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People showing their true colors

March 02 2012

late last year Jane had a single guy send us a message. Everything sounded fine so we all met in person just for a drink. A few weeks later we invited them over to play. Everything went well and it was a good night all round. Some time after he contacted us by text message. I received the text on my phone as we use my mobile for this. I think he was under the repression it was Jane's mobile. The text read that he wanted to see Jane alone among other things. After showing Jane this text we replied that this is not what we are looking for and we don't wish to continue with things.Some months later we get another text from them saying they had a great time with us last time and wish to see us again but understand if we didn't after their last message. We replied thanks for the text but we don't feel comfortable pursuing things further and good luck with it all.We get a text back saying good luck to you to WHORE!!Funny how people tend to show their true colors in the end. makes you wonder if a lot of people are just nice when it benefits them.Tim

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Innercircle

14 years ago

People... they're the worst!

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14 years ago

I'd take that little quip "whore" as a compliment.HugsStalky

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14 years ago

...but please, just call me. | | I'm not a slut, I'm a tart...there's a huge difference, you know.

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14 years ago

Could not agree more Tim Last year when I was still with my partner….we met with a couple..at their place. They were most obliging hosts and we did have a nice nite, which included play. During the course of the evening , the boys especially bonded and they were planning fishing trips etc together . I did get on with the female of the couple, who was very nice, but she was probably not someone I would normally associate with – we didn’t have a lot in common so I really wasn’t looking beyond the nite. When we left it was all very pleasant..it was a good nite but having said that, I wasn’t over enthused about meeting with them again…it was just pleasant. The next day the male sent a sms to me again thanking us for the nite and what a great time they had had and we must get together soon for bbq, camping, fishing etc. I returned the pleasantries but I was non committal….etc , a few more sms were exchanged where the male then went on and on about how we must go away camping, etc, that he was convinced the 4 of us were in for a life long friendship.. I was like, “”Yes we will discuss it and get back to you” mode These kind of sms went on for days though, long winded, detailed messages, always to me, not my partner. I was always careful how I replied, but very non committal, especially due to my work schedule and my partners as we both shift work but at this point I was starting to get a little tired of this constant smsing….isn’t sms suppose to be for short messages ? and at this point I did wonder did his wife know ? – I didn’t have her contact details so I couldn’t tell her all that was going on. During this time, sadly my partner and I split and it was not amicable. The male of the couple was still sms me, when I informed him of our split and how regrettably we won’t be seeing them again, due to our split ( I don’t play alone with couples but I was too busy drying my tears anyway) …..well that opened Pandora’s box…..endless sms from the male..on everything from condolences for our split, to relationship advice and then eventually anger because a potential 4sum (in his eyes) of camping fishing, weekends away wasn’t going to happen in any shape or form. It was nothing for me to get up to 15-20 sms a day…some mocking, some nasty, some nice, some ranting etc…but to be honest by this time I was creeped out. My former partner (at my insistence) went around to see him , and although they were home, the male refused to come to the door to chat….after the visit, the sms actually escalated…to the point where I had to get the police involved……not nice…for any of us. To date he has stopped but only after he sent over 1500 (yes 1500) sms in a 2 month period. In hindsite, it is more than likely the male suffered from a mental health issue…. but I not a psychiatrist so that is not my call to make , but what I do know, is that some people cannot take rejection, no matter how nicely it is put or do they fully comprehend or accept the word “No” and to be honest, I think for some people, that suits them too – therefore showing their true colors !!!

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14 years ago

1500 sms sounds very crazy thanks for sharing your story! We always try and say things how they are and not lead people on. I didn't have any issues with the guy at all and things would have been fine if he just played by the rules we set out in the beginning. I don't think we were asking to much to only play as a couple. I guess he just stuffed up by sending that message directed at Jane and that changed our opinion of the guy totally. My new impression of him was that their was something sly in his nature.That was just confirmed with his Lie about first saying he understands if we don't want continue after how he acted and then getting cut up and acting very rude about it when we didn't.Perhaps we are not as good a judge of peoples caricature as we think. It's made me very warry of peoples true nature.Tim

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14 years ago

how did you manage to go from a HIM to a THEY .. quote" Jane had a single guy send us a message. Everything sounded fine so we all met in person just for a drink. A few weeks later we invited them over to play. unquote

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14 years ago

are indeed nasty things.... you got to the play stage with these people.... not sure if that was a good or bad thing... we dont even get that far on occasion....and receive texts like that. we think people assume all the wrong things and feel they can behave in whatever way they choose, just because a couple plays. the number we use is mine, but the messages i receive are sometimes plainly meant for Shel. to say they are sometimes rude....is an understatement. its a shame 'adults' behave this way. nasty texts, messages on the site, and hurled insults and crap in forums, from people we dont know, and often dont want to know....really arent appropriate......

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14 years ago

Not long ago I was in surfers for business , I agreed to meet with a couple for drinks but only after I made them aware I was a married guy on his own and they assured me they were all fine. Well I went to their house. Within 10 seconds I knew they were not my type , we had a beer then when I advised that I would probably head back to motel after the drink she starts attacking me about cheating etc..... I got up and walked out, the guy was quite apologetic to be honest...... Recently I agreed to meet a married woman for coffee, she was not my type and seemed peeved that when she asked "do you want to go to a motel?" that I said "no , sorry your not what I'm looking for"

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14 years ago

In the pipe line about how things go pear shapped and people turn on you, when they do not get their own way.

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14 years ago

Quoting 'rockercouple80' People... they're the worst! oh I agree.... some are worst-er than others!... very few are the best.

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14 years ago

Sorry about the (them) it was just him. typed on phone.Tim

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14 years ago

Quoting 'celebree'how did you manage to go from a HIM to a THEY .. quote" Jane had a single guy send us a message. Everything sounded fine so we all met in person just for a drink. A few weeks later we invited them over to play. unquote was thinking same!!!!

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