Planning awkwardness

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  NeoAndTrin

  11 months ago

  I'd say try not think about it. Even tell yourself nothing may happen that way if anything does it seems completely spontaneous. Try to get any future thoughts out of your head. Or go to a club and let anything that develops with others organically evolve.

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  FeistyFatty

  11 months ago

  U pass that step by actually doing it. You'll be right then. Nothing to be nervous about.

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  Ex007

  11 months ago

  Always have a meet and great first and if everyone agrees meet up a week later. The suspense 🔥

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  nightingale8

  11 months ago

  You gotta get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Or just get good at being super charismatic. The former is easier! Tbh oftentimes it can take me a little time to relax a bit. Or I think it’s just OK at the beginning and not all that turned on. I know not to have too many expectations and just go with it. If the connection is right and I’m not in my head, honestly it’s not long til things really get heated up and I think how ridiculous I was second guessing the situation. I’ve been lucky to have never had a bad experience but I have had some average ones. It’s not the end of the world if you don’t have a mind blowing time every single time. Take your time, don’t rush, it’s ok to have a little awkwardness. And remember, you’re not that important (so relax)

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  Andrea_Sydney

  11 months ago

  To me it sounds like you are not ready. It’s very different to play inside a fantasy that you control. When real people are involved things might not go as your fantasies. I think it might be helpful for you guys to talk more about it amongst yourselves. What are you hoping to happen, what would you be worried about, how would you feel if such and such detail would happen, etc. You will get a clearer picture of what you want and what your boundaries will be. Then you can start talking to other people in a clear and sexy way about it.

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  Libertine06

  11 months ago

  Probably you’re all right! For us, personally, is not to be ready or not, (since we are open to that) but we never had the chance because of busy life at night or on weekends. So enjoining parties or meeting is always hard and needs planning in advance…that’s where we see the anxiety to be ready for it

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  Raymonte1

  11 months ago

  There is definitely quality male players but hard to get noticed with lots of profiles who bombs them

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