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Play time? Not chat but for real..
December 19 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
You want to get a couple to your place to play with you alone, or with you and your partner? (In which case, where does he fit in to the story?) As for your question, I've played with couples both alone and with a male friend and I've never met with a couple at their place for a first date. As a single woman I wouldn't go to the home of people I've never met for safety reasons anyway, but apart from that I feel there may be certain expectations. Meeting somewhere public is more relaxed for me and lets me feel much more in control of what happens.
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RHP User
10 years ago
?? Raises the question, just saying
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree I wouldn't meet at the house first up.. invite them out for a drink
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its pretty easy really. If all are attracted to each other then a meet is arranged. For us its hotels, neutral ground, no stress. Set a date and meet up.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ever thought of saying "wanna go grab a drink Friday night?"
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RHP User
10 years ago
May not be comfortable for the people you are meeting. I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable going to someone's house for a first meet, possibly not even for a second. I'm sure it's comfortable for you - it's your home ground, after all. But perhaps if you are having trouble getting people to commit to that, you might want to rethink that strategy. You also might want to rethink the strategy of insulting someone who replied to your question ... given that she is, as you say, apparently queen of the forums, a great many people may notice your post sitting there in obscurity because she replies to it, and pop along and comment, giving you some more advice and feedback. Perhaps being defensive when answering a clarifying question may not be the best way to go, if you're genuinely after some feedback. JMHO though. :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
go you Charles Manson lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why bother to post if you don't want people to respond..I agree with PG,your comments to Meander were unnecessary and rude .
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Thank you coupleupforfun1 for showing everyone your offensive behaviour and true colour very early very soon, by name calling Meander for her opinion, which obviously doesn't sit well with you! Now, may I remind you that many members (including many couples) do indeed come and read in the forums, but choose not to make any comment for their own reasons. Therefore, how you have behaved and reacted to Meander's comment earlier has been seen! Hence, good luck to you for finding the sexy couples that you are after! Oh and this is the second time I responded to your second thread in a row. Go on and sue me for reminding you how badly you have behaved in this particular forum! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
How defensive you all are. I don't think the OP was rude or made an offensive comments really but you have all jumped down her throat with very little reason. Sweetgem... Are you serious?
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madotara69
10 years ago
Your fizzing at the bung to play up with some women and arouse the fellows to derive sexual gratification from observing the naked bodies or sexual acts as an enthusiastic and dare I say passionate woman as yourself, her, they, especially from a secret vantage point. Crikey, tonight you could let yourself go with two, three even.., women and whatever transpires.. it's ladies rules and respected. Question is.. Where do you draw the line with foreplay and fucked by these insatiable kinky spunks ?, because and I'll try draw a picture to explain....Heading out to sea in a storm and punching into mountains of swelling waves one after another consuming all your very being as you loose all bearings of where anything else exists, just you and the waves of pure energy rocking your world and at what point do you make the call with turning about thinking..'no more, I can't take any more of this' ? Thinking it's worth thinking of these types of situations you could be getting yourself into and that's about where chatting, chit chat, texting lol, is holding you back, sexually frustrating and wasting time could be better spent in amongst it all perhaps. Mado Mado Tara xx
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Why only picked my name when there are others that have made defensive comments too? Oh I get it, it's because I have been attacked many times before and so I am seen as an easy target to pick on, right? And because I am no longer allowed to make any more comment in the Forums, yeah? Good on you for not seeing what offensive line the OP has stated, and for being an angel to the OP. Your last line to pick only my name out of the few is really a clever and respectful move! The show is all yours and farewell :-) And yes, I am serious! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Angel_Whisper' How defensive you all are. I don't think the OP was rude or made an offensive comments really but you have all jumped down her throat with very little reason. Sweetgem... Are you serious? I do think accusing someone of being "queen of the forums" and questioning whether they must reply to everything is a bit rude. However, I don't think I jumped down the OP's throat - I addressed her question, as much as I could based on what was relevant to me, then made an observation, that might perhaps make her interactions on the forums a bit more positive. Again, just my opinion. I'm not here to force anything down anyone's throat - well, not on the forums, at least! ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Coupleupforfun1'Wow, do you respond to every post?No it's not me alone, it's w my man.. i like hosting here, it's a nice and comfortable environment.. maybe you didn't mean that post to come out quite as it "sounded" - but some people like to read and respond on a lot of topics. Maybe you only expected couples to respond, but plenty of people here have varied experiences and viewpoints they think might help, so they post. Anyway, make the leap and ask when you've sussed out whether you'd like to meet them or not. Rather than asking to your home, what about asking them to a pub/bar nearby to your place? Then you can all meet on neutral ground, and if things go well "hey, our place is just down the road... come over and check out our record collection" (or whatever line the kids are using these days)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sweetgem, Patchworkgirl and Freya.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well .. what has been the sticking point? You said it has been either you or them - so only you or them can detail what is going wrong. Personally there is no way I'd do a first meet at someone's house, and they resisting a meet in a public place is a bit of a red flag. I wouldn't say that everyone is the same, but I'm sure many people would feel much more comfortable meeting in public first. Good to see you're now verified, hope that helps. Some couple photos in your public gallery would be awesome. By the way I also answered in one of your other threads *waves* Cousin of the butler.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is a couple profile who is insulting others... 2 weeks ago there was the thread about "so called single women" now a couple goes at the very first person who responds to their pots and brings it out of the depths of nowhere so that other people can contribute....IF anything I would be thankful for the additional exposure of my topic so that it gets some responses and does not fade away as so many others do... these topics are helpful to me, they re-confirm my decision that I will not ever consider couples.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
You haven't provided much detail as to why you aren't having success, so I am going to keep this general and hope I don't end up with an earful for my troubles. I'd suggest you ask them the following (all ideas tried and tested by many on this site). You may already do all of this, you may only do some of it. These have worked successfully for a lot of people - single and couples. Oh, in case you think what would she know, I have had a couples profile on this site and know what I am talking about. :) - Move beyond chatting via this site or kik or text, and ask for the woman of the couple to call you. You can then ensure that there actually IS a female. If there is a continuous round of excuses why she can't chat, then pull the plug on any further communication, because chances are there is not a female in the other 'couple'. - Make sure you ask them what they are seeking, it's only fair to see if your fantasies line up with theirs. Because the best connections happen when we realise its not only about us and what we want, but how we can connect with others. - Suggest a drink in a public place to chat and get to know each other - at least to the extent that you can ascertain if there is any connection in person. That's for your safety and for theirs. What would you do if you skipped this step, asked them straight to your house and only a male turned up who bears NO resemblance to the 6ft 6pack adonis you had expected? Are you prepared to deal with an angry and frustrated man who thought he could bluff his way into house and into your pussy? -Your home is your sanctuary. Personally I take great care about who I invite to my home. Not everyone is who they say they are, and not everyone is trustworthy. - Go meet some people at a swingers club. Play there. If you like them enough, keep in contact and then maybe play at your house. Good luck!
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RHP User
10 years ago
To answer your question. Yes she does. Lol.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
Any other couple should/will be applying the same guidelines. So how do they know if you are what you say you are? Pics of you (the female) are one thing, being able to talk to you and your partner, meet in public, and play at a neutral place may be of more comfort to them. Hell, you could have 50 discrete cameras hidden around your home and they may find themselves the stars on an amateur porn site!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have seen a comment were you mention you work with children, I am not sure is this makes you a teacher? But if you were teaching a class of children or adults and one child said. "Wow are you the queen, do you answer every question". Would you encourage every other child to attack? To say thank you for showing who you are because now nobody will be friends with you, etc. I would like to believe that you wouldn't, despite your response here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have always said....."Love your work Boi"
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your initial post had 'i' and 'me' within it, surely you would refer to the two of you as 'we' or 'us' ?? You haven't really explained this. Raises reg flags for me on a few different levels but this flag was already up. To start a new topic and then rip into everyone who responds is pointless
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RHP User
10 years ago
To Angel has been removed,but I will say again,I know who you are,and I will not respond to your posts again..good luck with this incarnation.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Coupleupforfun1'Quoting 'Meander'You want to get a couple to your place to play with you alone, or with you and your partner? (In which case, where does he fit in to the story?) As for your question, I've played with couples both alone and with a male friend and I've never met with a couple at their place for a first date. As a single woman I wouldn't go to the home of people I've never met for safety reasons anyway, but apart from that I feel there may be certain expectations. Meeting somewhere public is more relaxed for me and lets me feel much more in control of what happens. Wow, do you respond to every post?No it's not me alone, it's w my man.. i like hosting here, it's a nice and comfortable environment.. I was going to respond as I thought I could give some tips but now I'm thinking the problem is with you? Your sounding quite entitled, also because elsewhere you say it's hard to find women who suit you. Have you considered you might not suit them? It's about giving as much as taking, remember that and you'll have more luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Angel_Whisper' I have seen a comment were you mention you work with children, I am not sure is this makes you a teacher? But if you were teaching a class of children or adults and one child said. "Wow are you the queen, do you answer every question". Would you encourage every other child to attack? To say thank you for showing who you are because now nobody will be friends with you, etc. I would like to believe that you wouldn't, despite your response here. Are you saying children have the same accountability for their actions as adults? I hope not, and a child saying something out of line is very different than a grown up saying it and therefore the reaction should be different too.
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