M39
Piraña
November 19 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
being fresh meat gets more attention. It does taper off unless maybe you are drop dead gorgeous, you do get your groupies that like to check you out repeatedly too. For women, there are far more men online than women and it gets hard to do a search yourself when you are bombarded with men constantly contacting you so I imagine that the attention from the ladies would taper much more rapidly.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I joined I was shocked, I was getting 150 messages a day. However, I heard of someone who got 500 in one day. It does taper off, though. I certainly dont think Im special, it applies to all the new women on the site, and its just because of the sheer volume of men compared to women. However, I needed a confidence boost at the time, so it was very helpful to me, and most of the messages were really nice and respectful. Im just sorry I couldnt answer them all, because I dont want anyone to think I was up myself and ignored them. Profile views....well, I dont mind anyone looking, thats why I put up new pics, your profile is to get you noticed after all.
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
All women are special in their own way.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Smilingwithfun' All women are special in their own way. I am spesssh , a legend in my own lunch box. I used to get a shit load of mail, every day but not by the hundreds. Its all in the advertising I guess. When I put up pictures or change pictures it gets a big hit, like fishing. For women it only tapers off when you do. If you dumb down your profile and have no pictures , yes you still get a few messages every day, but not the hordes of people looking. Some are also attracted by the forum posts. Or repelled by them depending on your point of view. The rhp sexy and the real sexy are often poles apart, its like going into jail your a two when you get too the gate, but then you turn into a 102 once you get inside the gates. Rhp provides its own kinda beer goggles.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Smilingwithfun' All women are special in their own way. Oh dear, I don't know why but that made me feel very ordinary in my own special way.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Green with envy because as a mere male, and excluding messages from other males (please don't stop), I think maybe I have managed to attract about 150 unsolicited messages from women over the past 7 years, And I say "about" in a very optimistic way. Luckily I am very good at self delusional grandeur, the type that makes 1 look like 100 but then I believe that is not so rare a quality amongst us men. It begs the question of course, and I know there must be some high demand guys lurking here abouts. What the numbers are for the studs. Purely just out of idol curiosity, and partly to find out if I need to lift my game? Is it at all possible for a man to have that "jean es say qua" quality that attract the type of numbers the Linx adverts suggest are possible.
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Caduceus
11 years ago
Thank you for the responses so far. Having that much attention would initially be great for ones self esteem, but at hundreds of attempts at interaction a day I would quit the site haha. You would surely have to ignore a lot of them in order to do any searching of your own. I guess that's another question, how often do ladies search through profiles as opposed to finding people by incoming messages?
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you are at the Parade on Saturday and spot little old me, come and say Hi.... xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Will do KokoFlamingo, should be easy enough to spot a fellow RHPer in that conservative crowd. Sucks being a guest would have been nice to have a chat.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do sometimes search according to my age preference, but I dont often send flirts incase I appear too forward? Which might sound strange given the nature of the site, but Im a bit old fashioned. Or just old....
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6exxy
11 years ago
Hope you have fun. Soon you will have your daks off posing. That will add some traffic. The girls like visiting guys that bare it all.
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6exxy
11 years ago
I didn't think you would be that shy? Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' I do sometimes search according to my age preference, but I dont often send flirts incase I appear too forward? Which might sound strange given the nature of the site, but Im a bit old fashioned. Or just old....
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Caduceus
11 years ago
I wouldn't go as far to say you're old, you certainly don't look it and judging by your photos I'm sure you don't feel it. Old fashion I'll have to take your word for though
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RHP User
11 years ago
In fact not too much at all- which was good I think I would find that many messages intimidating. I have stayed pretty steady over the whole 3 years. I tend to use all my messages everyday and enjoy searching and flirting. Xxviolet
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RHP User
11 years ago
In fact not too much at all- which was good I think I would find that many messages intimidating. I have stayed pretty steady over the whole 3 years. I tend to use all my messages everyday and enjoy searching and flirting. Xxviolet
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Caduceus
11 years ago
Haha cheers for the advice but I've already had my kit off mate. There is something liberating/cheeky (pub intended) about it, perhaps even more so when it's for a complete stranger.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for the nice comments, and I am actually quite shy till I get to know someone, I probably appear very confident but it's mostly cyber confidence. Oh, Chronos, I can't see your Kit off pics, damn!
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