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Playmates in the Regular World...

September 09 2012

I have wondered how we might react if we came across playmates in a regular encounter. I don't mean you might just see them in the street or at the shops, but what about if you were conducting official business and there was a playmate on the other side of the counter? You and they may have your RHP aliases for your swinging fun but if you were paying the power bill, the phone bill, renewing the car reg, banking, where you need to hand over all your real personal details, name, date of birth, address... Would you continue with the transaction if a playmate is at the counter, would you wait for the next person or maybe just walk away to another branch (if possible) or maybe wait another day... perhaps even make your transaction online (although this is not always my preference)... What would you do? Mr 2andmore...

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Paradisepair

13 years ago

On how positive the sexual encounter was. Me, I'd have fun with it.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I had close call not so long ago. My daughter answered an add to share a house, off gumtree. she rings me and then says I cant find this darn house and give me the address yes It was a lovers house a guy she thought was hot, when she meet him. Younger man. I hit the panic button and sent him a text Said please do not let the woman in front of you share a house with you. He must have thought I was some stalker outside his house, watching him. I had to explain the situation and he was very good about it , told her later that sorry that he had another choice. I have no idea what I would do, I think it would depend how much I thought I could trust that person but probably I would walk away if I could. my situation is that I like to keep my play mates separate. Just in case things go pear shaped. Though this does not mean I do not share some information as some are also good friends now. Trust needs to be developed over time

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RHP User

13 years ago

That's hilarious.. @2andmore4funTo risck encounters like that you'd need loads of play mates.. So I think I'm pretty safe.Good topic though ~smile~

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Innercircle

13 years ago

We both come across RHPers in general life and business. Some we've played with, mostly though, we haven't. Some of our playmates and closer RHP friends integrate us into their non swinging lives, and vis-a-versa. They are a bunch of people that take part in a lifestyle we subscribe to. It's really not an issue for us. We had 20 or so guess at our wedding that are members here. I guess it would be different if you wanted absolute discretion in life. We're happy with our choices. There wouldn't be awkwardness at all.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Years ago when I first got on RHP and has only just started meeting couples I was living in Sydney in a nice new subdivision where everyone in the street knew each other. I got this message from a couple in my suburb and they gave me access to their private photos and it was my next door neighbours!!! My flatmates were all guys and if they had ever found out I would never have live it down so that was a definite no go... so I simply never replied and they never knew it was me because I didn't have a face pic on there. Nowadays though well that would be rather handy ;)

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DonnaBrett

13 years ago

We don't lead a secret life, we use our real names, real photos etc etc (we are hopeless liars so we'd only screw that up if we tried to play the Batman / Bruce Wayne thing anyway LOL). We get recognised sometimes when out & about, Donna has served swinging customers at her workplace. Sometimes people will say something or give a sly look. We have played with regular friends who were curious and we've become good friends with many playmates..we now mix both at birthday parties and such. We have NEVER had any negative reactions. Besides, even if you want to lead a double life and you do run into swingers in your real world, they are in the same position so what's it matter?If you want to keep part of your life totally secret then swinging is probably not for you...remember, every swinger is someone's mother, father, brother, sister, cousin ,uncle, aunt, son, daughter, friend etc etc etc. The chances are you'll eventually run into someone you know or are related to. We all have rellies like cousins that we don't even know, it would be very easy to meet them at a club or party, fuck them and then if you became more social over time somehow find out that you are related.....think about that scenario!! Hahahaha

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RHP User

13 years ago

I work in a fairly high profile job and am the front face for that industry .. have had quite a few contacts here .. who when viewing their profiles .. I have realized they are clients of my work place .. so unfortunately I work on the "too close to home principle" and decline their invite to play .. I have had the opposite .. as well .. where a play friend became a client of my industry .. but he has kept it to him self to date ..

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RHP User

13 years ago

I wasn't bothered by it except for being a little embarrassed at not recognisng her myself. She had to explain who she was. My boss was amused by it.

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RHP User

13 years ago

....presume just because your both swingers it makes sense to play together. We know a few different couples from our vanilla life on here and for the most part its fine - an inside joke really. Except when it comes to turning them down....just awkward.....hahaha

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