PLAYING WITH COUPLES

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I would think if you both had fun.. A Goal has been kicked Good Work

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  what sweetypie said if it feels good? feel it push the envelope and all that crap. I think Andy said "your not gay if your gf is watching"...lol

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  A breast in your hand totally balances it out!xx SalinaIt it feels good go with it! I think it is awesome you got to try something new and loved it. Those are the best times, when Andy and I are driving home giggling..."omg did you see when he/she did that thing the thing!"

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If it feels good then just go with the flow. Never know what will happen and if you both had an awesome time then you should continue. Explore as much as you can. Like others have said, what happens in your room is your business. Push the boundries.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  How far you should go? You go as far as you feel comfortable with. I find the term Bi misleading... I see Bi people as highly uninhibited sexual beings who just want to experience pleasure. But if you find it doesn't sit right with you then speak up.. you may find that once you are given time to digest the idea, you will be more intrigued to experience the scenario again. It sounds like you ARE cool with it... so go with it Gurl! Embrace the inner deviate!

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  Wannahavefun3283

  15 years ago

  Thaks for all the answers lol Is there any guys out there witch have did it before and what do u think xox

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  There's an old saying "There is no right or wrong but thinking makes it so".. another version is "There are no moral phenomena, only moral interpretation of phenomena".. In other words.. no harm, no foul. Boys fiddling with boys is one of those topics in our culture which is really quite unfairly hacked upon.. it's been raised here plenty of times so I won't belabor the hypocrisy of "two girls good, two boys baaaad"...From a moral standpoint it makes absolutely no sense that it's fine to partner swap or group it up but geez touch a dick and you're gay... riiight... please.. give me a break.. there's plenty of sexuality research that suggests that 'straight' and 'gay' are actually just endpoints on a spectrum.. and the proportion of people purely 'straight' or purely 'gay' is about what you'd expect on a bell curve.. ie about 5-10%.. this just suggests that the vast majority of people at some point in their lives will have some level of sexual attraction to a member of the same sex.. this may be a very low level of attraction and it may be a highly specific person/type/pheremone factory that it occurs towards.. but the real question is WHY SHOULD WE CARE??? And I can't find an answer that doesn't descend from 'because God says it's bad'.. and that's not a good answer.. especially with the popularity of two 'ladies' being .. affectionate.. hmm.. sorry.. got distracted.. hehe..When there are more than two people in the room.. chill out.. sooner or later you're going to put your hand on/in something you hadn't intended to.. go with the flow.. for guys it is challenging, you're working against a lifetime's indoctrination of homophobia.. 'that's gay'.. 'you fag'.. all the playground crap! Then you've got the identification of gay with the very camp.. which is just as misleading.. all I can say is ... Man up! It's not gonna kill you if you accidentally (or deliberately) wrap your hand round a cock! Or did you not just watch your missus going down on his missus.. didn't kill them.. seriously.. NO DIFFERENCE.. heck, I have way more moral issues with twins porn.. think about it.. they're sisters.. ew.. how is that healthy?? Get off the labels, you'll live longer.. they don't fit anyone anyway.. and you'll at least enjoy it more if you're not stressing about whether you're doing it 'right'.. ;-)Good luck!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'longtallandcute' There's an old saying "There is no right or wrong but thinking makes it so".. another version is "There are no moral phenomena, only moral interpretation of phenomena".. No one can tell you what to do...the decision is and should be yours alone to make...however it makes sense to give up any interesting if it proves too taxing for you. Whether it's skating, surfing or swinging... Reality is if you can't cope with your relationship, or cope with having a relationship with someone at all, or with someone into something and it's not really you...probably best for you to get out of the way for someone who can...and find someone that won't freak you out or be freaked out by you... I would also add I feel sharing is caring...loving is all about giving...and understanding... Somehow I really don't think it's right if you're quite trysexual or omnisexual and your partner can accept that about you-how could you perceive there's something defective or weird in him if he likes to play with men too.. Wouldn't it make sense that similar creatures are likely to be drawn to each other? That's it's likely that the ubersexy open-minded trysexual kinky female is likely to be better matched with same kind of male...or vice versa... It's not all about the sex really-it's about the challenge sometimes...sex is just one part of the relationship for me...it's just a really fun place to play out the challenge part... I sometimes think this place is filled with more Sunday Catholics than a Christmas Mass...honestly...where they all show up in their finery...and for one day say the right things...yet no real follow through...or belief... Just like religion-in most things there's a difference between going through the motions of seeming to do the right thing to get a nod of approval and acceptance of the group and having the real faith and commitment in your beliefs that deliver results of quiet contentment and pleasant reflection...when no one else is watching...or likely to be impressed... You can always respect authenticity even if the choices people make are choices very different to what your own may be...it's hard to respect closet bigots...let alone want to sleep with them...or be involved with them...in any way... If you know or suspect your partner likes playing with men-or even you have no clue imagine how he feels if he's not able to talk to you about it...no wonder it's easy for my gay husband to pick up the married ones at the Shift... I really do feel so sorry about the hassle bi or trysexual men have to go through...it's all uber trendy for a girl to pash or go down on another girl...but if it's a guy-it's the end of the fracking world!! I don't need to go over the reasons LTC has done a fabulous job... Personally, if I'm with someone it's because they are attractive and to me they are the best in my eyes...as who wants to be with someone that they didn't feel like this about? What's the point really? Who would want to be with someone that didn't treat or feel like this about them? What's the point in that? So if they are the best as far as I'm concerned and they are with me-why wouldn't I want them to have what would make them happy? That's the reason I'm there....to enjoy the glow of them being happy and be a part of bringing some of that into their life... If being with a guy on occasion is all they need to make them truly happy-why would I want them to deprive them if an opportunity like the one you described arose? I don't want to be with girls all the time-why is it so hard to believe that a guy may feel the same way? It's not like my legs are going to fall off...more like-well you know-better stuff will surely follow for me later...and possibly a laugh or two... It's kind of the difference between an adolescent and adult relationship-as an adult you understand there are consequences for actions. This is why it is important to be able to be with someone you can talk to openly from the beginning-about what is acceptable and what isn't-so any dishonesty is unnecessary...it's redundant. It's only when people are not talking the truth that there will be insurmountable problems-which in reality are so unnecessary-as is any of the hurt the dishonesty from trying to obscure the truth after the fact or after its discovery it usually causes... If you want to be with the right people start being honest and you'll find them sooner...or stay away...scurry back to your life in the closet if you're scared or the star chamber if you're judging.... I'm not sure why you wouldn't want to let your light shine or if you'd had a taste of all you'd ever wanted you'd give it up...easily...as otherwise that's really some high end niche masochism you're into.... I understand you may need to at time hide from others...in terms of I am aware the whole world is not as understanding as me-24/7 especially in the corporate world-or at the primary school if you are a teacher. However, when it's the weekend-should they your accusers etc bump into you at a club or a private party-are they really going to blow the whistle on you? How would they explain what they were doing there? Don't hide from yourself you're beautiful-as bi, twisted or kinky you think you are-if you're not hurting anyone by being yourself (ie kids, animals, the dead-not the undead as they can fend for themselves as far as I'm concerned) and all parties are consenting go for it! By not expressing your authentic self-the stuff you really crave and fantasise about-in reality you stop yourself from being with someone that can see you-really see you for the amazing creature you are... No one really wants to stand alone...but aren't you really alone or better of on your own if there is no real understanding or acceptance or encouragement for all you are from the person that you announce to the world as your other half? Il lupo cambia pelo ma non il vizio NymphetamineDrm Firework -Katy Perry Do you ever feel like a plastic bagDrifting through the wind, wanting to start again?Do you ever feel, feel so paper thinLike a house of cards, one blow from caving in?Do you ever feel already buried deep?Six feet under screams but no one seems to hear a thingDo you know that there's still a chance for you'Cause there's a spark in you?You just gotta ignite the light and let it shineJust own the night like the 4th of July'Cause baby, you're a fireworkCome on, show 'em what you're worthMake 'em go, ohAs you shoot across the skyBaby, you're a fireworkCome on, let your colors burstMake 'em go, ohYou're gonna leave 'em falling downYou don't have to feel like a waste of spaceYou're original, cannot be replacedIf you only knew what the future holdsAfter a hurricane comes a rainbowMaybe you're reason why all the doors are closedSo you could open one that leads you to the perfect roadLike a lightning bolt, your heart will blowAnd when it's time, you'll knowYou just gotta ignite the light and let it shineJust own the night like the 4th of July'Cause baby you're a fireworkCome on, show 'em what you're worthMake 'em go, ohAs you shoot across the skyBaby, you're a fireworkCome on, let your colors burstMake 'em go, ohYou're gonna leave 'em falling downBoom, boom, boomEven brighter than the moon, moon, moonIt's always been inside of you, you, youAnd now it's time to let it through'Cause baby you're a fireworkCome on, show 'em what you're worthMake 'em go, ohAs you shoot across the skyBaby, you're a fireworkCome on, let your colors burstMake 'em go, ohYou're gonna leave 'em falling downBoom, boom, boomEven brighter than the moon, moon, moonBoom, boom, boomEven brighter than the moon, moon, moon

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Apologies "interesting" should be "interests"...it was late... and I'd had some wine... The gods continue to need tribute and sacrifice after all, despite me not understanding their current plans at all-I do have faith... I am both pleasantly surprised and thankful for their latest gift for me, They must enjoy my worship and deem me fit for some reward... In quiet celebration and offering-the temple wine can get the better of me so close to a New Moon... Only 14 days until it is full again....can't wait. NymphetamineDrm

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  May you be struck down, the lord have no mercy on ye !!!!!!! may he strike you with his merry fury till you are ............. Yeah I cant pull that off ........... Bloody hell you lot what you doing going having fun without me ??? Lordy know we cant have us all fucking randomly willy nilly people ........ sounds all a little too much like a good time doesnt it ! Now what am I saying ................. Go have fun .... *Rules- no harm to others- no foul ! *Respect others limits ....or refer to rule one *Call Brae if you need a hand- rule 3 Enjoy you naughty people before god gets his hands on you and gives you a really good ......... Brae ...... Drooling !

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  So are saying is that you have some issue with your partner enjoying another male going down on him? Does your partner have any issues with other women going down on you? If not then what seems to be the issue, hell sounds like to me your partner got a double treat and he enjoyed the moment, being totally open to the surrounding. Good on him because so many men would either have freaked out. How would you have reacted if he had said "whoa, that is a no go zone?". I'm not gay or bi, and I know myself enough to say it may not have been what I would have liked initially, but then when you are in the pleasure cloud of bliss during an encounter, you tend to go with the flow... and it must have felt good enough for him to experience it. What are you thinking @livetoride3283? Are you wondering about your partner, questioning his manhood or just trying to see if he would be thrown in the bi or gay category, honestly ask him what he thought of it and how he felt about it. That is all that counts in the end.

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  15 years ago

  As the male half of shebagaz I can say that we have 'been there, done that' on a few occasions.None of these were planned as they just happened due to the circumstances and environment at the time.Did we both enjoy it - hell yes to such a degree that sheba has since taken advantage of many bisexual guys and enjoyed her own form of MMF funOur take was that it felt good, was erotic, heaps fun and really did nobody any harm - thus we will do it if/when the situation arises again. But it is not necessarily something we actively seek (just as GG is not - but when it happens, hell yeah) but we will not shirk away if we are in that mood.If you and your partner enjoyed yourselves than good for you, a new experience is a good way to learn and break inhibitions.We wish you the best with the fun.shebagaz

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I have been it the same situation and love it... It felt good at the time... and I will never close the door if it happen again... enjoy life as much as you can..

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