M61 F49
Paying compliments
July 04 2025
Comments
-
Flirty2020
11 months ago
It is nice to receive compliments, as long as the person giving the compliment actually means it, as opposed to simply telling you what they think you want to hear, and that there is no hidden agenda nor expectations
-
NeoAndTrin
11 months ago
No I prefer to abuse and degrade women almost to the point of humiliation. Treat them mean keep them keen I say* *Disclaimer not my actual approach. Not sure what you're after here OP. My opening sentence is not what anyone is going to say. I'm pretty sure the vast majority of people are going to be nice in their opener or at least say they are if they actually aren't nice in their openers.
-
MsSuperFoxy
11 months ago
Look, it's nice to receive genuine compliments with actual meaning behind and reply "Thank you". End of conversation- do not pester or continue conversation unless she chooses too carry conversation on. If it's an over the top airy fairy and he's reaching to get in my pants, That's creepy! If it's to justify by saying, "I'm a nice person" to prove his existence, get out of here and stay the fuck away from me, because actions speak louder than words. It's creepy! If it's a compliment attached with a pet name, it's creepy! As you can see OP compliments come in many forms. A smart women can see through all the BS non genuine ones. Just sayin. Ms Foxy
-
LiveLifeNow28
11 months ago
I would question whether a confident woman, even if having a crappy time, would feel good by a compliment made by a stranger on an app like this one. Yeah it’s a nice compliment but it doesn’t mean anything. Do people really seek validation in compliments from strangers?? Do you really have time and take time just sending out compliments?? For the sake of it? To be nice? Come on.
-
OpalRose
11 months ago
Honestly, it’s annoying. I generally don’t reply. Because most times the reply encourages a conversation I didn’t want to have. And then it’s weird small talk. Real life, in person, is different. But this isn’t that.
-
FeistyFatty
11 months ago
To be brutally honest, I absolutely hate compliments from people I've not met .... Especially if it's multiple or lathered on super thick. Prefer a genuine conversation over being complimented. It's only taken my poor husband 31 years to realise this lol
-
MsSuperFoxy
11 months ago
OP, I’ve read your replies, and WOW; subtlety really isn’t your thing, huh? You’ve made it crystal clear you think tossing out a few compliments will magically get you laid. Because obviously, any woman here must be just waiting for that, right? Quote: "WE are all here for one thing to be laid and have fun" 🤨🙄 Ms Foxy
-
RHP User
11 months ago
Most women are not here to be complimented as I found out a long time ago. I dig where you are coming from and I have sent a couple of compliments but to do with how they hold themselves through chats or the forum. A bit different from a compliment about how they look to me. But definitely not the place to do so. I guess women deal with many messages and a random compliment sadly is basically a waste of their time as far as a message goes
-
boobsandbusted
11 months ago
What if they have had a crappy day due to a folder full of thirsty compliments that have made them sick to their stomachs And you just added to the pile of shit they are already feeling ,how does that make their day better ,it doesn’t , I think you are flattering yourself a bit hard thinking a compliment from you will brighten anyone’s day , you asked opinions that’s mine , yes there’s times a compliment do t for the right reasons at the right time are great , but also a compliment for the wrong reasons at the wrong time are not , And for the record we are all certainly not here to get laid ,honestly that’s the only certainty in this place ,lol,
-
NeoAndTrin
11 months ago
I don't see this topic or user lasting much longer.
-
Sawadee
11 months ago
Leaves me scratching my head to why anyone coming here thinks throwing around compliments is perfectly acceptable and expected.. , Even after meeting someone for a first time l wouldnt be so forward to throw around the 1 liners some feel she wants to hear... No ' lm not perfect , just dont see things the same way as some of the comments above...
-
RHP User
11 months ago
This post confuses me a little. Since when has a compliment been a one liner as most seem to tink it is. Now complimenting can be a one liner. Like beautiful eyes or something as banal as that. But compliments can be about anything. In the past I have been appalled at the way people have been treated here especially in the comments. I have reached out to some just to let them know they are fine and I understood where they were trying to come from and it was a brave move to bring up an issue. That was appreciated. A compliment with meaning and honesty behind it is a very powerful and uplifting thing, shit we do it with kids to help them through life. The world is not perfect and sometimes just downright shitful and wanting to make others feel okay is something that should not be shat on. The OP never said what these compliments were so why so presumptuous that it is always going to be the tacky one liner or a weak attempt at a pick up, And yes he did say not to expect a full on conversation but the word conversation is not a pick up thing either, Damn I have conversations with strangers almost daily as I like to chat to people. Without being in ones shoes assumption/presumption is a damn shitty thing
-
MrandMrsEss
11 months ago
Unless your profile matched what a woman is looking for a complimentary message is just another one of the many distracting messages they get. If you’re in chat then pm compliments without knowing the person can be the same and seem disingenuous as it’s well known guys send the same compliment to every woman in chat. Compliment her in the public room and if she engages then you can go from there. I try to think of things as if you’re walking down the street. If every guy that passes a woman stopped her to compliment her it’d get pretty tedious pretty quickly right?
-
Sawadee
11 months ago
Looks like the OP done the bolt ?
-
RHP User
10 months ago
Personally I think paying compliments is lazy. It’s like saying sorry, anyone can do it and not mean it. Actions and effort usually get noticed because they’re harder to show.
-
HotAppitite
10 months ago
Just a second while I park my high horse over here...... unlike the rest of you , regular keyboard trolls. Personally , being born in the 80s , we don't know how to take a compliment, flat out... You tell me my dress looks nice i'll probably respond by saying...Thanks it cost me 5 bucks from the op shop 🤷♀️ You know who else can't take a compliment?Someone who knows they didn't fucken earn one 🤔 Be you, be genuine & everyone else can take their complimentary dildo, and go f*** themselves 😉
-
Water8oy
10 months ago
I have complimented on women who either i was out of their preferred age or not in the same city but i would acknowledge that to them and tell them I respect their preferences but letting them know I love their outfit ie, lingerie style, colour etc etc, for a couple replies to come back and ask me what do I think of their body or arse? Women aren't stupid, they know a genuine guy and comment when they see one. Remember, they see a lot of shit on here so try be yourself or at least half original in your messages.
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15095 Comments: 88141
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1416 Comments: 10247
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2520 Comments: 11712
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2503 Comments: 9785
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 993 Comments: 5012
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1301 Comments: 5772
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 779 Comments: 1981
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 869
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share