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Perceptions......
March 15 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Think that I am nice,I'm not...I am only reasonably nice 😊...people's perceptions of us are often based on the roles that they see us in, because that is how they know us ...if my colleagues knew I was here..they simply wouldn't believe it..they would think it was my deviant twin xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
I own a very successful company with more than 80 employees, my whole business life I've been surrounded by fake people. In the short time I've been on this forum I've seen more genuine honest people than I have in the real world. I may not agree with everything they say in the forum, that's their view and entitled to express it. I try to be the best person I can be, treat others as I would want to be treated regardless of where I met them. If anyone had an issue with me on rhp or looked at me differently, I wouldn't give a shit.... Tip
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RHP User
11 years ago
It seems to me that most people think they know who I am and what I am about without even talking to me. Judge me on sight. I often get comments like that Cheekyarses...and to top it all off, I also get told what I am really thinking and feeling!!! Luckily I have a few people in my life who actually have taken the time to get to know me, and they still call me a friend :) As far as RHP goes, I have told some people about it, but not all in my life. So far the response has been either approval, curiosity, or just plain acceptance...whether they agree it's right or not...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Very RECENTLY I did a presentation to a rather large group of safety management persons on the processes of "Procedures", and the possible dire consequences of omitting ONE single part of the Procedural Equation.The tools I used to highlight that consequence, and the overall research I did to develop the presentation had a rather interesting outcome..Afterwards, and over the next few days as they "Bumped" into me onsite, most of the recipients said they were highly surpised at what they saw as being "Rather out of their perceived notions of WHAT I represented"So, it appears I am seen as a scruffy and nonconventional supervisor to the groups of tradesmen in my care.BUT, as SOME went to reasearch ME personally then.. 4 yea, rs without and LTI (Lost time Injury) in any of my work groupsand 2 years without a MTI (Medically Treated Injury) appears to indicate "Nonconventional" may have a place in the workforce.So, subsequently, I do find my jobs onsite being very much scrutinized and commented on in a positive way."Judging a book by it's cover".*Tipper930* -- I am HEARING you.
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Dryphuz
11 years ago
I'm great with people, which makes everyone think i love being around people. Mostly i don't. I'm an introvert, I'd almost always rather be alone. It messes with every relationship i ever have. People see how good i am with others and then when i make excuses to be alone they think i don't like them. None of the people who know me would imagine me comfortably sitting on RHP. I'm the least chauvinistic of all my friends and as a result i can pretty much guarantee they would think of RHP as a place only for sluts (both male and female). I don't hide my love of sex, but i don't ever talk about women as objects for sex, because thats not how i think, so nobody seems to think sex is a high priority for me. I'm reminded of a conversation i had with a friend where i mentioned my possession of a few toys. He jumped straight into "too bad you can't please women i bed". All i could do is smile. I wasn't going to bother trying to explain to him that sex can be so much more than pumping and sucking. I imagine he still thinks i have problems in that area, because he simply doesn't have the imagination to see me as someone who would have things like that because its fun rather than a necessity.
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RHP User
11 years ago
not as much now as I have mellowed a bit but I still get people who get to know me and they tell me that they used to be scared of me but I am actually a nice person once they got to know me, lol. One of my besties still reckons she would hate to cross me in a dark alley which makes me laugh seeing she is way bigger in stature than me and her husband and son are kickboxers.
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Supernova
11 years ago
In the online world I often get perceived as some arrogant, stupid, self-obsessed meat-head, and it couldn't be further from the truth! Anyone who has met me would vouch for that! But considering the nature of some of the responses I get to harmless messages - often defensive, rude and presumptuous - make me wonder how I could be so totally misconstrued. I guess there are so many dickhead males on dating sites being disgusting to women, that unfortunately many of us get put in the 'douschebag basket' before given a proper audience. In person, I never have such issues, as I'm light-hearted, easy going, and a good conversationalist, but unfortunately those traits don't often shine through online.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It got me thinking though about how others see us. If people knew you were on RHP what would their first thoughts be - kinky, sex crazy, weird, different, jealous. . Has anyone ever perceived you in a totally different way to what you actually are? . I am ever agog at the perceptions people have of me. Online and offline perceptions are quite different. . I've been told I have a friendly face a few times in the last couple of years, that came as a pleasant surprise compared to some comments in the past. . I don't really worry too much about people knowing I'm on here. I'm on facebook, I've 'liked' redhotpie on there, so anyone can see if they look. I know my kids weren't too surprised to find out we (me n the Mr) were on here. We have a tendency to be very open and not good at hiding things, lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get told all the time... I'm not going out of my way to do it, just take a while to warm up, especially in large groups where I don't know anyone. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
But I'm really a shy wallflower in real life. Softly spoken, if can get me talk, and quite demure.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I come across as a strong independent woman which i wont argue i am........but i can also be very emotional and burst into tears at times This has come as a shock to some Its not a case that we hide things from people its just sad that some people just see black and white instead of all the different colours that make up a person
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RHP User
11 years ago
They're 100% correct but there's always a lot more to a person than meets the eye
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RHP User
11 years ago
People just read my status and decide I am a married cheating little shit before they realise i am just like them only I live my life true and happy. Seriously though we all make assumptions and judgments on the impressions we get, if the information we receive is limited or inaccurate then mistakes will be made. I prefer to take my time, get to know someone properly, peel back the layers one by one until they are naked and true before me. Only then do I decide if I like the way they taste :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am really - a cunt.
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RHP User
11 years ago
People say I'm not good looking but I'm just single. People say I'm a hard person but I'm just rough around the edges. People say I'm a push over with kids needs but o hang on get got that one right lol... People say I'm odd but I'm just inventive. People say I'm easy going but I'm just lonely... I say I am what I am and I'm just myself :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Caring Understanding Nurturing Type Nahhhh.....😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was all set to answer this but I don't think I can. Not sure how people perceive me ? One thing I do know though is people who take the time to get to know me are pleasantly surprised, but that has been a life long issue, particularly with women is getting time for people to know me. Popularity has always been a stranger.But I also have no enemies. Hmmm.
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