of enjoying the moment with another couple or two.   Maybe you could set the boundaries and allow straying hands and or some foreplay swapping to be allowed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sounds like the ideal place to start.. not good this weekend, but in about 2 - 3 weeks, ideal

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What happens at the Marble Bar ? Are we missing out on something ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I get more turned on with swapping or even going our own way at parties then catching up periodicly through the night.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We had this experience at a swinger's club and it was incredibly hot. There was some light touching with other couples as well until my girl started playing with some girls. I'm a big fan of it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well what you have stated is what we are all about,but with a lot of sensual girl to girl play involved along the way.It can be so seductive and sensual ,especially when boundaries are respected.At times can be so hard to find couples that are only into same room sex,there must be only a handful of us that are into same room sex and do not swap partners for sex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Playful that`s sounds like a great idea . Vivacouple , Marble Bar is a pretty cool Bar , live music , chilled people , very classy setup , no entry fee and so on , if you like R&B , hippop ,old school , that`s the place to be .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thank you exoticusPerhaps we got the wrong idea,we thought it had become a place to meet couples who like getting intimate with same.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi, I was wondering if you could enlighten me on a the topic of dogging? I seem to read that there are spots but they seem like they are old and outdated. Any advice would be great. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi tnt3dm,can't help you there, we're very much into the meet 'n' greet before anything else happens.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sorry Vivacpl , didn`t mean to mislead you , then again who knows who you`re going to meet and and get up to in a dark corner of the club :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    seeing and talking before the excitement starts is essential ... If the feeling's are good nature will take care of the rest...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks for asking the question as we are going to Sydney swingers club to experience our first ever scene and if we are feeling frisky, would like to see what same room sex would be like....we are not game enough for swapping but may be game for same room LOL....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    it can happen sequentially or simultaneously Quoting 'polys' Thanks for asking the question as we are going to Sydney swingers club to experience our first ever scene and if we are feeling frisky, would like to see what same room sex would be like....we are not game enough for swapping but may be game for same room LOL.... A polite observance of 'no thanks, not interested' whether it is for caressing, foreplay, oral sex or other play, sets a respectful tone. Of the several times I've been to the Couples Club there always seems to be an understood rule of 'partner penetration' as the preferred option. The warm-up for this though can be delightful 3somes, 4somes, more-somes of multiple pleasurings with hands, mouths, tongues intertwined - whether it is centred on one recipient and the whole group gets fringe-benefits of crossed limbs and unattended body parts, or the focus swirls around.Also the style of 'partner play' can change over the course of the evening, the group dynamics of who is there, whether it's during a full-room play session, if people stick to their own exclusive group that they arrived with ... so many variables ... One memorable romp was a 3some I had with a couple who seemed to have run out of foreplay oomph, so I offered some assistance to them both. So I took it in turns with Ms and then Mr to fully arouse the other one. A bit of tag-team and all-hands-to-the-wheel. Well, when there was no more to be done, on the foreplay front, I then added some extra stimulation to them both - I'm more of a participant than a watcher - while he penetrated her with such deep long thrusts and away they went until they both reached an orgasmic state. Exhausted and floaty as the started their descension from outer space I stroked and massaged them tenderly as they came back to earth. The look of joy and bliss: something to behold. I enjoyed being a part of this with them - I didn't reach the same dizzying heights but being part of this chance encounter and pleasure-making was ... is ... memorable, and I'm happy to replay it in my mind!This should be read with an advisory note perhaps, because if I'm busy playing my 'pleasure-googles' (intoxicated sex-version of 'beer googles?!), only lets me see, hear, be involved with my immediate surrounds ... Rox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    This is how we started foreplay for a while till we all got comfortable.Then we swapped was a really good way for us as we had our own partners there if we need support,If any thing can up that either couple was un comfortable with we talked about then and there so there were no problems.did we enjoy it."oh yes"cheerswewouldlike

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My guy and I have spoken about and considered doing this for a long time, both of us find it highly exciting, especially with the option of light touching of the other parties...... one day one day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks all for sharing and taking time to commentthis has been a great re-assurance for us as we had imagined that it was an all or nothing kind of scene, and therefore unsure to pursue contactsgreat question exoticus - hope the marble bar was funcheersnod