Party Hard?

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Partying Hard does not sound like my thing. Peachy

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  MsJonesy

  7 years ago

  That phrase on a profile, I assume it infers taking drugs. If you want to use the phrase but you don't want people to do the same as me, explain the phrase - we like to party hard which for us means drinks, dancing, sexy times (all drug free).

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  kisslids

  7 years ago

  Each to their own I’m proud to say that “I party hard” a few drinks funny conversations and enjoying life always drug free...

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  You generally do associate the phrase with drugs. For me personally, if someone says theyre on drugs then they will never meet me cause im so anti drugs. Nothing is a bigger turn off than someone on ice or drunk. When using that phrase i think people need to be more specific in order to differentiate just being happy and having a great time, or off their head.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  7 years ago

  I have read this a lot on many profiles. IMO, I believe they think, it is "party at one speed" and that speed is to stay hard. Hard for hours! Probably (wouldn't surprise me either) a lot do take party poppers/drugs to stay hard, to party hard. I remember a while ago on a first meet (with a regular poster), the first thing they offered me was a line, to party with them. I declined, then they had the hide to ask me again. I was not interested and left. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Good for you Ms Foxy for leaving. So many just Assume that everyone is on drugs, especially ice. Ive has so many that wont even meet unless you have drugs; and on ice they cant get hard or won't stay hard, so whats the point!

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  MsSuperFoxy

  7 years ago

  Thank you. Yes, I have come across many, especially after Meet and Greets. I have been invited to a few "private plays" in hotel rooms afterwards and declined. It's not just men either, it's women too. I have met a few men (on first meets), who have stated to me they have met women who have strictly requested, they will not play with them unless they take something to stay hard. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Drugs are a scourge. I have a work colleague who frequently pops the little blue pill every time he brings a girl home. Mostly because he’s drunk off his ass and can’t get it up. Then can hardly remember anything the next day. Sounds like fun, not..... I don’t and won’t associate with people using drugs. Risking your life for a temporary high from a concoction of chemicals made by a backyard chemist is ridiculous. But tell me how hard you can party...... No thanks

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  For those that have hit me up and had "party hard" in their profile, from asking straight up, 80% said it meant drug taking ( excluding weed). An instant no from me

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  From someone who spent a long time taking a lot of drugs, party is the code word for "takes drugs", and by drugs I mean meth. I'm on a better path now but I will likely fall a few times on my way. You see a girl with party in her name/bio, she's likely to answer a message a 3am. It's an interesting scene, everybody is up all the time and most people are horny because of the gear. It's part of what makes the shit so addictive - it's rather easy to get a root, and sex feels amazing and lasts longer. One of the hardest parts about going clean is sex suddenly is not as fun and no longer on tap.

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  Thanks for being so honest and for the insight. Good luck in staying clean. My bestie has just passed his 10year clean period. Be positive in your approach. Dont give yourself an option by saying you will likely fail a few times. If you do then get back and keep trying. Say to yourself you wont fail. A positive only option approach is healthier for your mind and its fight. Your life depends on it in the long run. All the best

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Great post.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I did not know that this is what it means when profiles say that....hell no to that!!!

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