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Personal Rules for Swinging, any suggestions?

January 30 2010

My hubby and I are attending a swinging party tonight and thinking about rules, does any one have any suggestions?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    1/ safe sex2/ Have fun3/ Keep an open mind4/ use your common sense5/ To many Rules is a mood killer6/ Have a few code words organised with your partner7/ dont drink to much....especially the guys !!!!!8/ Have fun9/ Have funCheers Nev....Its a full moon tonight!!......DoDoDoDoDo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Play as a couple Only play couple to couple Dont allow the Bi Girl pagrade to lock themselves in a room without their husbands and  leave their husbands to hit on the straight girls. Not nice, this was one the and only swing party experiance, as we thought swinging was a couple to couple adventure. If  we were to go to a swing party again....it will be we only couple to couple. Otherwise piss off!   Dont allow your wife to be  used because their wives are into girl girl and not cock....We can hear them saying yuk now to new cock ....and of course you will miss out as well.   But if Bi is the only reason for playing go for it and ignore our advise.   Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    There are far too many people (couples) who are only interested in threesomes but will meet couples and play with the woman, when its time to reciprocate it never happens.   Unfortunatley there is not much you can do regarding this, we try to talk to people as much as possible in advance about inter couple playing and they are all for it, however when everyone is naked different story.   Exploringfunnow - I only suggest you talk in advance together about possible scenarios and how you might think you feel about those if its your first time it can seem like a great idea until you are in the middle of it. Set some boundaries for your first time and stick to them remember there will always be a second time to explore further and if you meet a great couple they will be willing to take it slowly.   Apart from that go and enjoy yourselves.   J and R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    And encounters with couples.  And I agree tastietwo... only play couple to couple.  No ducking off with the other's partner leaving you to sit there.    Mrs D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thanks everyone for your advise. We ended up having an interesting night. Great fun. Unfortunately hubby had too much to drink and let himself down, too many nerves as well, but will go again. CI has my vote, mind you nothing to compare it with (yet)!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lol.. alcohol does that to me too, exploringfunnow. Try and find a milky bar next time. hehe...  :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    The technology is here to help with nerves and a little too much to drink....Viagra! Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Lol......See my post...rule No 7 Don't sweat it, most of us have been there!Cheers Nev