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People who ask to see your pics and don't reply!!!
November 26 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think it's just the norm unfortunately. Too easy for people to just move on due to the anonymity of the online world. It seems that common courtesy just isn't that common these days.
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RHP User
9 years ago
If I showed my face. It would scare the crap out if people. It's just a time thing. Laws of attraction on any internet site are based first on visual. Same as offline I guess but then offline you cangain ground with witty banter and a fist full of fifty dollar note. ( well that's my angle). If they don't reply it's a no. Manners are a bit like rocking horse shit. Just how things are. The woman in the tryst. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
With saying "thanks but no thanks" after receiving the pics requested. Even a little more inventive like "thanks but I just broke my leg and am out for a long time" if they loose interest. Guessing you refer to contact with females, and the weight of numbers of females over males gives to a bad attitude from some. It's a buggah tho, would leave you thinking I'm that butt ugly I killed her on sight. Courtesy costs nothing
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
They take a look and then vanish into thin air. It is called ghosting we think. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's happened to me so many times that unfortunately I don't even get disappointed anymore (that includes other sites). Fortunately I've had some who have replied and still keep in touch so I just focus on them. You can stay positive that way. At least that's how I look at it, but I can totally understand how frustrating it can be. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Those people you're flashing me wonky to...what makes you think they're who is really in their own photos - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Guys posing as couples to get pics for a wank bank. ( Not in all cases, I might add! ) For example, message from another couple. "Wanna swap PGs?" I replied, " We only have face pics in ours" Silence. He wasnt looking for boring old face pics.......... Madam Tryst. You have a very attractive face xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
People just don't know what to say if they find they aren't attracted to you. That's why it's always good to get that out of the way before you invest time and energy into chatting with someone. I personally will meet a man without necessarily seeing a face pic.Photos can be deceiving I find.Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
so what exactly do you want them to say, that they don't like your face? No reply is a no, what difference does it make. And this from a man with one public picture. Get a grip dude, put plenty of pictures up to give them some idea in advance, to save them having to ask, then facing the awkward rejection message, or not, whatever the case may be, but I'm so tired of guys not having any pictures up or fudging their pictures, using really old ones. Easy, show yourself properly. You bring it on yourself by the way you have your profile set up. At least have overall body shots, maybe some showing up to your chin, gives a hint of the overall look. But one picture and you're surprised by this?
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RHP User
9 years ago
no-one owes you anything, we're not here at your service. It's not a job application
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MissRedFox
9 years ago
I ended up just putting a face and full body (clothed) pic in public gallery. Then people know upfront exactly what they're getting themselves in for. So I find this is no longer an issue. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
want your pic, the sexy one, to masturbate them self.
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teejaylongsword
9 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' People just don't know what to say if they find they aren't attracted to you. That's why it's always good to get that out of the way before you invest time and energy into chatting with someone. I personally will meet a man without necessarily seeing a face pic.Photos can be deceiving I find.Q I agree with Qefenta1 (what the hell is your name about lol), I didn't have a clue what to say when I was in this situation. The person just wasn't what I was looking for or expecting to see. I don't think I am a bad person. I just didn't respond. I thought that they may well forget that they had ever allowed me to see the picture. If I reminded them, then they might feel bad. Everyone ends up reading behind the lines of the 'No thanks' messages anyway. Maybe the 'Sorry, your not what I am looking for' messages are more about making the Rejecter feel better rather than the Rejected.
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RHP User
9 years ago
maybe the site could have one of those lists that you can choose from? 1.thanks for the pics, but i don't think your my type 2.thanks for the pics, i will now go flick myself off 3.thanks for the pics but if my dog had a face like yours i would make it walk backwards 4.you call that a penis? i had a bigger cheerio at my kids party 5.yeah baby, lets go
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RHP User
9 years ago
When their opening message includes their opened gallery, with pictures you haven't asked to see, and now feel violated by looking at? Do I still have to reply thanks for showing me that extreme close up of your cock, and saggy ass? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, reply by using the block button.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Too often when I ask to see someone's face pics I get a load of cock shots, when my profile clearly says they are an instant no. There's my reply. Classy Guys. how do you know they belong to the person?, lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'megz85g' When their opening message includes their opened gallery, with pictures you haven't asked to see, and now feel violated by looking at? - Posted from rhpmobile on the website you don't automagically see the private gallery unless you open it deliberately - is it different on the mobile app? OP: I don't mind the non-reply, but I'm intensely irked by the "can we see your PG?" people, and they're not opening theirs (whether pic collectors or people I think are genuine, if you want to request face pics, I'll show you mine when you've shown me yours) They should have an escrow type situation with face pics, you request, and when you've both agreed to show face pics, those pics become available for both parties to see - not the "oops, shit, we know who you are, but you don't know us" situation
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RHP User
9 years ago
We try to always reply and state if we lose interest somewhere along they way but unfortunately sometimes life gets the better of is and we don't. We don't like when it happens to us though so try not to do it to others, which reminds me I have some messages to send..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The mobile app is exactly the same, you can't accidentally see the pg. But I believe that's the reason for having two pg's, one so I can open my face pics for someone I choose to message and then another for other pics that might be saved for someone you really would like to meet when you believe that feeling is mutual and you have established the other person might want to view them... So someone opening a single pg from a new person messaging them might expect, or hope the opened pg might have some lovely face pics in there to gage their early interest. On the other hand, we really shouldn't have too many expectations when we open a pg included in a new message. As you kind of eluded to, it's like a box of chocolates... (Forest Gump)
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RHP User
9 years ago
However there's a lot of non courteous people on here and some of us are a little jaded by it. Sending a 'thanks but you're not my type' message often leads to abuse in return. Many women have discussed that issue before. So that's the reason why sometimes people won't get a reply. It kind of puts you off when you're brutally attacked for just being courteous and honest.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Champagnesunsets' Guys posing as couples to get pics for a wank bank. ( Not in all cases, I might add! ) For example, message from another couple. "Wanna swap PGs?" I replied, " We only have face pics in ours" Silence. He wasnt looking for boring old face pics.......... Madam Tryst. You have a very attractive face xx Why thank you darling, and so do you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Bringbacksummer' Certainly agree with i touch myself 2 about no reply is a rejection. yet it's common decency to at least say sorry your not my type. It's also there prerogative to change there mind,most women here would be inundated with messages and find it hard to reply to all. I've been on plenty of dates where the persons profile looks nothing like them, or that there alot fatter in real life. It's definitely a lucky dip in finding someone who actually looks like there profile. As far as showing face pic in your public gallery it's a choice of privacy and should be respected as so. I have plenty of face pic's in gallery 1 and happy to open them if they're Intrested, yet when I do send a rare message I always open it. With Q and I touch myself. It is hard to say sorry your face is not for me, even in a nice way its hard. I think no reply to my mug would be enough for me to get the drift. That being said what you say about real life as in girls fatter than you expect, can affect your reactions to a person. A picture does not always paint a thousand words, though your back says scratch it...anyway I digress. Peoples face can come alive and show who they are inside, I do photography, mainly people, some just hate the camera so much they are extremely hard to photograph and they can look like a serial killer when they are just a lovely guy. For women a thousand shots are normally sacrificed to get one decent picture that is because many women have low self esteem when it comes to their image. My selfies are with long poles you know strap the camera on one of those extending duster things, and take with the sun behind me. A beautiful face can also hide a not so nice personality. The laws of attraction however have no logic. Its the wrapping on the RHP cake, if you can`t go past the wrapping you just do not feel the urge to look deeper. Maybe that`s because we are often just looking for hedonistic quick pleasures and the rest is superficial. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' However there's a lot of non courteous people on here and some of us are a little jaded by it. Sending a 'thanks but you're not my type' message often leads to abuse in return. Many women have discussed that issue before. So that's the reason why sometimes people won't get a reply. It kind of puts you off when you're brutally attacked for just being courteous and honest. So many times I would message women, only to get no reply. After a year I just decided to not renew my Premium membership. If these women weren't replying because they though I would responde negatively, well it makes sense, and makes me not feel as ignored. I tend to reply politely, and respectfully. However it's very hard to get that kind of thing across in a first message, let alone an image request. So depending on what the woman you're messaging has experienced, they may or may not respond going off what Soft said
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RHP User
9 years ago
Understand your point of view. It's unfortunate that people are such area holes sometimes!
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RHP User
9 years ago
To generalise if someone sends me a message and their profile sparks my interest, along with a well written and kind message, and then they aren't what I'm looking for I was will always reply. Some guys have very well written profiles but then their messages hint that they might not be the same as they've indicated. When that's the case and I see their pg, I'm more hesitant to message back. Most reply with something along the lines of - thanks for getting back to me and good luck. But if it's obvious a man has a very inflates sense of self from the beginning, I'm not likely to respond for fear of abuse. And face pics are a very personal thing. I've stated many time before that I don't want a Calvin Klein model. I find faces fascinating especially eyes and a smile. So a guy doesn't have to be calendar material. It's about the whole package. Guys don't give up, we all have unique tastes.
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RHP User
9 years ago
For all of the typos - I'm still recovering from the weekend ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
No worries, I still remember that you were walking around everywhere on Saturday, and those heels were killing your feet, but then again I don't know what happened after I left :P. Well that's a good way to look at it :). I don't have any images in my private images personally, and I'm one of those that struggle to come up with something to write when I'm the one initiating communication, but I try my best to write the way I speak. But I'm in a small minority, and I'm still learning the ropes of these kinds of sites :P. Well, on here due to the very low reply rate, I just decided to give the renewal a skip, but I am still online, just on another site :P. You are dead on though, everyone has different tastes :)
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