Pleasing Everyone and insecurities

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Hi there, Just responding to your post on the forum about swinging. We have been on the scene for over 15 years and i thought i would let you know some of the things we have found. FIRSTLY you should always have on your profile that "Practise SAFESEX ALWAYS. Most couples and singles will not respond to someone that puts "if required" as this usually means they have had unprotected sex. That is just a note for you. Couples International attracts a large number of single ladies and they feel safe and secure at our venue, they are here for the same reasons as anyone, to simpy have a good chat and a game of pool, and or the watch what goes on, and or to play if they choose. Most of them are not here for relationships. 1.The enterance fee is not large to enter a swingers venue. $100 for a single guy. or $80 a couple this is non member prices. Then everything you get inside the venue is free, soft drinks, tea coffee, use of rooms, towels, cleaners, staff to serve your drinks, free pool table, free condoms and lube and much more. If you were to go out on the town as a couple $40 per person or a couple or $100 as a single i am sure you would not get the use of a room and all your softdrinks and everything else for free for that low cost. Not to mention use of a room or rooms and allthe bondage gear that you wish to use and borrow for the night free of charge. 2. To be a single guy in this lifestyle is a hard thing, they have been stereo typed and dont get a warm welcome at all. I would hate to becoming into the scene as a single guy. We take great pride in our single guys and the efforts and the respect that they give to all our patrons. We are not like any other venues or house parties around, so to enter as a single guy at our venue you must register on our website and follow the guidelines. Other venues abd house parties will just allow any single guys to ring and book we dont.. 3. Couples that enter the lifestyle are not usually pushed , they have talked about the lifestyle at length and enjoy the lifestyle together. They have set out their rules and boundries and know exactly what they want out of the lifestyle. 4. You must remember that the couples that attend venue are not after relationships but merely SEX or just a good time to chat and meet people. Our venue is NOT about sex but about alternative lifestyle and comfort within each others boundries., and or simply to meet lifeminded adults and to explore ourselves in a safe enviroment. When our patrons come through the door it is about them and no one else, they make their own decisions about what they want to do. If you were to go to a room with a couple, you must abide by their rules and you should have some of your own as well. These rules should be shared prior to entering play. At any time anyone gets uncomfortable the play ceases if that is made known. We are about choice and respect . Last but not least please go to our site and on the homepage and under the SINGLE GUY SECTION ON THE LHS OF THE HOMEPAGE, please read "The Introducion Handbook Guide to Couples International." That is our advice and we hope it was a little helpful to you. Couples International

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