kinky19871991

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May 22 2016

just can't quite find the right person are we to picky - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Ummm maybe its your profile? Pusscat xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's looks and sounds like so many others has nothing in it that stands out.Miss spelling as stupid as people may find it can be a turn off for many potential playmates. Work on your profile and read through the 100 other forum posts asking about profiles and tips.Also meet & greets, have a look in the events and clubs section, parties are far easier to meet potential playmates.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    And if you want someone kinky, how come you have nothing under fetishes? Pusscat xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sorry, can I suggest that Mrs puts abit of her input into the profile commentary. Using the word horny every few sentences is a very young male thing to do. Otherwise, maybe you are being too picky. Depends. What are some of the reasons why you have turned someone down? I agree with Adelaide3, events and parties are a good way of meeting people in the scene which often leads to lots of fun times. Just depends how open minded and adventurous you both are. Group sex is lots of fun - doesn't always just have to be 3. :) Good luck! Candy

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    if you feel up to it, perhaps some of the what'sies for that person to be the right one ?, do you have any concerns about how you guys will feel for each other when this person is fucking your partner, lover, best friend, lovebirds ? Personally we have had a mixed bag with people and playing up, we only do this together and that has been tested a couple of times by both guys and 'unicorns' :p, it puts a damper on things and the sex is ordinary because of it. The right person for us, is a person that we enjoy sharing what we have together and, (this is important) that person is just as much a part of things as either of us, that person has feelings and something special to bring and share of them self with us as ourselves, just because we are partners doesn't mean we are anything more or less than that person we hope is right for a good fun and passionate sexual experience. When three work together and the sex becomes 'fluent', ideas shared and in the case a threesome mfm,(or visa versa) the female has a bit of a task in best interests, keeping it as not one or the other guys is left out for the chances the other guy seeks more time doing his thing, oral, fucking, anything where intimacy is a thing, easier said than done and time stands still when intimate, an hour may only feel like a few minutes in the moment, an hour can be a long time witnessing (especially a partner if lost in the moments and fizzing at the bung, the passion), it's different than what one feels with normal, usual sex with the other in a relationship, feelings can arise that need to be reckoned with in very little time, is it uncomfortable because of a problem, disrespect, dishonesty, manipulation, boundaries ignored, instincts in protecting a threat of a kind? Then there is a chance 'the green eyed monster' surfaces and that's a powerful emotion, seen it effect people and see a side of them you'd never expect, even with people you may have known for years, it's an emotion that will have people do and be nasty, angry, possessive, anti social, fucking physcho, hard one to manage, if you have that emotion you need to bring it too the table, not deny it and go into something where other people are involved. Either way there is feelings going to come and be reasoned with , at any moment and that is where those other people matter most and if you have a good positive frame of mind, a caring nature, and good communication, that other person is not so hard to find, most people want to enjoy other people's company, we believe anyhow. Good luck it can be an awesome experience. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...some good stuff here already so will try not to be repetitive. Maybe try just expanding on your current profile and clean it up a bit? It does seem to wander around a bit and lets face it, if you want to fly from Melbourne to Sydney, you don't go up to Townsville first. There's also a fine line between being succinct and carping on about how hot (or not) you perceive yourselves to be. It's all about perceptions until you go nose to nose or toes to toes. Best......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Dont jump threw hoops . Put what you want to put down. Be yourselfs. Not what other people want you to be. Less is best sometimes. Its rear people have been what you read on here. If people dont want to meet , because of a few spelling mistakes. Up them . Im sure you will meet lots . Just takes time - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When you criticise someone's spelling,make sure of your own,misspelt is one word Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When you criticise someone's spelling,make sure of your own,misspelt is one word Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I guess that depends on why you are turning them down. I do think that being already attached does allow you the luxury of waiting for exactly what you are looking for because you're likely already satisfied at home so you are just looking to add to that.. if you really want a specific thing why not just wait it out . However , if this is on your to do list and needed to be done yesterday then perhaps you will need to compromise.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think all boils down to peoples randomness and general emotional level at the time and ultimately your profile needs to be continually updated and changed tom suit your evolition while on the site,Troy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You missed the obvious one that they "through" on the table lol 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The profile reads like an overconfident and underexperienced 17yo boy wrote it after watching way too much porn. Not that appealing really. (Your move) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Can never be too picky. :) Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Qefenta1' When you criticise someone's spelling,make sure of your own,misspelt is one word Q When you criticize someone about their spelling when they are trying to be helpful, it may help to spell in English not American after all this is where half of the spelling mistakes come from in the first place. Oh and it helps if you space between a comma and the following word. *criticise (American) *criticize (English)

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Criticise is the preferred British spelling, related words are criticises, criticised, criticizing. The North American spelling of criticize is also considered correct and ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' Criticise is the preferred British spelling, related words are criticises, criticised, criticizing. The North American spelling of criticize is also considered correct and ... I doubt anyone will go as far as calling her names nor should they, but if she was not adding a post in order to help OP with their dilemma why bother? It's hardly constructive when you see glaring errors in OP profile in comparison to inadvertently adding a space to a word, a bit like not putting a space after a comma poor grammar. Seems pointless to me but then i have better things to do.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So you let someone know that some people find spelling mistakes off putting. You don't say that you personally find it off putting yourself, you even go so far to say that it's a bit stupid that people judge others for that. And you get slammed for that? For telling the truth without putting any of your own judgement on it. Wow. I say totally unfair and biased view that has been put forward by some. Mischeciouslad, haha. Taking it that one step further. ;))

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    OP... are you too picky? This is a question you have to ask yourself and reflect on your interactions and expectations with those you ahve been in touch with and personally interacted. Nobody can answer your question as we are not privy to your interactions. What exactly are you looking for aside from attractive. All the criteria you have listed in your profile is very subjective. Maybe you are looking for supermodels? Maybe not. Race specific? height? But that is not clear in your profile. The more specific you are, the more people can see if they fit the criteria of your playmates. Standards are very subjective. Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. As what others have said, you may need to just clean up your profile to make it sound like there are two of you looking for a playmate rather than just the male. Lol. Best of luck and report to HQ on progress...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... as I doubt too many would want to miss that relaxing comma or have a period in the wrong place. Or a ''full stop'' mucked up at the wrong age. Back on topic... good luck and keep your head down.

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Qefenta1' When you criticise someone's spelling,make sure of your own,misspelt is one word Q It could also be a typo error by MrAdelaide. Personally, I do make lots of typos when I post as sometimes I rush through typing my posts in my stupid little phone and forget to spell check. Most of the time, this happens during a coffee break between meetings or during my lunch breaks. Half the time, I have to blame the mayo seeping out of my sushi onto my screen. I just press the button and let people figure it out. Lol. I could feel my ears burning as I can imagine my haphazardly typed posts can be hell to the Grammar Nazis. Back to regular programming. Play nice people...... xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I always use the American 's' and not the 'z', just because, well just because, I like it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A spelling error in the forum is of little consequence everyone makes mistakes, however when looking at a profile that is designed to attract people it can be off putting. What's more off putting is being on a "adult" website while a 62 year old child take things off topic and does not bother helping OP to begin with. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I always use the Americans...well just because, I like it Hey what's not to like? I am very partial to them too although Norwegians are still my favourite!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You've replied with quote and then obviously changed my text. If you're going to quote, please leave my words as mine. Thank you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    'Twas merely an attempt at a small bit of humour and largely at my own expense. I will refrain from quoting any or all content of your posts in the future. Regards... MC the Norwegian American

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Kinkys, do you feel your question was answered? I just want to know, who's the kinkest, Americans or English?? 🙊😄🙈 Ms Foxy