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Perth under 40 Event?

August 19 2019

As a follow up of my previous post I'm curious if any event organizers, clubs, or just any private people with a space available would be willing to collaborate in putting on a event for couples and single ladies under 40, or 35. I think there are many of us younger people who are new to the scene that would love coming together with people we can consider our peers. If anyone has any thoughts suggestions or ideas get back to me here as I'm only a "guest" (ahem too broke for premo) and can't message. If I had a place to do it I would host one in a heartbeat, a Las, my place of residence does not suffice. Cheers! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    They have a profile on here. Have a word with Mr Threesone parties

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Threesome

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Being the organiser sucks! Hitting up a club or party organiser and ask them if they'd be interested in putting something on like Koko suggested might be your best bet, but they might not be willing to alienate their usual market. Mr Giant and I hosted an under 35s event a couple of years ago now and I had so many negative comments from people about how ageist and rude it was to exclude over 35's, and they might hesitate to offend the people that are there every weekend. Our event was a HUGE success by our guest's accounts. The problem was that as the organiser I spent the whole night running around fixing problems, dealing with police when a husband got jealous and aggressive, consoling his drunk hysterical wife...while it was the hottest crowd, it was the least fun i've ever had at an event, I didn't even get a chance to properly talk to anyone. We had people messaging us for months after asking when the next one was - when YOU plan it, that's when! Never again. You could always organise a social event (Sundowners at a pub, BBQ at a beach etc.) where people can meet then get in contact later if they want to take it further? Miss Little xx

  • 3SM_Events

    3SM_Events

    6 years ago

    Don’t worry I’m used to offending people by now. You never can please everyone. When they want to put in the effort and host their own events I won’t cry if I’m excluded.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think, particularly after reading your comment, what a nightmare, your idea re hosting a social event would be much easier. If people hit it off, they can take it from there, even directly after if they so wish. I would keep it very casual, weather permitting even byo food and drink and have it outdoors somewhere. That way no money has to change hands, easy for people to wander around and talk to others without loud music and crowds. An initial introduction I guess, but with capped age. Regarding age, screw the older people who whine about it. Young people should be able to socialise with people their own age? Strange the way people get all bent out of joint about that when they are free to organise their own events

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Try a social meet first. We have had a few of them and the numbers attending ranged from 10 to 140. Its a great way for people to meet new friends/fwb etc.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Thanks for the info guys. Anyone know if I can post a event with a guest account??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hey littlegiant sorry to hear that, sounds hectic!!!. If I were to organize something it would be an air bnb for a night with drinks and limit to 4 couples max, unfortunately we are new to perth and the scene and have only met a few that we could think to invite. The idea of a meet and great sounds cool but not sure if I could organize it well having only a guest account :/ broke backpacker problems!!!

  • Slymon123

    Slymon123

    6 years ago

    Attended an under 40s event once at 103 and it was a great event. Met so many fun like minded people. Wpuld definitely go to another one if it popped up

  • D_Light

    D_Light

    6 years ago

    I Maybe 50 but my best friend is only 34, last relationship partner 39, last sexual partner 40. best multiple sexual partner 2018/2019 was 66 this is what makes RHP a great opportunity yo reduce barriersbut expand our horizons

  • 3SM_Events

    3SM_Events

    6 years ago

    Good to see someone actually doing something about it as opposed to just complaining about lack of venues etc. Any advice you need feel free to contact me. As I said if I wasn’t busy with work and other commitments in the timeframe mentioned I would’ve been happy to put something together for you. Hope it all goes to plan and if they want any events in the future after you leave let them know I’d be happy to help.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Noahway' Hey littlegiant sorry to hear that, sounds hectic!!!. If I were to organize something it would be an air bnb for a night with drinks and limit to 4 couples max, unfortunately we are new to perth and the scene and have only met a few that we could think to invite. The idea of a meet and great sounds cool but not sure if I could organize it well having only a guest account :/ broke backpacker problems!!! Yeah you won't get very far on a guest account unfortunately as how will you contact people to give them the details privately? I think Guests can advertise events but you won't be able to contact the people that register interest unless they message you and are upgraded. Be careful with the air bnb thing as well and check their terms of use, some places are strict about having guests there and i've heard of parties ending before they even started because they were dobbed in... Miss Little xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'D_Light' I Maybe 50 but my best friend is only 34, last relationship partner 39, last sexual partner 40. best multiple sexual partner 2018/2019 was 66 this is what makes RHP a great opportunity yo reduce barriersbut expand our horizons I have to disagree with this, age IS important. Sure there will always be exceptions but generally you have much more in common with people that are around your own age, so it makes sense to want to attend events with those you think you will 'click' with, not only socially but also sexually.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hey Dlight, I'm picking up what you are putting down. I'm 27 and my partner 30, and people peg me for 35 and her for 25. I get that. But I still think people in younger age brackets, especially those new to the scene, take comfort in joining people closer to their age. Once people make a connection and come out, they are more likely to be cool integrating with the scene at large at clubs and events.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hey all, just made a new post (sorry obnoxious I know) please go write your interest there if you would be keen to do a public meet and greet on a saturday in the near future

  • 3SM_Events

    3SM_Events

    6 years ago

    I think age is always going to be a factor though the older people in here will disagree. If I’m excluded from an event because of my age so be it. I understand 20 somethings not wanting 40 year olds trying to hit on them. There are plenty of open age events and parties. And once again if there isn’t one for your age/persuasion/kink or whatever nothing is stopping people from organising one themselves or contacting an organiser to ask them if they can help out.