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People and Datefinder
October 11 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
If people are not available on that date, they probably have already got a date lined up.For a women on here, there would be hundreds lined up.A hot smorgasbord of delicous men!!!You are right, common curiosity ...yes it's good manners to reply to the thousands of offers women getHOWEVER...No way is anyone on here under any obligation to anyone, paid members or not . ;)If you are not getting any response, it means silence is golden.NEEEEEEXT!Sorry OP it is how it is on here.I hope one day you find a date on date finder. :)FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY'Sorry OP it is how it is on here. Can you maybe put a disclaimer on your home page regarding this, so there will be no more disappointed gents posting this topic every fortnight? Thanks!
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RHP User
12 years ago
now back @ the ranch .It is what it is OP, a veritable jungle out there. Little rock really...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perhaps..... the object of your desire.... already accepted a better offer and were no longer available. DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
OK As Superfoxy says if she is not on site on date night-------she has a date-----Are you sending her a message introducing yourself and offering an imaginative evening, spoiling her every whim?I found many men would lodge an interest in my date but not message me to offer themselves as my escort....totally frustrating....if they did not contact me I assumed they were not interested at all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
By saying, did you think the profile was offline as they were on a date??? Just not with you...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
How it works
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just clicking on the "express interest" button isn't gonna cut it. Do you message them as well? Of the few times I have created a Date Finder date, it's the same guys over and over expressing their interest, yet only a couple of them have bothered to actually message me. Some don't have pics, some are the total opposite of what I'm looking for, and some even have me blocked. Wtf?! Just because you express your interest, doesn't mean you don't have to put any more effort in. Just my opinion!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Asked and answered lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Beneath_blueeyes' OK As Superfoxy says if she is not on site on date night-------she has a date-----Are you sending her a message introducing yourself and offering an imaginative evening, spoiling her every whim?I found many men would lodge an interest in my date but not message me to offer themselves as my escort....totally frustrating....if they did not contact me I assumed they were not interested at all.that seems to be the case i get that all the time, express interest but no other form of communication, well have a guess who would someone pick, the person that sends a message and makes the effort to ensure the date will go somewhere or someone who doesn't?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MsElle72' Just clicking on the "express interest" button isn't gonna cut it. Do you message them as well? Of the few times I have created a Date Finder date, it's the same guys over and over expressing their interest, yet only a couple of them have bothered to actually message me. Some don't have pics, some are the total opposite of what I'm looking for, and some even have me blocked. Wtf?! Just because you express your interest, doesn't mean you don't have to put any more effort in. Just my opinion! So should there be an option in datefinder to send a message with the "interest expressed". If I put in a date and get interest expressed, I would look at the profile at least, but then I don't get "thousands" of messages either.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have expressed my interest, sent a message and opened my PGs for any date I wanted. Ladies seem far too busy to reply to dates or messages. I even create my own dates as ANYTHING means going out, having fun out of bed and so on but never had even one single interest!!! To me, datefinder is not a working tool.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Simply because a person hangs a sign around their neck that says "available"... does not mean meeting is obligatory. People like what they like..... maybe they just liked someone else.Hopefully..... peples lives are busy enough and full enough of options that they dont sit at home waiting for an acceptance in datefinder...... and are out anyway if nothing comes along. DG.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How sad that you have relied on a complete strange to make your night. Well guess thems the brakes.. LOL Op we are not here for you needs, we are here for our own needs. So what if we do not reply? If you waved at me in the street, is there a rule that says I need to wave back. NO WAY...Suck it up dude, or are you so special that you need a pat on the back for every move you make., Oh hummmm
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Whaddya know, the only men who responded lived hundreds of miles away!! Go figure..... I might also add for you disilluisioned gents. A guy flirted me for ages, messaged once or rwice wanting a date. Told him repeatedly not interested, finally said he was in town and wanted to meet. I figured what the hell I'd meet him so he could get me outta his head. Told him to nominate a time and place. Guess what? Noooo response. Then only the other day another message. Wanna meet? ..... He now sits on my blocked list with 4 other wankers. So MEN don't whinge and bitch about NOT finding women who'll meet with you because there's probably a reason, and some other wanker ruined it for you before you even got here. ~ Indy, always practical. Will I use datefinder again. Nope!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
and found.......dada......TREVOR!!OMFing Lord a sight for sore eyes.He is now my WHATEVER!FOXY
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