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People with OLD pics

June 04 2013

We have decided to not play with people at all if they have old pics up on their profile. Some up to 7-10 years old. Because all they are doing is wasting our time and theirs. What is everyone's thought on this are we being to harsh or does everyone agree ???

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Kinda like false advertising......

  • jenniecruising

    jenniecruising

    13 years ago

    We try to keep them fresh, most no more than six months a couple of older ones but they really don't have any bearing on our looks as they are play photos indicating yeah we get it on. :)We have seen photos that date back to the 80's going by the stonewash jeans and mirrored sunnies.

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    You are not being harsh - you are being honest! Recent pics are the only way to go!

  • custardapples

    custardapples

    13 years ago

    Not harsh at all .. It's a little deceptive using really old shots. There has to be some chemistry as part of the equation! We all looked better when we were 25 .. got to move on though .. and anyway there's someone for everyone. Better that all parties are happy and not thinking ( God how do we get out of here ). Likely to get embarassing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I presume you ask them how old their photos are then? If so..... are you believing the answer? (or asking them to pose beside today's Herald lol) Brings up an important issue..... If in doubt, there is nothing wrong with asking gor more information....... and always be prepared to walk away. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Our pics are about 18 months old - but we don't look any different! We'll update them when we get some time.I think you need to do whatever you feel you need to do - if that means more rigorously vetting pics, that's entirely your choice and you don't need to justify it to anyone else. The practicalities of how you do that though will be interesting to know.

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    13 years ago

    For those who use old photos! I have come across so many male profiles which say their body type is athletic, and they use very old photos that show their toned and well proportioned muscular arms and six packs for their profile pics, but when I meet them in real life, hardly any of those assets are there and all I see and feel in my hands are loose muscles and one pack lol Pathetic I must say, but it's their marketing technique, so each to their own 😆- Posted from rhpmobile

  • custardapples

    custardapples

    13 years ago

    Maybe a date stamp on each shot.. LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    All the rest are as of the last three weeks. It's annoying when ppl post old pics. If you can't be proud of who you are now, how do you expect anyone to find you attractive..? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Cameras with date stamps and newspapers aside; there is no real and satisfactory way of knowing if people have uploaded old photos until you actually meet them in person.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    sounds fair.... we have a few that are from prior to the last 12 months........but that's mainly because we've had no real opportunity to update for a little while...is coming tho, lol...people must realise that there is a point where they will be found out...that photos will not reflect who they are, or what they really look like...............now.

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    13 years ago

    We do have some older pics (just for variety)..but we always ensure that the main profile pics are fairly recent. But we can guarantee..what you see is what you get! As for the comment about spotting old photos by the clothes being worn....don't be quick to judge..our fashion sense is still 70s & 80s...you won't find any cringe worthy checkered shirts, baggy shorts or gay looking loafers in our wardrobes! LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ok, I confess. The female in my cover photo..... ..... she's 65 million years old. lol DG

  • totallygenuine

    totallygenuine

    13 years ago

    My profile pics are old and recent 1s so I tend to update my pics every few months. Been stung in the past by a couple who posted up old pics (like 1997 pics) when I first joined up on here. I do admit I did put on about 12kgs (due to work and being in an unhappy relationship) about a year ago and to add to my woes had a couple of knock backs along the way with meets. Since then I've dropped all that extra weight got out of that messy relationship and changed my work schedule. I guess I'm blessed with having the genes (metabolism and muscle memory) of a 25yo athletic male so I tend to leave some of my old pics up on my profile. TG.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Mine on my profile is recent pictures ,the oldest would be like 6 months ...i have met them boyz with old pictures showing great bodies but not there to be found when met, but you know what?.. we are not obligated to do anything with any of them if we dont want to,..just laugh at it and brush it off , its not the worse we can all still talk and enjoy the nite after all you are there with them ,what else you gonna do ? swear at them? i am definitely wont be rude or throwing tantrums towards them sure you are dissapointed but thats life...must be able to take the good and the bad...after all considered your self all good looking people to be lucky, Being the good looking ones that every men /women wanna meet ...as for me i will never be stressing about it ( open minded about all those pictures ), coz i know i've been very lucky in this life , and making new friends wont hurt either ...it doesnt have to be bed friends everytime tho' ,cheers !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    In principal I disagree completely. I'm not going out of my way to update my pics when the action isn't being returned. Its too much effort to actually find someone to take new photos every six months.... because truthfully.... I don't get that much sex that I could justifty hiring a photographer every six months. In the six years I have been on RHP, I have met, at a conservative estimate, 2 people. Hardly worth getting more photogs taken. I'd like to, but in saying that, old photos are better than shitty myspace-quality selfies. I've opened the offer for some sexy attractive ladies to take some new photos but no takers... so in conclusion, so not my problem :-) I'm perfectly happy with who I am, and in fairness, I look better now than when my current pics were taken. I'm thinner, if that counts for anything. :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' In the six years I have been on RHP, I have met, at a conservative estimate, 2 people. You can't remember if you've met more than two people or not? Or you mean a conservative average of two people a year?As for photos, most of mine are recent, but then I'm not sure how you'd tell anyway unless you've followed someone's profile for a few years.I do occasionally note somebody whose profile description hasn't been updated ("I'm an x years old who can't get enough...") while their stats have inexorably* marched forward since they've signed up to the RHP (Age: x + 8). That lack of attention and effort is a turn-off for me.*Ok you can change it if you want to be forever young, but do you really want to live forever? Forever forever?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Some of my photos date stamp didn't make sense to me and upon further investigation I realised that I wouldn't in the past set the date on my camera so it gave some irrelevant date. But in saying that most of mine are recent but yes I have met people whose weren't and so agree don't they realise they will get caught out......lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'deepbluesumthing'Cameras with date stamps and newspapers aside; there is no real and satisfactory way of knowing if people have uploaded old photos until you actually meet them in person. With all this Instagram business I really don't know anymore if people are just trying to be hipsters, or if their pics were actually taken in the seventies.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We think photos older than 2-3 years we don't want to know them, what else are they misleading us about? If they are really into swinging photos would be fun?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I just looked at them while reading this thread and realised how much I have changed over the last two years, both physically and emotionally. I wonder if other people would be able to see the same thing? Neptune, I'm with you about the need for people to update their profiles, not so much because its a turn off, but more because I have enjoyed reading some profiles more than some of the forum threads, and almost as much as the alluring and fun profile pics that most people often put up... Crap that reminds me, I owe KarynB answers to profile questions *runs off to finish the half written email*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Look out.......Gets popcorn.DG

  • boots_69

    boots_69

    13 years ago

    Having recently (ok getiing just over 6 months ago) the privilege to have had my photos taken by the wonderful Tuscan Red. I am more than happy to use them.Given that I am absolutely hopeless with a camera (I cause it to have the shakes even on a tripod) and I hate trying to take a photo via a mirror (as the only decent mirror I own faces reflects the toilet) I cannot see me updating mine in the near future.If it harms my chances oh well. If someone I meet offers to snap away I am all for it but there is still no guarantee they will end up here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My profile picture is about 5 years old. Since then I've lost a couple of kilos and add a couple of grey hairs but, as the ladies I have met will attest to, I look very much the same as my photo. But I should have some new photos up soon.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You could ask them for a personal pic of something you know they don't already have in their gallery. Swapping pics is good fun anyway. So if you've not seen them on cam, ask for a pick of them in a specific pose ( and do something for them in return)..cheeky I know..or just jump on Skype...Quoting 'deepbluesumthing' Cameras with date stamps and newspapers aside; there is no real and satisfactory way of knowing if people have uploaded old photos until you actually meet them in person.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    LRE Has it worked out...swap pics or chat via Skype or even Yahoo,....problem solvered,,- Posted from rhpmobile

  • sacred_spirit

    sacred_spirit

    13 years ago

    whats annnoying is pics without facial been hidden or sunglasses , a cpl is a cpl not one person in the cpls profile i find is annoying, yes there is old pics on profiles hmm some as ten yrs old strange how when you k now they should be showing some wrinkles by thier t rue age . does cples prove their right age to for id, pity they dotn ask for a marriage license to verify they are truely married, and not made up as a cpl ..so i guess must be frustrating for all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't get what is so difficult about getting your laptop out and using your webcam. I am laying practically naked on my bed, so used my wireless mouse, simply got cursor into position on the button, lay on the bed and clicked away, all by myself (I've hidden the mouse out of sight) I've been asked who was the lucky bloke who took the pics... Nope just me. It's really not rocket science.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...when profiles have those obscure close ups of just a body part and that is all. I know that is due to people wanting their anonymity so I guess that's fine and I can't really complain about that one... But what gets me is profiles that seem to have strategically uploaded a 'head shot' or 'face shot' and a then a separate 'body shot' but never their head and body joined together in the one pic? Makes me wonder if the head and the body shown are really them? Or only the body? Or just the head is theirs? Aagh! Too hard. Like I said if you want proof then meet in person. P.S. my pics are all recent 2012/2013 btw. This is how I look right now. (Any spoiler who wants to, take it on themselves to scoff or, dismiss that fact is welcome to come and meet me in the flesh before they comment otherwise )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ours are taken on an old Kodak digital I rescued from the bargain bin at kmart.....its ridiculously simple to take decent...even good pictures, and yes...you can do great pics of yourself using just about any camera that has a timer....there is no excuse other than pure laziness for not having up to date and decent photos.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'DonnaBrett'We do have some older pics (just for variety)..but we always ensure that the main profile pics are fairly recent. But we can guarantee..what you see is what you get! As for the comment about spotting old photos by the clothes being worn....don't be quick to judge..our fashion sense is still 70s & 80s...you won't find any cringe worthy checkered shirts, baggy shorts or gay looking loafers in our wardrobes! LOL you guys always look sexy in your clothes my dear. you dress sense doesn't dictate who you are just says what your comfortable in ...in my opinion

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'deepbluesumthing'...when profiles have those obscure close ups of just a body part and that is all. I know that is due to people wanting their anonymity so I guess that's fine and I can't really complain about that one... But what gets me is profiles that seem to have strategically uploaded a 'head shot' or 'face shot' and a then a separate 'body shot' but never their head and body joined together in the one pic? Makes me wonder if the head and the body shown are really them? Or only the body? Or just the head is theirs? Aagh! Too hard. Like I said if you want proof then meet in person. P.S. my pics are all recent 2012/2013 btw. This is how I look right now. (Any spoiler who wants to, take it on themselves to scoff or, dismiss that fact is welcome to come and meet me in the flesh before they comment otherwise ) yes completely agree with you here I prefer to find out if we get on online coz if I can get on well with them online I probably will in person providing they are who they say they are in person to being online

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ....mine were taken with an old crap mobile, complete with silver duct tape to stop the battery falling out.I think it's fine to have amateur selfie type pics and don't mind if others have selfies too as long as it is reasonably recent and is actually them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'deepbluesumthing'...when profiles have those obscure close ups of just a body part and that is all. I know that is due to people wanting their anonymity so I guess that's fine and I can't really complain about that one... But what gets me is profiles that seem to have strategically uploaded a 'head shot' or 'face shot' and a then a separate 'body shot' but never their head and body joined together in the one pic? Makes me wonder if the head and the body shown are really them? Or only the body? Or just the head is theirs? Aagh! Too hard. Like I said if you want proof then meet in person. P.S. my pics are all recent 2012/2013 btw. This is how I look right now. (Any spoiler who wants to, take it on themselves to scoff or, dismiss that fact is welcome to come and meet me in the flesh before they comment otherwise ) great selfies too by the way....they show just how easy it really is to take a great shot.....on your own...well done

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    On the subject of photos..... we all see a few in here.And given how... unappealing (to me, a straight male... for what thats worth) a lot of the photos the guys use are... I cant help but wonder, if they think that a hairy arse/cock/balls cock close up is their BEST photo.... which ones did they take that they didnt like the look of?!!!And while on the subject.... anyone else notice that one particular guy (or, his cock) seems to be friends with just about every woman in RHP?!!! over 1100 people.Anyone else think thats all a bit odd?!DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Look out....... Gets popcorn. DG, I saw this post pop up right after mine, before the others were visible. If anyone thought I was having a go at Deepblue, I wasn't. DB, I've seen enough pics of you to know they're recent. Your previous one looked it was taken with Instagram and my comments was merely tongue-in-cheek.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'deepbluesumthing'...when profiles have those obscure close ups of just a body part and that is all. I know that is due to people wanting their anonymity so I guess that's fine and I can't really complain about that one... But what gets me is profiles that seem to have strategically uploaded a 'head shot' or 'face shot' and a then a separate 'body shot' but never their head and body joined together in the one pic? I love the obscure pics that leave a lot to the imagination. I think they're so suggestive and sexy as hell. As for your second statement; I have plenty of both body and face shots in my galleries, but would never show both in one pic as I don't know where they will end up. I'd rather not run into my semi-naked self on Tumblr. Not to alarm anyone, but it takes me about two seconds to save any photo from here on my smartphone, to do with as I please. And with all the sexy fuckers here that I've had the pleasure of meeting, I have no fear anyone will dare question if I'm really that hot or not.   (And yay for little camera's with a timer, that will balance on tupperware containers.)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Damn that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi - Mr IAT here for a change :)My thoughts differ from most of you....I have found that in our experiences in meeting quite a few people from here over the last couple of years that people 9 times out of 10 look better in the flesh than their photos! Photos, unless professional, rarely do people justice I think. They never catch truly the sparkle in someone's eye. There has only been one case where I have found that the picture in no way resembled the person (and not in positive way). Maybe we just choose who we meet well, only choosing to meet those people who come over trustworthy in email or phone? Mr IAT!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'deepbluesumthing'...when profiles have those obscure close ups of just a body part and that is all. I know that is due to people wanting their anonymity so I guess that's fine and I can't really complain about that one... But what gets me is profiles that seem to have strategically uploaded a 'head shot' or 'face shot' and a then a separate 'body shot' but never their head and body joined together in the one pic? I love the obscure pics that leave a lot to the imagination. I think they're so suggestive and sexy as hell.   As for your second statement; I have plenty of both body and face shots in my galleries, but would never show both in one pic as I don't know where they will end up. I'd rather not run into my semi-naked self on Tumblr.   Not to alarm anyone, but it takes me about two seconds to save any photo from here on my smartphone, to do with as I please.   And with all the sexy fuckers here that I've had the pleasure of meeting, I have no fear anyone will dare question if I'm really that hot or not.       (And yay for little camera's with a timer, that will balance on tupperware containers.)   I really like those abstract shots as well, but, I also like it balanced with at least a face pic or a more ordinary everyday photo in the gallery to balance it. That mixes it up a bit and makes the person seem more believable for me.Btw...I have noticed your pics are always well done.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'InAdditionTo' Hi - Mr IAT here for a change :)My thoughts differ from most of you....I have found that in our experiences in meeting quite a few people from here over the last couple of years that people 9 times out of 10 look better in the flesh than their photos! Photos, unless professional, rarely do people justice I think. They never catch truly the sparkle in someone's eye. There has only been one case where I have found that the picture in no way resembled the person (and not in positive way). Maybe we just choose who we meet well, only choosing to meet those people who come over trustworthy in email or phone? Mr IAT!You've got a point there...'cause shock horror and eat my hat when,( in the back of my mind and after a few days before a meet of thinking I'll probably be a bit disappointed when I see him), the guy rocks up and is actually a total hunk. Woo hoo!

  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    13 years ago

    of course we each have our own method for sorting the people we will meet from the people we wont and if this works for you then that is great, however as others have pointed out determining the age/validity of a pic is extremely difficult and also what do you define as 'recent' 6 months? a year? or longer if you still look the same? it is a bit of a grey area to me.Like mr IAT i have often found people to be more attractive to me in person than in thier pic anyway and yes i have met some that are nothing like thier profile or pictures but to me that is part of the experience and i take it with a grain of salt, it is disapointing at times but it is what it is.

  • boots_69

    boots_69

    13 years ago

    Agree with wannabyummymummy and am still to have that negative experience from a false pic. Hey lets face it some of my most memorable meets from this site have been no pics - a flower and chatted for months with a potato.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' On the subject of photos..... we all see a few in here.And given how... unappealing (to me, a straight male... for what thats worth) a lot of the photos the guys use are... I cant help but wonder, if they think that a hairy arse/cock/balls cock close up is their BEST photo.... which ones did they take that they didnt like the look of?!!!And while on the subject.... anyone else notice that one particular guy (or, his cock) seems to be friends with just about every woman in RHP?!!! over 1100 people.Anyone else think thats all a bit odd?!DGPossibly the shots that make their wangers look small? Or, doesn't show it's best side? (Na, kidding on that last one.)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I've seen some pic sets that suggest a gap of DECADES. Too much sunshine can indeed be cruel to skin.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' On the subject of photos..... we all see a few in here.And given how... unappealing (to me, a straight male... for what thats worth) a lot of the photos the guys use are... I cant help but wonder, if they think that a hairy arse/cock/balls cock close up is their BEST photo.... which ones did they take that they didnt like the look of?!!!And while on the subject.... anyone else notice that one particular guy (or, his cock) seems to be friends with just about every woman in RHP?!!! over 1100 people.Anyone else think thats all a bit odd?!DGYes, DG, last night while glancing at who had sent me requests. This member has a gob-smacking 1151 female friends to be exact. Funny that I just stumbled onto it, oops, (I mean stumbled onto his profile), and I mean that figuratively, cause if I did actually stumble onto 'it' I think I would be fatally impaled?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Some people like to see photos of them having fun so they have to dig deep, but it would be good to have at least a couple of recent face pics. Hey it's not like everyone goes around taking photos every day. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'On the subject of photos..... we all see a few in here. And given how... unappealing (to me, a straight male... for what thats worth) a lot of the photos the guys use are... I cant help but wonder, if they think that a hairy arse/cock/balls cock close up is their BEST photo.... which ones did they take that they didnt like the look of?!!! And while on the subject.... anyone else notice that one particular guy (or, his cock) seems to be friends with just about every woman in RHP?!!! over 1100 people. Anyone else think thats all a bit odd?! DGno....cant say that I have noticed any of this.....i'm the bi one...how is it that you are scouring the profiles of other men, and know how many friends some guy (or his cock) has? sounds fishy to me....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I dont believe anyone looks exactly like they do in their pics in real life (myself included). But mine are always recent and I try to show myself as accurately as possible. I've had a few 'false advertisers' and it can be very disappointing. Same as those that don't include a face pic I'm their pg. I get the raunchy pics but I mean if I'm going to meet the person I'm pretty sure I'm going to be seeing their face first so a pic of that would be nice. Off topic a little, also don't like people who lie about their stats, particularly height/weight etc. I dont get that at all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Twice I have had a single female profile on here and he was one of the first to "contact" me both times. I think he just wears people down with his friend requests, they either end up blocking or accepting.   Msfun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You dont look at their friends list? Really??? I have to ask.... What other detail in a persons profile aren't you looking at?! A friends list photo is a pretty obvious part of a persons profile. And when the same 'friend' pokes out at you from so many profiles.... ....even profiles that appear to me to be such obvious fakes.... little red flags go up. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'You dont look at their friends list? Really??? I have to ask.... What other detail in a persons profile aren't you looking at?! A friends list photo is a pretty obvious part of a persons profile. And when the same 'friend' pokes out at you from so many profiles.... ....even profiles that appear to me to be such obvious fakes.... little red flags go up. DG no, we don't........... as we see the 'friends list' as meaningless..much the same as a fakebook friends list......the rest of the profile...excluding the obligatory cock shots...is of much more interest... we don't care who someone knows, we only care about whether we'd like to know them or not...take our list for example...who we know and who we play with is something we see as our private business.....so we don't add people, and haven't done for perhaps 3 years or so..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    are old, very old...oh hang on..sorry not them, just me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Most of ours are a couple of years old, but we have aged gracefully I think.I love all the pretty pictures here though no matter what century they are from. Mr C

  • DTE_couple

    DTE_couple

    13 years ago

    What misskey83 said - the falseness in the weight/size is a big thing - hence why we like reasonably recent pics - if you look the same or at least similar to the pics that's perfect but when the pics are obviously 10 years old or very misleading it just wastes everyone's time. We just had a recent experience where he looked nothing like the pics and she looked the same just about 20 kilo's heavier! Very misleading. And that hasn't been the first and probably won't be the last either! And I agree the majority of people look much better in the flesh, not to mention the touch factor is there too!!! :) Keep smiling all and have a great long weekend everyone!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My pics are 3 months old, is that old??- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'chickcara'Most of ours are a couple of years old, but we have aged gracefully I think. I love all the pretty pictures here though no matter what century they are from. Mr Ccant disagree......am hoping to update a few of our own these coming weeks....see how we go, lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm only 26 gee how old can my photos be??? Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Just accept old photos, incorrect ages as part of game, that's why you meet people first and sometimes go away thinking.   Gawd, They have had a hard life to of aged that much.   This problem is never going to change, we recognise some photos from contributors even commenting on this thread with photos 5-8 yrs plus.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I never worry as I am there to meet the person for there outgoing sexy nature and I am down to earth guy to many worry about looks in fact put that on profile we are plastic and go for just looks...   However if there ten years old then that sucks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Our pics are within two years old, as we dont have the time to update every few months, and we dont sit on the lounge every night gorging ourselves with Lollie Gobble Blissbombs... Hope this helps :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Luvnya69'Our pics are within two years old, as we dont have the time to update every few months, and we dont sit on the lounge every night gorging ourselves with Lollie Gobble Blissbombs... Hope this helps :) lurve them lolly gobbles......yummo.... ours are a bit of a smattering of some favourites...all taken since 2009....(2 are this old) but for the main part, our pics are from 2012.... we only have 2 weekends free every 6 weeks...so that's roughly 13 weekends to cram family, friends, chores, obligations and ...........play into. means pics don't get updated as often as we'd like......lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    A picture is exactly that, a basic representation or portrayal of a figure, person or whatever.. So...If you GET a basic representation of a person and you like that representation, then whining, pissing and moaning about the validity of looks in a photo is not really putting your energy to good use is it and you could actually be bypassing someone really great? Meeting the people behind the picture seems to me a far better and more accurate option.. Then and only then will you discover the true image of that person and be able to make a legit decision.. Like myself and unlike my beautiful wife, photogenics just doesn't gel and I can still look like shit after a thousand photos so we don't take pics too seriously and therefore like to make our actual decision in the flesh....Mr Pussypurrfect

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Recently met a couple, he was hot - much hotter then his photo! Unfortunately her photos were obviously taken a long time ago. Needless to say hubby and I left very disappointed, but for different reasons. LOL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well said Mr Pussyperfect..Clap, clap, clap..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To change my profile name to LollyGobbleBlissBomb now!!'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Personally im not interested if you have an old pic. We all change, we all get older (and better).. What about Fake Pics, I know someone on here with a fake pic and has used it for yrs. Do I name and shame ??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Funlover71' My profile picture is about 5 years old. Since then I've lost a couple of kilos and add a couple of grey hairs but, as the ladies I have met will attest to, I look very much the same as my photo. But I should have some new photos up soon. That's it! Can't be friends with you now....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Obviously had a bit of a shock there?.Some people age quickly, some not. Some body changes occur over 5-7 years. Some improve, some not..Misrepresentation by any one is a dumb-arsed thing to do, that's for sure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi thete- Posted from rhpmobile

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    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yum- Posted from rhpmobile

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    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I met a lady for a date recently. Her profile pic was the only thing I had to go on in order to recognise her - I walked past her twice before realising it was her. The profile pic was a good 8 years old..!!! Rather annoying really....My profile pic is 3 weeks old....Danny

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    13 years ago

    Old or new we don't consider pic to be misleading so long it is reasonable representation of how you look currently. Yes it is deceptive to lie about the date of pictures, but equally wrong is to dictate your definition of what is old.Oh that reminds us our pic are 1yrs old and doing injustice to us bcos we think we look better now..thanks for reminding us..lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You can always say no at a meet. I personally get more pissed when guys lie about their height.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You inspired me to update my pic of one I took tonight.... Can't get anymore up to date than that lol