Places for meeting a females for fun as a couple.

I have a regular friend I play with and we have been trying unsuccessfully to find a third to play with. I would say we have a lot to offer but every time we seem to find genuine people time frames just don't seem to match up as I travel a bit for work and things just peda out. We are thinking hitting a bar in Melbourne, as it might be the best place to go. But as we are new to this sort of thing and we need some guidance.. Whilst a swingers party might be the way to go we'd like to take it slow and just meet someone in a bit more of a of a social type environment. There seem to be plenty of women out there wanting to be with woman/ couple but they don't exactly wear a sign saying so. I am sure there has to be bar or lounge where this sort of thing is the norm or is a good start. As a novice of picking up women as a couple I'd be keen to know if women who like to be with couples prefer to be picked up by the man or the woman? Ive spent some time discussing this with people I am of the opinion as a woman I'd prefer the female to pick me up. But I might be totally wrong.