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Paid temporary lover service

June 22 2013

I'm sure this is nothing new to most of you RHPers :-) I heard on radio the other day that these days money can buy almost everything, including temporary lovers who you pay for their time to keep you company (they'll do anything you desire, without causing physical damage to both parties of course), or to accompany you to Balls and parties, etc. if you don't have a partner. The radio station had listeners called in to share their experiences on using such services, and to my surprise, the majority of the callers, who said they would definitely hire a paid temp lover to accompany them to attend family parties, were young women (under age 25) who come from traditional families who are already being pressured about finding boyfriend, getting married and having kids at their age! I said I was surprised because I had expected the callers to be at least aged 30+, because you don't usually get pressured to get married until you turn 30, right??? But no, sadly many young women still face this type of problem/pressure in this new century!!! Questions are: Say if you hadn't been on RHP or similar site ever, were still single and been pressured to find a partner soon, but you couldn't and there was a major family party coming up soon. Would you consider to use the paid temp lover service just to shut some mouths up at the party??? I suppose you can ask a friend for favour and save heaps of money, but then there is a high chance that your friend might pick up someone at the party and forgot what he/she was there for! Lol whereas a paid lover would stick to his/her professionalism. If you did end up using such service, would you concern that you could possibly get busted at the party for bringing in a paid lover and fake the scene? Would you care what your family and relatives say if you got busted? I personally wouldn't care if I turn up to family parties and social outings as a single person, because using paid temp lover service does cost a fortune!!! I don't have an arm and leg to lose for things like this! Lol But I have nothing against anyone using the service.- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

send us a message or flirt some time sweet I'll tell you about my experience its from a different perspective than the one you are asking about but still relevant.

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RHP User

13 years ago

nope would never resort to paying...either go alone..or phone a friend...surely eveyone has 1 male friend they could ask...

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RHP User

13 years ago

a not very good movie about this called ''The Wedding Date''....of course she married him in the end.

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RHP User

13 years ago

If someone pressured me to do anything, particularly find a partner......... Id tell them where to put their pressure.But the words "paid lover service" implies theres more than just the service of accompanying you... right?!Perhaps "escort is a more applicable term... as that doesnt necessarily involve sex.... but it can often be part of any package... whereas lover does refer to the nature of your pairing.And yes Miss ding.... we should all have at least one friend we can ask, or just to hang out with from time to time.I've been the Manbag for numerous ladies to functions and black tie events... and its always nice to be asked.DGPS.In Japan there is a company offering a paid stand in mother figure.Odd... for a few reasons, but if some people feel they need that kind of mothering.... why not.

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sweetgem

13 years ago

My first reaction to the radio segment was like this......"paid lover??? I think that's called private escort"!!! But the radio station did use the term "paid lover" in their reference to the service. I learn something new everyday lol- Posted from rhpmobile

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On_Safari

13 years ago

The Wedding Date......I'd pay for that kind of service ;-P

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' In Japan there is a company offering a paid stand in mother figure. Odd... for a few reasons, but if some people feel they need that kind of mothering.... why not. Did you know you can also hire professional mourning girls? They will cry and scream and fall to their knees clutching the casket for a fee. But to answer the OP: My first thought was The Wedding Date too. Though I'd like to think if I had a real friend with benefits, that would be one of them.

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wingman2014

13 years ago

Coming from an Italian background I'm all too familiar with pressure placed on single people to get married and then to have kids. I couldn't think of anything more cringe worthy than watching a paid date at a family function copping the third degree from every nosey Parker there. The pressure surely would make them cave or at least stray from the agreed script .- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

as with wingman, I came form a Euro background and my marriage was in the stages of arrangement at 15. I fucked off <<<<<<<< that way. Rather than live a life of lie, I chose to not be spoken to by my father for many years. If you feel you need to live up to your families expectations something is seriously WRONG. In answer too your question. NOPE. I would not use such a service, it is only a lie.

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